I dont really know this girl very much but she has a bad reputation. She had an affair with a married man and had twins by him and she has been known to sell pills from time to time. I saw her selling pills the other day with her kids in the car. Should I call the proper authorities or mind my own business?
2006-12-07 07:27:38 · 33 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
call the authorities. What happens in your own community and neighborhood with regards to illegal activities IS your own business.
2006-12-07 07:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is a tough one!
If you turn her in, it is a good possibility that her kids will be taken away from her. That may be a good thing, or on the other hand, maybe not!
Unless you think her children are in danger, I think you should probably mind your own business. She may be desperate to make money to feed her children. I'm not saying that selling drugs is the way to do that, but some people have very limited resources and feel like they have no choice.
Maybe a better choice would be to try to become her friend and help her. Don't believe rumors! They are usually only about 1/2 true, and you shouldn't judge.
Whatever you decide, be careful!!!
2006-12-07 07:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to turn someone in. But then you'll make an enemy, and screw up her kids minds (unless they are babies) by placing them into foster care (which 2out of three times is horrible [my brothers were in foster homes]). Sure you might get patted on the back by police and some people, but NOBODY likes a rat.
It's a long shot but maybe those pills are prescription drugs for people who actually need it. The safety and well being of the kids come first. Try and get some help for the girl and the children by way of a social worker before anybody heads to jail.
2006-12-07 07:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by angelicusbeefus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call the authorities if she's known for her bad reputation you should turn her in i mean selling drugs while she has her kids in the car with her that's not right she must be crazy or something.
2006-12-07 07:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I get her E-mail address
WOW, at first I was trying to be funny, only because I thought the answer and feed back from other would be obvious. (and received 2 thumbs down) but I can't believe the number of people out there that think it's O.K. to sell drugs in front of your kids to feed them. GET A CLUE! This is a text book case of child abuse. Yes, report her to the authorities (police and social services). There are plenty of strict programs that can help this person such as a jail alternative know as drug court and regular visits from social services to insure that these unfortunate people are receiving the proper care. Also, as a recovering addict I can tell you that I have never seen a drug dealer in which the dealer wasn't the biggest customer. The person that owes a dealer the most money is usually the dealer and the only thing being fed is her addiction, consequently the kids suffer even more not to mention that Innocent people are in grave danger (you, me,the police ect..). If you ignore this you are as guilty as her.
2006-12-07 07:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by IM hip 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Mind your own business, why because she may be selling drugs to support her kids, and what if you did turn her in...where would her kids go, more than likely if she is selling drugs and had sex with a married man then her self-esteem is not very high, plus she probably does not have much family. So no I would not turn her in I would mind my Business.
2006-12-07 07:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell the proper authorites if she is doing it around her kids. tell the guys wife that he is having an affiar with someone else. she is an unfit parent for doing something like that in front of her kids.
keep trying to do someting about it if you can. have your local paper write and article about that. and then maybe something will happen to that girl she might go to jail for a long time. and if you dont do anything she will be doing the same thing that she is doing now but only worse.
2006-12-07 07:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by dkcaywood2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to say yeah turn her *** in... but before you decide anything think about the future try and see both aspects.. if you turn her in, what will happen to the kids they'll probly end up and foster homes leave the rest of their lives knowing their mom was a whore who sold pills for money, and did this at their expense cause she obviously didnt care... and if you dont turn her in she'll probly raise the kids bad, they most likely start doing drugs and end up being criminals,, well there are some choices feel free to decide
2006-12-07 07:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by anthony86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
appears like you've subject matters which could have grew to grow to be your ex gf off-jealousy, greed, the opt to "get decrease back" at someone who hurts you. someone won't be able to "thieve" yet another individual--it really is too undesirable you curiously do not realize this theory. My question to you "no longer that i'm adverse to drugs" guy: why did not you call him out earlier your ex began putting with him? if you're no longer adverse to drugs, why did you drop a dime on him besides? Your lady LEFT you...he did not thieve her. settle for responsibility on your area of a failed relationship.
2016-11-24 21:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by kulpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you and I did'nt know her very well and there was no way of her finding out it was you than yes I would. I have kids myself, that would bother me alot to see that. That's just like listening to some guy beat up his girlfriend and you can hear it above you in an apartment! I would call on that too.
2006-12-07 07:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋