Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

why is it that some guys will get mad at their girl for cheating when they are doing the same thing. whats good for the goose is good for the gander right?

2006-12-07 15:04:06 · 12 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

I'd ike to visit my family's home but they keep dogs in the house and I've an allergy to dogs. There is otherwise a good relationship but it seems they care more about the dogs than they do about me (why not keep the dogs out of the house so I can visit on weekends?).

2006-12-07 15:03:36 · 5 answers · asked by johnsmith32795 1 in Family

Now I feel like its my fault! What should I do? He has a girlfriend and I'm stuck in a dump!

2006-12-07 15:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by Cathy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl i really like told her friend she might date me when we get to college.When she's more mature. I offer her a lot of emotional support ....She calls me every day and talks to me about her problems. And were really good friends, but she says were just friends now.Were juniors in High School. I really like her, and ive known her since the beginning of septimber. She got dissed by this one guy she liked( and a friend of mine)....And he asked her out for me, but she said no.And she might switch schools for next semester( and she just got to my school.) I like her so much it hurts and she messes with my emotions alot, and were even exchanging Christmas presents .....I don't know what to do, ive never had a a crush this bad before.....

2006-12-07 15:03:14 · 8 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

really hurt me and my 2 kids when he moved out of our home under false pretenses only to move in with his girlfriend he has been cheating with for a year? Said he needs time to think and rest but he was cheating. Its been tough and he knows we are not happy but doesn't seem to care or just says whatever and I just want to shake sense into him for being a dumb ***. I'm hurt and tired any tips?

2006-12-07 15:02:43 · 16 answers · asked by Octavia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm confused, i dont know if i like him, or its just me.. desperate to be in love with sumeone..i'm 18 btw.. i mean.. maybe im just telling myself i like him because all my frens have boyfrens already.. and i want one too..the worse thing is.. its on9..people say on9 relationships dont work..so at the same time..i am afraid of rejection.. i mean.. if im not up to his "expectations" ...

2006-12-07 15:02:41 · 1 answers · asked by [MiA] 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I don't know what to do here. I am torn between following my heart (go for it!!!) and following my mind (no girl...don't mess with your coworkers).

I've fallen for a coworker/friend. I have never felt like this for anyone in my entire life. My body goes numb when he passes and there is the type of chemistry that I have never encountered in my 36 years of life. I've tried to go about my business hoping these feelings will go away but they haven't. My feelings have intensified.

I even go on dates with other guys to get rid of these feelings.

I know messing with coworkers is very taboo. However, I cannot stuff my feelings away either. This is intense.

I think he likes me the same.

2006-12-07 15:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He works at peets on battery

2006-12-07 15:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by chichen_house 1 in Weddings

Alright, look, I have just decided that me liking this one girl is about to drive me nuts. Look I am in highschool now and i recently got out of a two year relationship. No like two monthes after that happened i met this girl. At first she wasnt anything to me, but then one football game I got to know her and i became crazy abbout her. But the only problem is my freakin self confidense, i mean, trust me im confident, and loud and funny(so im told) but when i get around her i just get locked up and nervous. Hell, im nervous typin this stupid question. But i seriously need some advise here. Everytime i get around her I get very very self concious. I start to think the worst of my self, then i end up making a fool of myself cuase i cant make freakin eye contact with her, or hold a conversation with her for longer than ten minutes. I mean, its embarasing. I have written poems about her, played songs ony my guitar about her, you gotta understand that i might love her. MIGHT. i mean, i just

2006-12-07 15:01:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 15:01:38 · 12 answers · asked by fobspeicher2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you read my other ques.than you know they all want me to break up with him thay say hes ruining my rep what do i do?

2006-12-07 15:00:51 · 8 answers · asked by rockchick182 2 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my crush yesterday
We are both seniors at high school
I have been secretly crushing on this girl and hinting her

we were talking about movies (i just got back from it at that time) so she suggested some other ones that i should see

then she followed up with when am I going to go see it
cause she says "cuz i want to come too" (since she work there so I think she can go in for free)

I said sure

Does she want to give me a shot (How does she know i like her)?
What should i do now and the movie?

WHEN is the best date for this? Close to xmas?

I do NOT want to screw this up...
Should i bring her a gift? (I have already bought her a gift that she told that she wanted it ... should i give it to her on that day or as
orginiall planned - as her xmas present?)

Today she was waving at me in class but i thought she was waving to her friend so i didnt wave back... I found out when she was told me and was so embarrassed....

2006-12-07 14:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have had our share of good and bad times this is true. This past week has been not so good. He thinks I have been going through to much to be my rock. I have recently had some wierd health probs but everything from the Dr says I am ok. Long story short I am now happy and not worried. But because of my worrying earlier this week he has been getting distant. Emotionally not there and it makes me even more concerned. Even though I am happy now, this wierdness is making it linger. Tonight he was tired then all of a sudden he wanted to go out and drink with his friends and not hang out. I keep feeling more and more alone and less and less sane. Now he says he isnt coming home tonight because I tried to reason with him and show him we can hang out together and fix things with us first. He left and he seems so pissed he was bug eyed and grinding his teath speechless in my face. Then he said I dont want a girlfriend right now and I am not coming home tonight. What do I do?

2006-12-07 14:59:46 · 21 answers · asked by fancy 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I just started seeing this guy, Kyle. We went to grade school and middle school and 9th grade together. Then I switched schools cause I had moved. Only 40 mins. away. 5 years later, I started hanging out with all my old friends from there and I saw him. I had feelings for him the entire time after I left school. I always had dreams about him. Weird, because we were never really friends outside of school. Anyway, we started seeing eachother. I went to his place and he had ordered pizza and we ate it in the candle light. I thought this was so sweet. My friends thought it was cheesy...what do you think?

2006-12-07 14:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Felicia 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy that i know likes me was unexpectedly around at a fancy dinner function. i was dressed up and had a lot of lip gloss on. my grandparents were visiting from europe, and they don't speak english, but i'm fluently quadlingual. well, i was obviously speaking english with him, and he kept looking at my lips, but that's usually where he looks at me when we talk anyway. then my grandparents come near and start talking to me (in greek). we ended up in a conversation, and once they left, he couldn't stop looking at my lips and kept getting closer... my friend saw him and said i had completely turned him on.

I've heard it before, but why is it that "full lips" and foreign languages turn guys on?

2006-12-07 14:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 14:58:09 · 9 answers · asked by gladys 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont understand how someone can hurt someone they luv by cheating. i rather u just leave me alone.

2006-12-07 14:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by dimples74106 1 in Singles & Dating

I would cause i'm 5'8, it will look like a taking a big headed kid to soccer practice.

2006-12-07 14:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by icy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 14:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is active duty in the Army but we are separated, soon to be divorce, (it was an abusive marriage), but I really wanted to go to the ball. He will probably be there with a date, (his girlfriend). The ball is tomorrow night at the downtown Mariott Hotel in SA, TX. Should I bother to go stag or don't bother at all? Thank you for your opinion. Happy Holidays.

2006-12-07 14:57:30 · 6 answers · asked by Dahlila 1 in Marriage & Divorce

0kay so i got invited to this girls 16th birthday. (like i said easy question) does she like me

2006-12-07 14:57:20 · 11 answers · asked by kittynigh 2 in Singles & Dating

I am deeply in love with him, but hes muslim, and i'm agnostic. he proposed to me a week ago, but i told him i cant decide right away. what should i do? should i convert to muslim for him, should i ask him to convert for me, i know he wont want to change his beliefs as much as i dont want to mine. but he wants to start a family and everything, but if we did, what would we teach our children, should i just not marry him?

2006-12-07 14:57:08 · 9 answers · asked by Nanukie 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you say something to the person or do you give them the benefit of the doubt and let it go?

2006-12-07 14:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i like this girl and every time i want to tell her i like her I just freeze and say never mind i need help PLZ

2006-12-07 14:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone heard of Mirror twins? If one has a mole on the right side of the face the other has one on the left. Is their bond stronger than the bond of normal twins? Thoughts and opinons.

2006-12-07 14:54:19 · 4 answers · asked by The Pope 5 in Family

i put on a corsette and thong and then put the blue baby doll dress i always sleep in over top. When my man gets home and goes to the kitchen I plan dropping the dress while he is turned around. Do you think he will like this?

2006-12-07 14:53:45 · 25 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i went with this boy name larry three years ago but every time he oes with some one i got make and vice versa. i never was in love with him... my friends came up to me the other day and asked if it was ok for her to go with him and i said yes...the truth is i really didn't want them to take but me being a good friend i said yes. and now every time i see them together i want to cry. i currently have a boyfriend that i love very much.....what is happening...what should i do....

2006-12-07 14:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Singles & Dating

Just kinda curious how many guys out there are sweet and romantic, who still open doors, say yes ma'am, pick flowers for the one they love, etc.

2006-12-07 14:53:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband is in rehab and i cant take it i am try to get him to be ABLE TO Ccome home is it wrong of me he is very unhappy there to

2006-12-07 14:52:56 · 19 answers · asked by ashley l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, he is soooo awesome. hes not that cute but i dont really care. he has a GREAT personalitly and i know he likes me. and i really want him to ask me out. PLEASE tell me what i should do. neither of us are going out with someone.

thank you soooooo much.
luv
cara

2006-12-07 14:52:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating