ok i went with this boy name larry three years ago but every time he oes with some one i got make and vice versa. i never was in love with him... my friends came up to me the other day and asked if it was ok for her to go with him and i said yes...the truth is i really didn't want them to take but me being a good friend i said yes. and now every time i see them together i want to cry. i currently have a boyfriend that i love very much.....what is happening...what should i do....
2006-12-07 14:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, allowing your friend to date you ex is a huge mistake. Your friend asking YOU if she could date your ex is disrespectful. I think you need to alleviate this stress from your life by cutting them off Don't communicate with them. I know it sounds selfish, but what they are doing is selfish and should be checked. You do not need this drama in your life.
2006-12-07 14:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Emotions are hard to explain sometimes. You didn't love Larry, but you do love your current boyfriend and yet you wanna cry when you see Larry and your friend together. See, it makes no sense, emotions are that way. Write down what you love about your current boy friend. Then write down the things that kept you from falling in love with Larry. Sometimes when we see thing wrote down, we analyze them better. Think things through and see what comes up. Also, you might want to come clean with your friend and tell her it does bother you when you see her and Larry together. Since you gave her the ok, you cant ask her to stop seeing him, but maybe when she finds out you are uncomfortable, she will be a little more discreet when with Larry. Good luck
2006-12-07 15:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by roganddeb2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heared of an old song that goes like "Torn Between Two Lovers, Feeling Like A Fool" ? But, I don't think you are in love with him, I think you are possessive, and hate the idea that he got over you and is dating again.
2006-12-07 15:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Isabell K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the rule of thumb should be that friends should never ever go with their friends ex's ... but you have two choices... except it and get over it... Or tell your friend the way you are feeling and tell her it is either him or you and take a chance on loosing a friend.
2006-12-07 14:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For get about him. He's with someone, you're with someone. If you really love your boyfriend, you shouldn't get mad when you see Larry with someone else. That was a long time ago.
2006-12-07 14:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to go out on a double date with you and the boyfriend who you say you love.Then at dinner get up on the table and start clogging while yelling,"Who do you love now,Super Boy!?!!".This should impress them all!
2006-12-07 15:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just an emotional attachment you have with him. you once had feelings for him so there will always be some type of attachment. you dont know it but you are jealous because it looks like your friend is trying to take that little bit of feeling away from you. you could hate that guy with every ounce of your being but you will always have that emotional attachment to him. its completely normal
2006-12-07 14:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he did the breaking up.Rejection is never easy. Keep your mind and your heart with the new boyfriend.
2006-12-07 15:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by fernwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuated and a little envious? Look for the hand writing on the wall!
2006-12-07 14:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant always have your cake and eat it to.. you need to either love the one you are with or leave him and go for Larry
2006-12-07 14:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋