Well I don't know what to do here. I am torn between following my heart (go for it!!!) and following my mind (no girl...don't mess with your coworkers).
I've fallen for a coworker/friend. I have never felt like this for anyone in my entire life. My body goes numb when he passes and there is the type of chemistry that I have never encountered in my 36 years of life. I've tried to go about my business hoping these feelings will go away but they haven't. My feelings have intensified.
I even go on dates with other guys to get rid of these feelings.
I know messing with coworkers is very taboo. However, I cannot stuff my feelings away either. This is intense.
I think he likes me the same.
2006-12-07 15:02:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your willing to give up your career for this guy, go for it...
2006-12-07 15:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough issue. my friend had the same problem and that co-worker was even married. she's a tough gal and luckily the guy left the same department and she never saw him again. feelings may go away after awhile...you might have to be strong to get over or find a bf to rid the chemistry with....
2006-12-07 15:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the only big problem that you have is if you get together and break up are you going to be able to work together after that? Take it slow and see what happens.
2006-12-07 15:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it girl, if there is something really that good, just do it, follow ur heart, forget about taboos, boundaries blah blah blah! Follow ur heart! ;)
2006-12-07 15:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by ZZZZZ S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I would "never go fishing off the company dock".
2006-12-07 15:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋