This girl i really like told her friend she might date me when we get to college.When she's more mature. I offer her a lot of emotional support ....She calls me every day and talks to me about her problems. And were really good friends, but she says were just friends now.Were juniors in High School. I really like her, and ive known her since the beginning of septimber. She got dissed by this one guy she liked( and a friend of mine)....And he asked her out for me, but she said no.And she might switch schools for next semester( and she just got to my school.) I like her so much it hurts and she messes with my emotions alot, and were even exchanging Christmas presents .....I don't know what to do, ive never had a a crush this bad before.....
2006-12-07 15:03:14 · 8 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-07 15:04:08 · update #1
Maybe shes just not ready to lose a good friend. Might, means never, stay her friend enjoy her company...
2006-12-07 15:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have said the same thing to a guy before, and for me , it was just a way for me to say I didn't like him without hurting his feelings; this way i wouldn't have to hurt his feelings or make him feel inferior because his feelings weren't mutual, it just made it seem like i was the immature one and i was the flawed one.
However, she might feel as though you want a serious relationship, which she might not want. That might be what she means by her not being mature enough. You should really just ask her, she might appreciate your honesty and your courage... having a friend ask her out for you who had already dissed her wasn't really a smart move. If you do not feel comfortable asking her verbally, text message her or IM her oe e-mail her or write a note or something.
2006-12-07 15:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by tartepout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWW ur a really sweet guy and maybe she just doesnt feel like she can handle having a bf with all of her problems . people tend to mature a lot more in college. dont worry just keep being friends with her and dont let drama get in the way of u two.
2006-12-07 15:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by ozzygirlisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine he's uncertain if he like you, he sounds precisely like me. i'm the style of guy that likes a woman with a humorous personality and likes to comic tale round. It takes slightly to ensure out if i love her. as an social gathering i meet a woman a month in the past at 2 of my college training, and that i'm only now about to ask her out on Friday. provide IT TIME youthful a million :P
2016-11-30 07:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She enjoys your conversation, and she is probably trying to get back at your friend through you. Sorry, but just my thoughts. She would like to make him jealous. I would just take it slow and not allow it to get under my skin. College is not to far off and there will be a vast amount of pretty girls to choose from. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 15:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she doesn't like you, she's just not wanting a relationship, or she just wants to stay friends. Just try to detach yourself. Believe me, in the long run, it's the easiest way to let yourself off emotionally.
2006-12-07 15:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she wants to keep using you as a friend.
I bet if you look at her cell phone bill, shes all non stop chat.
she goes from you to another to another to another, enough to make a hummingbird sick.
just walk and ignore her.
2006-12-07 15:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt count on it
2006-12-07 15:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋