i dont understand how someone can hurt someone they luv by cheating. i rather u just leave me alone.
2006-12-07 14:58:07 · 14 answers · asked by dimples74106 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you've been dating a chump. Good luck with the next one!
2006-12-07 15:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how it works , but it sucks to hear that , so just tell him to take his stuff and get the hell out , give yourself a brake and get rid of the looser ... if he say that your every thing a man need in a woman , and go behind your back and cheat on you , then hes a damn two face as well , and trust me , i got some guys i work with that does the same thing to there wifes ... they will never change ... not in a million years , its like trophies for them , all they do is brag on how they bagged two girls last weekend , and this weekend they are going to try to beet that and make it four or five ... all losers love ..kick his *ss out , and start fresh , you know what to look for now .. good luck and keep well .
2006-12-07 23:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur everything ur man wants in a female and he cheats on you nonetheless then perhaps you never were what he wanted. Any idiot can tell a lie, and any intelligent, giving soul can buy into it. I know for a fact how very difficult this concept is to grasp when you are on the inside of the situation, but the hard fact is that BOTH men and women lie, to each other and often themselves. Its not fair. It sucks. But it's true. You need to love yourself, heck even LIKE yourself enough to acknowledge that you got played, and THEN love yourself enough to raise your standards so that you do not end up being ANYBODY's victim, tool, whatever again.
2006-12-07 23:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by StarryEyedSurprise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you probably are everything you want mentally. I mean, guys DO think about females personalities beyond popular belief. Well, I do. Though, they cheat because they also think of the physical being of a person. If a girl is hot and a guy gets excited, he probably will go with her, but you can always try things different and/or make him know that you're really special and one of a kind. Also tell him you love him a lot, and if he screws that up then he's freaking stupid.
2006-12-07 23:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Meow2The3rd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man just has a good line of bullshit. He tells you what you want to hear to get you in bed then he does the same to the next girl. He doesn't love you in the least. Move on and find a guy who may not be as cute, but might be a lot more loyal. Good Luck...
2006-12-07 23:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all people who cheat are insecure and its not against you its an individual problem. I had a so called friend who used the information I told her to hurt me I thought to myself if it makes you feel good to do that fine, but your no friend of mine. If someone loves you they wont do you that way and if they are going to cheat their not someone you need in your life. Men/ friends come and go anyone who hurts you isnt an asset you need in life....
2006-12-07 23:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he dont love you like you think he do because if he did he wouldnt cheat.And I agree I rather 4 a man to leave me alone than
to stoop so low as to cheating.
2006-12-07 23:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have a hard time being tied down to one woman; just leave any guy who isn't willing to make a commitment to seeing one person at a time.
2006-12-07 23:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by rivkadacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not REALLY in love.they lie real well but that does not make it love. a man in love will not intentionally hurt the women he is love with. no if ands or buts about it if your man cheats on you he is intentional choosing to hurt and betray you and exposing you to the possibility of std or aids. AGAIN..A MAN IN LOVE WILL NOT CHEAT
2006-12-07 23:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who love you don't cheat or lie to you.
You have a choice in this....make him go away.
2006-12-07 23:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋