Alright, look, I have just decided that me liking this one girl is about to drive me nuts. Look I am in highschool now and i recently got out of a two year relationship. No like two monthes after that happened i met this girl. At first she wasnt anything to me, but then one football game I got to know her and i became crazy abbout her. But the only problem is my freakin self confidense, i mean, trust me im confident, and loud and funny(so im told) but when i get around her i just get locked up and nervous. Hell, im nervous typin this stupid question. But i seriously need some advise here. Everytime i get around her I get very very self concious. I start to think the worst of my self, then i end up making a fool of myself cuase i cant make freakin eye contact with her, or hold a conversation with her for longer than ten minutes. I mean, its embarasing. I have written poems about her, played songs ony my guitar about her, you gotta understand that i might love her. MIGHT. i mean, i just
2006-12-07 15:01:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
want her to know how i feel. But i would really just like some helpful advise here, cuase as you can probably tell, im pretty crazy about her. but one big thing is that i get called a flirt. I dont know why but i do, i mean im not like a creep, but my friends are always like, why girls always like hangin with you. Now let me make something clear, im am 99% positive most girls wouldnt date me. Why do i think that
cuase im a loser
see
im gettin self concious again
ughhh
lol i just need some advise
2006-12-07 15:05:14 · update #1
also the two year relationship wasnt lik an adult thing, it was like on and off fot two years
2006-12-07 15:06:52 · update #2
Ok man, you sound like me not too long ago.
This is what worked for me. Others might think it's funny but I don't care because I got the girl I wanted which is all that mattered.
When I'd see a hot girl I wanted to talk to (where I used to get nervous as hell!) I'd imagine myself as a lion. The lion is the king of the jungle. All others are beneath him. He holds his head up high, is extremely confident, and knows he is the man. He has no reason to fear any woman. No one can touch him.
Tell yourself right now as you're reading this.. "I'm the lion". Im serious....say it! You don't have to even say it out loud. Picture a lion with a big giant mane of hair strutting confidently as you say it.
The more you say it, you will literally feel the power inside of you. When you know you're gonna see her...just play it cool and use your positive affirmation. Keep telling yourself this over and over. Science tells us the power of positive affirmations so use that power for your current goal...of winning this girl!
Now go get her lion!
2006-12-07 15:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Edward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 05:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine her as a close friend. Be open with her, and don't worry about what you are saying; just have something to say! Try and think of things to talk about before you actually talk to her, keeps the conversation going!
2006-12-07 15:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about being honest with her and telling her that you wish you could talk with her without being so nervous? Chances are pretty good that she will understand and be cool with it.
2006-12-07 15:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by rivkadacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just post her the poems you wrote for her or deliver her your records She will get the message
2006-12-07 15:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by rumble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make friends w/ her first then when time comes that u really comfortable being w/ her then tell her what u really feel about her - that you love her.. dont rush anything.. slowly but surely..
2006-12-07 15:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ten minutes is a long convo dude.shes not thinkin about what your doing or saying if she likes you....shes just happy ur talking to her and shes worrried about herself. if u two were just calm.....anything will fly
2006-12-07 15:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD... Be a kid... you are in high school right? Wait to have an ADULT relationship when you are an ADULT. This trivial **** doesn't matter.
2006-12-07 15:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by M R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its obvious u really really like her invite her to a movie or something like that and slowly tell her how u feel(how u really feel)
2006-12-07 15:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by gator_ladie707 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save urself the stress...tell her!!!
2006-12-07 15:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋