Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

I am the mother of his daughter and we have a great relationship other than his porn use and looking at other women. I fear he is not faithful to me because he does this when I am home and feel he does things with me that he wants with them and uses me as his "release" body. I know he loves me, but I don't understand why he does this! I know it is natural for a guy to be into it, but he is saying he wants to devote his life to me, yet he doesn't care how unhappy this stuff makes me, he just keeps looking and it isnt even just porn it is pictures of naked girls too and it makes me feel worthless and not good enough. Everytime I try to talk with him about it, he says I am being stupid and doesn't want to and WON'T discuss it with me. It really hurts but we love each other. I would never leave him because of it, but I have a hard time trusting him because of it and feel like he would cheat on me if someone asked him to. I dont feel like I am the only woman in his sexual world. WHY!!!!????

2006-12-06 10:11:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When they are wasted and run up a huge guilt trip about breaking up? And get completely emotional?

2006-12-06 10:11:09 · 13 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Singles & Dating

Every guy I know likes a girl for their body. I am average maybe even under weight. Guys seem to only care about how a girl looks physicly not her smile or her eyes but her body. How can i get this guy to notice me but he likes another girl and guess what, he likes her for her body. The girl he likes also likes him but neither of them do any thing for each other. He says he likes me but he flirts with so many other girls. Is he lying or not.

2006-12-06 10:10:53 · 10 answers · asked by bchbumsparadise 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex girlfirend was really insatiable in sex ...once you start making love to her, she is never get enough of you and wants more and more and gets never tired ..The more you can to give , the more she will take ...is it normal in women in general ...? but, besides, what I can't understand she told me one day, is that I'm too much turn on by sex, and that I always want to make sex with her ..isn't that normal when a man loves his girlfriend and have strong desires for her , to want to make love to her all the time, and take opportunity on any occasions ..?

2006-12-06 10:09:42 · 14 answers · asked by Roy A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 10:09:15 · 28 answers · asked by Baram J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a median salary, I cant afford a luxury ring. But I'm not broke either. What would be considered as cheap?
Thanks

2006-12-06 10:08:38 · 24 answers · asked by Skubba 1 in Singles & Dating

i`ve told ladies that and they make a big deal out of it.theres this girl that has had 6 abortions before she finnished high school.is it now that she is in a relationship that she thinks she`s a virgin i`m happy for someone to flirt with me,and i do`nt care if it`s a woman or a man,it lets me know i`m still sexy that somebody is interested in me.i`m do`nt get offended when men flirt even thought i`m as straight as it can ever get.whats up ladies,what`s your problem? do`nt you understand that attention is a good thing?or do you get off trying to make the men fight to amuse yourselves.if you are you are lower than anything that ever creeped on this earth.

2006-12-06 10:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy asked u to marry him
but u dont want too
how do you tell him that
without hurting him?

2006-12-06 10:07:56 · 25 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant stop fighting with my mum and i dont know why. i get mad at her and then she gets super mad at me and we both end up screaming and slamming doors. this is not tipical teenage stuff and im 13. at night right over are mother/daughter battle i feel so guilty that i cry myself to sleep. when i try to tell her im sorry, she acts like im a lying brat and that i dont mean it altough i really do. im so mean i cant stand my self anymore. everything i do or say is disrespectful and i just keep messing up and ruining everyones day. i just feel so bad at what i do. please help me and only kind answers please.

2006-12-06 10:07:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ever tried to console a drunk woman? More you try to comfort her and make sense to her the more upset she gets?

2006-12-06 10:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sean 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 10:06:24 · 33 answers · asked by Baram J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you been in aq relationship for a long time

2006-12-06 10:05:49 · 5 answers · asked by Cimone S 1 in Singles & Dating

What should a person do who still loves someone they can no longer be with? I'd like to be with her but circumstances make it so I can't be. So we have to be apart and no longer spend any time together. And no, this isn't a teenage romance...we're both into our 5th decade. She's married, I'm married. I can put time into my marriage and I have and it's paying off in a very good way, but there's still a huge hole in me with anxiety, grief and depression to go with it where this other woman fit into my life. What would you do?

2006-12-06 10:05:21 · 17 answers · asked by mickeycaprise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-06 10:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

If a woman hits her husband, in the midst of a heated argument, and he hits her back, is one or the other more in the wrong? Assuming the man is physically stronger?

2006-12-06 10:04:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have just celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary at the end of October. We had a great weekend away but haven't had sex since. I found out he has been masturbating and told him that it upset me because I don't understand why he just doesn't have sex with me. I woke up last night and found him wanking again. I don't get it. I consider myself to be reasonably attractive, we have always enjoyed sex together and I have never turned him away. What could the problem be? Any insight would be great.

2006-12-06 10:03:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do guys like a lot of make up lyk even if its wel ldone and stuff or a little..and what shape do they like for a girl of 14?

2006-12-06 10:03:27 · 12 answers · asked by cutegrl g 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sort of not sure if I should have done this. I got rid of my facebook (myspace). I got it so I could talk to my friends more. They were really happy I got one. But I added a lot of friends, worried people thought I was arrogant, and then I got denied by someone, and I was paranoid everyone hated me so I got rid of it without telling them. They seemed annoyed but not really angry The thing is that was how I was keeping in touch with some acquaintances that graduated from my school last year. I no longer have any connection with them. I kind of think I made the right decision because of all the stress it was causing me but I don't know if you think I should have? I could technically get it back just how it was pretty easil

2006-12-06 10:02:49 · 26 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I like to boss people around, as I was influenced to do this after I saw how many powerful leaders got respect from intimidating people and taking crap from no one. I view love as soft and the only reason I would go out with a girl is to make her love me than embarass her by publicly humiliating her by dumping her in front of everyone. I would then start laughing. I am not afraid to get hurt by love, as I would not let anyone get the opportunity hurt me, as I don't cry., and I don't take crap from anyone. I hate little kids and I just want to spend the rest of my life alone, beating myself up, and drinking. I had a good childhood and parents who loved me, but I don't love them back. I have no clue why I'd be depresed, as I have friends. Why am I so mean?

2006-12-06 10:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are having a huge wedding. The cost will pretty much leave us nothing for a honeymoon. I think that it is still important that we get away after the wedding. I would really like some fun and inexpensive ideas. We live in Michigan.

2006-12-06 10:01:46 · 7 answers · asked by Andrea G 2 in Weddings

my best friend and i have a band together i play guitar and he sing withour other friends but he got an AMAZING offer from a record company and we come from a small town so this is a once in a lifetime chance but they only want solo artists so the rest of us arent included in the deal his family needs the money but him and i have been friends for 9 years and hes only 18 and he says he doesnt want to leave me behind while he becomes famous i have tried everything and he still wont go i even got the rest of the band to try and help me but he keeps saying he wont leave me behind im only 15 so i cant go what should i do???

2006-12-06 10:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

will that shut her up?

2006-12-06 10:00:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My Grandmother my mums mother in law has just died and her work is refusing to pay my mum compassionate leave for the time she had of after nanna died because she didnt request the compassionate leave the thing is my grandmother died so suddenly that we didnt have time to request this and they are now refusing to let her go to the buriel on 18th dec because she had the time off before
Please can you tell me if theres anyway we can contest this or sort this out because its making my mum depressed.

2006-12-06 10:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by lozzi_pop22 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

single cause you can flirt with as many guys/girls as you want. what do you think?

2006-12-06 09:59:51 · 22 answers · asked by luvergirl79 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife is always cursing at me and the kids, what gives?
She calls me assh*** for any reason. Sometimes calls our kids a stupid*ss for making a mistake. Does she need help?

2006-12-06 09:59:24 · 34 answers · asked by MIster G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay before I explain everything I would like to state that I know how I feel is wrong and that I shouldn't.That's why I need an oustiders opion!

Okay.Umm my best friend and her now ex-boyfriend broke up at a dance that we have at our school.Well I had started to talk to him and become friends.And now we have become really good friends.Well everyone we know says were already acting like we are going out.He tries picking me up, sometime carries me bridal style and etc.Now I'm starting to have more than friend feelings for him.My best friend(his ex) has told me thousands of times that we should just start to go out I mean cause she says us hanging out with each other when ever she's around and it wouldn't bother her if we did.That would be cool, if I knew that a)she really meant that and b) I don't feel as guilty as I do for having the feelings I do.I mean she is my best friend and I DON'T WANT To screw that up!Am I wrong for feeling like this.What do I do?Be honest

2006-12-06 09:57:54 · 16 answers · asked by Gretchen 2 in Friends

My dad has been an alcoholic for 13 years now and im 15 and well he got in trouble with the law and like i love him and he stopped drinking but he is hiding it from us that he is drinking being little a long time a go i remmeber him just sitting in silence then finally after 2 days crying he loved me with all his heart but that love keepsbreaking! WHY WHY ME? i am a girl standing in front oh her daddy asking him to stop drinking but wont it hurt hius feelings will he runaway will he understand what can i do i need so much help this is then first time i have ever told anyone about this so plz take it easy on me okay!!!

2006-12-06 09:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does he buy you stuff out of nowhere and do things unexpected??? Or does he just thinks about himself (most of the time)??

.....Or is that the women's job to think like that all the time????

Sorry!! im a little confused that after talkin to him, he still doesnt do anything that I have asked for in the past. I would like a little surprise candlelite dinner/bath every once in a while or even for him to take me out without me having to suggest it all the time.Dont get me wrong he is the best thing that has happen to me but I dont understand.

Somebody please tell me, is it only us who think like this???

2006-12-06 09:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i've been really mad this week and i know ill be the same next week......and i want to experres my emotions how can i do that???....i want to write poems...but can i write poems that dont ryme and just say how I FEEL???

2006-12-06 09:57:38 · 7 answers · asked by Me 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok,well me and my boyfrind broke up just saying we will still be friends.the problem is that when we do which is once a day if i am lucky(and its mostly what kind of gum do u have).He still thinks im hot but is he trying to prove a piont or waiting for me to crack.I miss him so much me and him went out for a year,and i think i fell hard for him. gow do i get him back?plz

2006-12-06 09:57:38 · 25 answers · asked by tren 2 in Singles & Dating