My wife is always cursing at me and the kids, what gives?
She calls me assh*** for any reason. Sometimes calls our kids a stupid*ss for making a mistake. Does she need help?
2006-12-06 09:59:24 · 34 answers · asked by MIster G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She never used to be like this with the kids.
2006-12-06 10:13:07 · update #1
needs her mouth washed out with soap!
2006-12-06 10:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by funseeker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay YEA she SERIOUSLY needs help...now I know sometimes husband and wife may have a fallin out every now and then so Im sure some things are said here and there also...BUT....cussin at the kids and calling them stupid *** is another thing...thats NOT at all a good example for the kids and she doesn't need to be verbal abusing you either...she needs to go get help like NOW! I really hate cuss words also..(I only say them when Im like really really upset) but its still not right....but sorry bout that man and good luck with everything
Also..
I Know 2 wrongs don't make a right but sometimes you have to give ppl a dose of their own medicine in order for them to realize how bad they look or sound!( NOT in front of your children tho)
2006-12-06 10:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she not curse before you married or had kids? Is this a relatively new development or something that is just now annoying you?
It's TOTALLY inappropriate to curse at others, especially one's family (and kids!) but sometimes people are thoughtless and insensitive.
You need to discuss this with her. Make it clear you don't appreciate it and that it's not how any parent should speak to their children (nor is it teaching the kids anything positive). See if you can help her to find alternatives to cursing.
We all get upset or excited and blurt out an expletive now and then (okay, many of us) but to do it in anger and direct it at someone who can hear you, just isn't how to treat others.
I hope y'all can get this worked out...
2006-12-06 10:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not good at all i don't call my kids stupid or anynames i talk to them or stick them in the corner and thats very unhealthy for them that will make them have a low self esteem. For you well you need to put your foot down because my husband would not even allow that he does not like women that curse so i don't do that tell her that is she doesn't stop you'll leave her or tell her if she really loves you guys then she'll get some counseling.
2006-12-06 10:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by coolmesillyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems fed up with her life... You guys need a very long talk before things get really out of hand. She is definitely stressed out... Very wrong for her to use foul language so you should tell her straight out in a nice way and in private to stop calling names and to talk what is going through her head without cursing...
Good luck!
2006-12-06 10:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Start a cuss jar. Everytime she says a cuss word make her put money in it. Or, ask her point blank how she would feel if you talked to her like that. I can't even imagine how the kids feel. You better start lining up some counseling now for your children.
2006-12-06 10:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by rdncgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does spiritually and morally it is not right for a woman to curse her husband and especially not her children and your wife does it all the time then she needs help and fast before she wrecks your life and that of your children.
2006-12-06 10:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by sanmi . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down with her and discuss how it is so wrong, especially cursing at the kids. If that doesn't help, try going to a councellor, just so that way she can know that it is wrong and that it is verbal abuse. I hope something comes out of it and that this helps. :)
2006-12-06 10:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Julez81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. And so do your kids. No child should ever be called bad names for making mistakes. This is serious.
2006-12-06 10:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by patti r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , She is lashing out , she is very unhappy with herself and things in her life. This is very bad (and borders on child abuse) she must get help or you should take the kids out of that relationship. Good Luck
2006-12-06 10:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to curse a lot to my husband and kids until he recorded me and i fell to the floor. i was embarrassed on how i sounded and the way i looked when i called them the ugliest names, so i stopped when i saw myself on it. she needs to see her self to see how much of an *** we make of ourselves, i think this will help. if it don't then tell her it is wrong and ugly to talk to people that way especially the ones you love..
2006-12-06 10:05:56 · answer #11 · answered by mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋