How to get your X-boyfriend back?

Question

ok,well me and my boyfrind broke up just saying we will still be friends.the problem is that when we do which is once a day if i am lucky(and its mostly what kind of gum do u have).He still thinks im hot but is he trying to prove a piont or waiting for me to crack.I miss him so much me and him went out for a year,and i think i fell hard for him. gow do i get him back?plz

Answer 1

Why not simply tell him you'd like to get back together? If he doesn't feel the same then at least you know you tried, and can close this chapter of your life and move on. Don't spend too much time wishing you had something you've already had...when there are so MANY new experiences ahead of you!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I am going through the same thing. Love takes two. If only one person is in love you can't force the other to take on your emotion. What you have to do is this. It is simple but very difficult. Know that you cannot change his mind. Go on with your life. If it happens again it does. If not it was not meant to be. There are many people out there that are waiting with you. You will never know if you hold on to someone who doesn't feel the same way. It hurts, I know, but you can do it. Where one door closes a window is sure to open. Just give it time. In the meantime, go out with your friends and have the best time ever. Laugh and enjoy life. Someone is sure to notice you having a good time and will approach you.

Answer 4

Well, I was kinda in the same position as you like a few months ago. my boyfriend broke up with me and we didnt talk at all for a month but then he started wondering why i didnt call him anymore and whatever so he started calling me almost three times a day but i didnt answer his calls for a week then. when i did, i would end the convo in less than a minute. And he cant stand it anymore so he tried to ask me back out... but i think i'll play his *** a little bit more. I told him I needed a break from him lol I dunno how much patience you have but try not to act like u still have feelings for him. it always works. they always come back .

Answer 5

You could compromise all of your morals and own self worth and get him back I suppose.

Or you could move on, at such a young age a year is too long to be with the one guy anyway, have fun and date lots of guys, you will forget about your ex in no time!

Oh, and stop trying to find excuses to talk to him, you are just clutching at straws and he is enjoying the knowledge that you are still pining for him.

Answer 6

You can't force anything. Try the no contact rule - no contact in any way for 2 months or so. Do other things, find new hobbies, join some clubs, something...take your mind off the guy. Don't go back

Answer 7

You need to prove that you are tough too. Guys just want to see if you can hold up to them. You make a point. Once he realizes his feelings and potential, everything will just fall back into place.

Good Luck!

Answer 8

If he really cared about you he would want to get back together with you. not try and prove a point what the he!! is that? i say move on girl and dont look back.
you deserve someone better.

good luck in love

<3

Answer 9

You don't. You give it time, hang out with your friends, join afterschool sports or clubs and meet other people - you will find someone else.

You can't make someone love you or like you, so just move on.

Answer 10

if he is going out with another girl, get over it. if he isnt then you can try to get him back by flirting and maybe a note saying you sorta kinda maybe a little bit still like him. but not if hes going out with another girl, trust me my bfs to x gfs r always trying to get him back