I'm sort of not sure if I should have done this. I got rid of my facebook (myspace). I got it so I could talk to my friends more. They were really happy I got one. But I added a lot of friends, worried people thought I was arrogant, and then I got denied by someone, and I was paranoid everyone hated me so I got rid of it without telling them. They seemed annoyed but not really angry The thing is that was how I was keeping in touch with some acquaintances that graduated from my school last year. I no longer have any connection with them. I kind of think I made the right decision because of all the stress it was causing me but I don't know if you think I should have? I could technically get it back just how it was pretty easil
2006-12-06 10:02:49 · 26 answers · asked by leena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think there are those that can handle myspace- and those that just can't. You, I'm sorry to say, are in the second category. Believe me, your paranoia would have gotten on their nervs far more than you dropping the whole thing. I'm sure that the moment someone took you off their top friends or forgot to reply to a comment- you'd flip out. I wouldnt rist getting it back again- instead enjoy calling people, meeting up in person with those you lost touch with or just get on aim. Myspace isnt the only connection in the world.
2006-12-06 10:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just did the same thing about a week ago (deleted myspace).. i did it because i have been in a relationship with this guy who is so freakin' awsome in everyway and i didn't want him to hear things about how most people go on there to meet people, even though i was on there to also keep in touch with old co-workers, old friends, old high school friends, and some new ones! but i figured if they were really my "friends" i would have been hanging out with them and talking on the phone and things like that.. but we never did.. they barely ever wrote to me either.. so i figure it was a great choice! i dont' think it was wrong of you either and if you did want to get it back it would be so easy to track all them down again.. good luck and best wishes!
2006-12-06 10:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to your friends in person, not over the internet. THAT is unfriendly. And, they shouldn't even BE annoyed. It's your facebook or myspace or whatever so if you want to get rid of it then go for it. They cant tell you what to do. It's up to you. :)
2006-12-06 10:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by udontknowme!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so get it back and realize that myspace/facebook have NO IMPACT on your life! Its meant to be fun, not stressful. In the scheme of things, who cares if someone denied being your friend. If this is the biggest problem you have to worry about you are a very lucky person.
2006-12-06 10:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spain, try Salamanca for unfriendliness. I speak Spanish and I tell you you can listen to them slag everyone off who looks like someone from Northern Europe. I pretend not to understand just to listen to them. When two waiters are having a conversation across your table it is probably about you if you look English and I will not go into what they say.
2016-05-23 01:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really unfriendly, more of an overreaction. Don't worry though, because I did the same thing. I got aggrivated because nobody ever talked to me, so I cancelled my account. Then a few months later I got it back. Now I'm glad I did. It gives me something to do when I'm bored, and I actually have friends on there now that talk to me.
Also, my friend who set me up with my boyfriend, she showed him my profile and he got to learn about me, so he was able to be interested. Hehe.
2006-12-06 10:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other ways to keep in touch with people besides on My Space. I don't like the site anyways, too much trash. Call your friends on the telephone or write them a letter, that's how we used to do it in the old days. Just tell them it was causing you too much stress having a my space, and if they are true friends, they will like you anyways.
2006-12-06 10:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so worried about what eveyone else thinks of you? the only person you should be worried over is yourself. no one else in the world is responsible for your happiness and well-being and the only person that will suffer is you. work on your self confidence and self esteem and worry a little less and things will be easier
2006-12-06 10:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people don't think your arrogant if you have a lot of friends.
it just means your friendly/popular.
and when you're rejected..it doesn't mean you're hated. maybe that person didn't know who you were. so a-dur. i'd reject you too =) don't stress. just go on with life. myspace really isn't that important. and no one cares =)
2006-12-06 10:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was causing you this much stress then yes you did the right thing!
Nothing is worth that much stress....
2006-12-06 10:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋