Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

I'm in a relationship that I'm unsure of.It began as an unhealthy relationship but then it gradually started getting better.By "unhealthy",I mean,he constantly cheated and I was simply stressed out.Sometimes I feel like ending it but I don't want to see him with anybody else.He doesn't mind spoiling the woman he's with and I don't want to let that go.Also,we live in a small town and I know that people would have a field day with our break-up because there is alot of jealousy about the relationship.We do everything together but stupid decisions we made in the past stopped us from being where we should be in life.We're trying to start over but it's hard for me to forget what he did in the past.I'm no angel,but hey,I respected him.It's just confusing and I don't want to stay for all the wrong reasons.

2006-12-05 01:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by missraynell07 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wanted some insight into the differences b/w men and women. I am being made to think this, but I'm trying to find out if this is a guy thing or just me. I know I hate arguing, and whenever my wife and I get into it, and there is tension in the air and nothing is being resolved, I leave the house to avoid any escalations. I would much rather cool off elsewhere and then come back later to talk logically. She feels that this action is enough grounds for a divorce, but I tell her men don't like to argue. Once when I tried staying at home and in the other room after we had a heated argument, she practically barged into the room then walks out slamming the door. I felt this is not the environment for me to cool off. So I just usually leave the house to avoid any escalations. But she feels that I am "abandoning" her when I do this and I try to explain that men do this alot cos we dont like to argue. Please share your experiences guys and girls and maybe some advice.

2006-12-05 01:31:50 · 27 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so well i kno its common that often when your on date usually a guy pays for girl so heres my situation i m bout to date this guy but i dont know wether just to wait until he pays or half half or may be later coffee from my treat ohhh i dont know does that sound good? but when a girl offers to pay do you think guys feel a bit down?

2006-12-05 01:28:46 · 20 answers · asked by chick on fire 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple lives next door and this is a black guy married to a white lady and they are both very ugly with flat asses and shapeless.Surprisingly, they gave birth to 5 beautiful children and one just won a beauty pageant in which i was 2nd runner up....How does it work,i mean real beauty dis-regarding skin colour but body curves and face & intelligence.

2006-12-05 01:28:08 · 47 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4 in Singles & Dating

I have always known there was something odd about the way our relationship was unfolding, like some fundamental connection was lacking. At first, I discounted it as incompatability, just let us move on our seperate ways. But then there were still really good times when we went out too where we were really "together". We talked and she told me she has always been like this, scared to commit but scared to be alone. I am in a catch-22 and didn't know why. I think I have an answer now, but it is hard for me to consider let alone address w/ her, but after A LOT of reading, I am pretty sure she exhibits signs of a specific mental disorder. I am supposed to see her today (which, as always, is a tentative proposition) but assuming I do, I want to discuss what I have been reading b/c I think she is lost as to why she feels the way she does. I know I risk chasing her away if I suggest this, but I would rather that and she might see some truth in what I say and DO something about it.

2006-12-05 01:27:44 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

but my husband says if it is more than 4 days a week, he'll have to chip in for rent! is that fair?

2006-12-05 01:27:32 · 24 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 01:27:17 · 6 answers · asked by devilish1il2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past two nights my boyfriend and I have been putting each other on speakerphone and staying on the line even after we go to sleep going to sleep like that just listening to each other breathe until our alarms wake us up in the mornings for us to go to school makes me feel like he's there with me is this something good or crazy? keep in mind i'm in texas and he's in north carolina

2006-12-05 01:25:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know how many rings each planet have...FAST

2006-12-05 01:24:15 · 7 answers · asked by Nya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 01:23:59 · 17 answers · asked by debbie m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 01:23:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do some men evade paying their child support? Is it because they don't love their kids? Or is it because they hate the mothers of their kids so much that they'd be willing to punish the child just to get back at the mom?

2006-12-05 01:23:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw this kid where I thought he was part Puerto Rican or part black. I knew he was Hispanic. It turns out his father is Jewish and his mom is Mexican. They named him Darius.
I hear people sometimes say that Mexicans have denied some of their black bloodlines. I also hear this about some Jewish people denying black bloodlines.
Please no comments about being racist or he is of the human race. I get that. I am curious about his background and this is a question/answer board.
And no, I cannot ask him myself. Sometimes I get that comment.

2006-12-05 01:23:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-05 01:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 01:22:07 · 16 answers · asked by kayla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime I tell a joke, everyone fake laughs. I love being the BOSS HAVING FULL CONTROL OVER MY EMPLOYEES. My question to you ladies is WHY ARE YOU FEMALES BETTER A S S KISSERS AT WORK THEN THE MALES.

2006-12-05 01:22:03 · 18 answers · asked by Boss 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of the tradition of having Godparents?

Do you have Godparents or one Godparent?

Are you someone's Godparent?

Have you ever noticed if children who have Godparents are different? Better off in life? Happier? More Loved?

If you are acquainted with any family or families in which Godparents are active, would you please describe their
situation?

How do you think it works out in the long run to have Godparents?

2006-12-05 01:21:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A month ago, I (living in South Africa) went to a wedding and I was shocked by the amount f money spent. The wedding before, was also an expensive one. Now I am wondering - when I get married: Do I need to spend a fortune as well? How can I keep the costs in hand while having a fab time? Thanks!

2006-12-05 01:21:28 · 55 answers · asked by MM 4 in Weddings

Serioulsy I always find cute guys who are jerks, or ugly guys who are obsessive...I'm not sure how to get out of this habut and attract a descent guy.

2006-12-05 01:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by Kimmii 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend recently got married to the girl of his parents' choice cos otherwise the consequences wd have been bad and none of us wd have been happy. I understand his situation and wished him well and since both of us didn't want to break our friendship we decided to keep in touch. I made him promise that he'll ring me up if ever he needs to talk abt any of his probs. So till the day of his wedding we talked.

But from the next day I didn't feel like talking to him and cldn't bear the thought of hearing him talk abt his life with some1 else. So I keep my phone switched off most of the time and he's tried reaching me many times (missed call msg from the operator) but I am not yet ready to talk to him. What shd I do??? Shd I continue avoiding his call or tell him straight that I'm not ready to talk to him. This will hurt him very badly sort of like betrayal so I don't know what to do. Pls. experienced ppl I need ur advice!!!

2006-12-05 01:20:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy that i thought he want me to leave him and go back to another guy he knew I was in love with him but..to many problems so I told him I would just go back to A.. but i still loved him but it was just impossible before he would let me know that he cared but now he like acts like I don't even exist..turned off his cellphone and won't come online...WTF..he is a 9th grader..

2006-12-05 01:19:42 · 3 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Singles & Dating

is bringing roses a way to show , is saying i love u everyday enough or even just a simple kiss out of the blue show he /she that you love them...how can you reall tell??

2006-12-05 01:19:04 · 9 answers · asked by suleimasoto 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really don't have a problem with it cause I don't want a serious relationship right now but I don't want to be a homewrecker. They aren't married just attached. It seems that those type of men always seem to like me. But in the end I know it's still cheating even if we aren't getting physical.

2006-12-05 01:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by ikkinaw 2 in Singles & Dating

cuz i need to talk to my bf and he livves allt the way in utah

2006-12-05 01:16:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I', nearly 30 and have been married for nearly 4 years. Am blissfully happy with my hubby but have so many dramas with his parents and his sis (shes 5 years older and not married) we all live together. I have always tried to love his family as if they are my own, I know I wasn't perfect when I first got married but now I feel as if things are never going to improve. I get on fantastically with his dad but his mum and sis treat me so badly. I just want to be able to get on with them. The thing is I badly want kids but I'm scared that if I do they will treat my child badly because they hate me so much. I would appreciate some advice on how to improve my situation. There is no point in talking to them as I have tried that

2006-12-05 01:16:24 · 21 answers · asked by brownpeepers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband forgets to kiss me when he leaves for work, He hardly pays any attention to me anymore, I'm not an ugly women either. And lately he hasn't been talking to me in a nice way. I have to start sex, he doesn't. What is going on here!? Have I done something? What can I do to get some attention? And why does he talk down to me? I know hes not cheating, so it isn't that! I'm sooo confused, someone please help!

2006-12-05 01:14:41 · 24 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl at my university wants me to...uhh..you know...tap that, beat it up...handle it.
But, I cant because I have morals, but I have these urges to just take her into the school to just get it out of both of our systems.She gives head and dome me every morning and I just go with it and cover her up with my jacket while she does it. Im ready to take it further without have kids. What should I do? (for real)

2006-12-05 01:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by ace_112121 2 in Singles & Dating

i went out with an old highschool chum andhes nice but he bugs me all the time,,i cant get anything done,,i dont want to give him the brush off i like him alot,,but too much is too much
WHAT DO I DO?

2006-12-05 01:14:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband is looking up woman on the internet at work, says he wanted to see where they are from and what their background is. One was a sporscaster , another a news woman, another a country singer, and I'm not sure about the rest. Is it normal for him to do this when he's married? I'm really having a hard time with it. We do have a good relationship in all aspects of the the word marraige. I would really like a guys opinion also. Thanks

2006-12-05 01:13:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its been bothering me since it happend people, and i dont know how to say it so ill just go ahead and say it.
i was at wal mart last night looking for gift wrapping paper and a pack of condoms, when i saw this prostitute with some cherries in her hands. They were in a bag.
i asked her if i could have them since it was looking like she was about to put them down. boy oh boy, why did i say that.
she started cussing at me and telling me how her "daddy" would whup my ***. i only wanted to know it i could have her cherries before someone else took them.
Do you think that she may have lost the cherries long after i saw her?
Was i looking at something else then? Maybe a sex toy? I need time to vent

2006-12-05 01:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating