2006-12-05 01:23:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a saying, "Love the one who loves you and not who you love." The point is that, you can love someone, but if that person don't love you back, when that person hurts you, it will hurt a lot more than when you just like someone because of the love you have for that person. Most of the time when someone does not care for you the same way you care for them, they end up treating you badly. Now, a person who is in love with you will treat you nicely and with respect and the way you should be treated. Because of the way that person will make you fee, you can learn to love the person who loves you. Always remember, you can not force someone to love you and if they truly don't, no matter what you do, it will not change their minds. If they do decide to be with you or pretend to care, it is usually because their intention is to use you. Good luck.
2006-12-05 02:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go neither with anyone of them...
But you can TRY to go with the one you love who doesnt love you AND if it doesnt work then find someone who loves you back...
Love is like a two way street, both sides should love each other and work for it 24/7 to make the relationships lasts...
2006-12-05 09:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once tried dating someone while still being in love with a different woman, who was a friend. With my attention divided, I just couldn't get my heart into the relationship and eventually ended up breaking it off.
If you're going to date B (the one who loves you), you should first make sure you've found closure with A. It helps if you minimize contact with A. Alternatively, you could pursue A while trying a "just friends for now" approach with B.
2006-12-05 10:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new start, Life is short,It is sad your whole "Love" situation and it does hurt. But don't waste time,True Love isn't about games and who should you go out with,Be Free and the right person will come along, :)
2006-12-05 18:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it would be right to go out with either of them,if you go out with someone and you dont love them ur deceiving them and thats cruel,also do you really want to go out with someone who you know wont love you back the relationship wont go anywhere,so its obvious the two of them arent right for you but if you wait the right person will come along usually when you least expect it
2006-12-05 09:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you went out with the one who loves you, you may not get to love them straight away but like them enough to develop a relationship maybe eventually "learning" to love them
2006-12-05 09:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by big pup in a small bath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a great plot for a musical! Boy loves girl...but girl does not...but another boy fancies first boy...but first boy is straight....but girl that first boy loves loves gay boy...who clearly does not love girl....and now for the big number in C major if you please...1...2....3..
Seriously....dont go out with anybody that you dont love...or does not love you...both paths are dooomed
2006-12-05 09:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by michael s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its too messy - you should walk away from the lot of them - meet someone completely new who will love you equally as much as you love them - that way you can BOTH be happy xxx
2006-12-05 09:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by starlet108 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you love. If you go out with the one you don't love, you'll only end up hating them
Mind you, then the one you love might end up hating you.
2006-12-05 09:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither, u both need to be in love to make a long term relationship work, you cant make someone love you or you to love someone else.
2006-12-05 09:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by lamyarhull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋