I'm in a relationship that I'm unsure of.It began as an unhealthy relationship but then it gradually started getting better.By "unhealthy",I mean,he constantly cheated and I was simply stressed out.Sometimes I feel like ending it but I don't want to see him with anybody else.He doesn't mind spoiling the woman he's with and I don't want to let that go.Also,we live in a small town and I know that people would have a field day with our break-up because there is alot of jealousy about the relationship.We do everything together but stupid decisions we made in the past stopped us from being where we should be in life.We're trying to start over but it's hard for me to forget what he did in the past.I'm no angel,but hey,I respected him.It's just confusing and I don't want to stay for all the wrong reasons.
2006-12-05 01:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by missraynell07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you are saying I feel that you ARE staying with him for the wrong reasons. You love him but since u cant get over what he has done to u u want to leave him but at the same time u dont want anyone else to have him u want your cake and eat it too. I think that you need to cut him loose because it is not true love. Him spoiling u is clouding your judgement. Dont worry about the jealously of other people. hey u had him first and now its just leftovers for others. I know u can find someone else that will spoil u and make u happy. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-05 01:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Queenleo21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying that I'm a guy but that'll definitely NOT make me to take side as to be subjective in giving you my advice. To start with, I think you're confussing his flirting habit with cheating. What I can deduce from what you've said is that your guy loves flirting with gurls anywhere he's. But let me tell you that if he's doing it when you're with him, then, he's NOT a cheat. And let me emphasize something you've said, that you won't forget all what he had done for you in the past - whatever it is, always make sure you don't forget. He really loves you, but it seems you're just a jealous type. Maybe you need to iron out some issues with him but NEVER you venture to break this relationship cos you may regret it. Remember that it's better to stay with him and correct all your differences than starting a new relationship with another guy. Cheers and good luck.
2006-12-05 09:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying your in this for material reasons or ? and your continuing so not to listen to tongue wagging? and your jealous of him and other relationships?
What are you saying, you seem to have all negative responses Honey! I don't know what to say. Maybe you should stop, call off the relationship and go separate ways for a time, see what happens, after all if he "bought you" before he can "buy you" again, can't he?
I don't like the sound of anything I hear in this relationship.
2006-12-05 09:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped reading at: He constantly cheated. That is really unhealthy you don't have to stay because it is getting better. He should have never cheated on you. Are you not worth more than that? You can have anybody you want so why want someone that want's everyone but you????????????
2006-12-05 09:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋