I really don't have a problem with it cause I don't want a serious relationship right now but I don't want to be a homewrecker. They aren't married just attached. It seems that those type of men always seem to like me. But in the end I know it's still cheating even if we aren't getting physical.
2006-12-05 01:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by ikkinaw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not cheating if you are just talking. There is nothing wrong with being just friends.
2006-12-05 01:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels like cheating then you are getting too close. Back away.
Men who are attached but still enter into relationships are not the type to talk to. They can't be trusted and they don't really respect you. (or anyone else)
Even if you don't want a serious relationship right now you should stay away from other people's boyfriends.
Maybe the reason you go for them is because you see them as safe. consciously decide not to get close to anyone who is attached. Just meet new people and be up front about what you want right now.
2006-12-05 01:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by artimis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're just talking, you aren't doing anything wrong. Accept maybe if you're teasing them in the wrong way. And even then, those men have the responsibility to their lovers, not you. But if you're talking ethics, you might wanna ignore those type of men who are interested in you in the WRONG way. There are guys out there that will just want you, and ONLY you. See what i mean? Forget those other losers. They're only in it for the game and thrill of something new.
In any case. I hope you'll meet someone who is worthy of your love, instead of those players. They got love waiting for them at home. And if it's not what they are looking for, they shouldn't have gotten involved with those ladies.
Good luck...
2006-12-05 01:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by StormyWeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference between talking and flirting. Even in this generation. What are you talking about? World problems, politics, starving children? What are YOU thinking about when talking to them? Those men don't "like" you, they are "using" you. Stick to singles.
2006-12-05 01:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by bonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being Friends is ok but that first bit of getting physical in any way like kissing is making you a home wrecker if you want to be one of those biatches then keep on trukin otherwise if you think you cant help yourself you need to break off the friendship
2006-12-05 01:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like he said, its not chating is if all you do is talk. But dont be like a friend of mine, talking with a lil bit of flirt on the side. She has gotten herslef into tight situations with those kinds of actions.
2006-12-05 01:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you already know the answer to that! There are lots of single guys out there.
2006-12-05 01:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to anyone you like, why shouldn't you? Do you have some kind of guilt complex? there's no reason not to have friends of the opposite sex. I wouldn't say going over and visiting them in their private home alone, or for dinner dates. but to stop and say "Hi" to? why not.
2006-12-05 01:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong for you to TALK to attached men. Now what you talk about could be wrong.
2006-12-05 01:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lori E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u shoulsd just find somebodie that doesnt want to be in a relationship to that isnt already in one and yall can just chill
2006-12-05 01:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋