Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

2006-12-05 04:38:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 22 year old single mother of one. My little girl is one week old. I am very attractive, independant and intelligent-I have a great job, my own home, provide for myself 100%. I am not the clingy/pushy type at all. I'm not on speaking terms with my daughters father-my pregnancy was very unplanned (I was on birth control) and he pretty much abandoned me when he found out (he told me to get an abortion, I don't believe in it so I kept the baby and I haven't talked to him since, he's never seen his child)
I am not ready to date yet...I am planning on concentrating on my daughter for right now. But I would like to eventually...I've spent the past 9 months completely alone and it's been pretty hard. I miss that companionship and comfort that a relationship brings...I was just wondering what guys think of single mothers-particularly one in my situation. Do you think it is going to be hard for me to find love again? Would you ever date or have a serious relationship with a single mom?

2006-12-05 04:37:23 · 15 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is kind of related to my earlier question.....I was asked out by a guy that i like, i said no but i do really like him, he thinks he has now messed our friendship up, should i ask him to meet up and go out somewhere?? good idea or not?? if not suggestions please. Thankyou!! x

2006-12-05 04:37:03 · 8 answers · asked by x--becki--x 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf of two years has started to use the church to resolve some of her personal problems. I myself am not really that religous, but I do respect her view points. The problem is that she has become very hipocritical about various things. I smoke and so does she when she drinks, however because of her new found faith she is constantly harping on me about everything from smoking, drinking, swearing and sex. I'm a good guy and treat her very good, I don't drink too much and I don't have a trucker mouth. my problem is that she does all of the above but not in excess and either do I.
now she says no sex untill we're married, I just don't know if I can take it anymore. we went from twice a day too not at all for the last 3 months. how do I handle her religous turn around?, my main problem is that she never really sticks with anything, so Im not willing to change my whole life over a phase, when I'm already very good to her and put up with tons of her bs already.

2006-12-05 04:36:53 · 18 answers · asked by storminnormin 2 in Singles & Dating

i do quite a lot..is this normal?x

2006-12-05 04:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 04:34:35 · 7 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an amazing bf and he moved to Dc for work but we are still together and at the beginning of summer we will decide as to whether or not I will move to be with him. I ask him and his reply sometimes is "I don't have any issues with anything" in regards to me moving there. What do you think in regards to this?

2006-12-05 04:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mariachi 2 in Singles & Dating

pervert? What makes a guy a pervert? Do you like perverted men, or do you think they are sick? If you found out your man was a pervert, what would you do?

2006-12-05 04:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wheres the most awkward or wierd place youve had sex

2006-12-05 04:33:47 · 33 answers · asked by Sharp 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend makes a lot more money then me, and gets offended when I pull out my wallet. Should I stop attemting to pay?

2006-12-05 04:32:47 · 21 answers · asked by Jo 1 in Singles & Dating

My children are 5 and 10 and they both beleive. As we dont have a chimney we obviously had to tell another story, and we have special father chrismas key (purchased from a very good card shop) and we hang it by the fire place and a fairy comes in to get in which then lets father christmas through the door. They have the stocking presents from father christmas and all other gifts from family members. We tell them (cause they obviously hear people saying 'so what do you want for christmas' that santa needs help deciding what to get people, and they go an buy it and send it to him to wrap, and he brings it all back on christmas eve. A bit far fetched i know, but my kids love christmas and get so excited. So what do you people out there tell your kids? No stupid answers from stupid time wasters please.

2006-12-05 04:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are good friends and talked a while back about being friends or more. I thought she was trying to get my attention, and she denied so. We agreed to remain friends, but now, I let slip that I once had feelings for her. Since, we get closer and closer all the time. It is obvious that she wants to be my best girl friend, and she gets jealous of other close girl friends. She continues to say admantly that we should be friends as I do as well, but she acts like she wants a WHOLE lot more. How can I tell?

2006-12-05 04:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 04:32:06 · 10 answers · asked by hobart b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a whole big black chest full of magazines,a drawer with DVD's,and a computer full of pic's about 500 pic's i would say...I don't have a problem with it but I think he is addicted.What do you think..

2006-12-05 04:31:45 · 9 answers · asked by evil_little_girl_11 1 in Singles & Dating

a married man? A friend of mine is planning to meet a married woman he met online for drinks after work. He told me that they have exchanged sexually explicit emails but that they are just friends. I've advised him not go.

SO L84WK ---- DID YOUR FRIEND HEED YOUR ADVISE .... OR DID HE GO MEET HER ANYWAY .... WHAT WAS THE OUTCOME ... CAN 2 PEOPLE BE FRIENDS WITHOUT IT RESULTING IN SEX OR DID YOUR FRIEND GET LAID

WHAT DOES THE REST OF THE COMMUNITY THINK --- GOT LAID OR NOT?

2006-12-05 04:31:33 · 20 answers · asked by cdnponygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to find a man that will be loyal and is not a totla *** hole but at the same time a lil cocky but still treats me right!

2006-12-05 04:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Singles & Dating

.....take on a lady who was in the early stages of pregnancy to another mans child?

2006-12-05 04:30:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have been together a long while and we're even considering marriage. The one thing that is upsetting to him is my family, friends, everyone knows he and I are together and my mother loves him. His mother knows who i am but nothing of our relationship we'e too scared of what might happen to risk it or risk us being broken up. We're both committed to each other and we want this too work we talk on the phone ever day im everyday and see each other when we can. Hell our phone bills have been $700.00 bux from him and me talking on the phone for about everyday for a month straight for a minimum of 2 hours max of 4 everday we really love each other.

2006-12-05 04:29:44 · 28 answers · asked by scryingcrystal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 04:29:17 · 11 answers · asked by ad 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is from my friend who i must say is doing my head in,,yes she's laugthing as i type,,are Virgo's and Capricorns compatible lovers,,,

2006-12-05 04:29:12 · 7 answers · asked by kimble 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know that americans have difficulty understanding our english sense of humor..... But it has just dawned on me when in conversation with a girl that knows my humour so well or so I thought , competley missed what the joke was....

And it was a play on words for the idiots that are going to say that my joke wasnt nessisarily funny....So fairly basic stuff.....

2006-12-05 04:28:50 · 10 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey i hate xmas, my parent split last year and its just not the same, i have to choose who i see as they live miles from each other and its really hard, any one else feel the same? all iv ever know is them together and now theres no magic, dads always down and its so hard. any tips? any1 wanna share there reasons 2??? hugs x paris

2006-12-05 04:28:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can understand why men cheat..... They simply cant control the urges that their raging hormones produce. But if women arent overcome by a dieing urge to just have sex from hormones, why do they cheat? My bets are revenge, self esteem issues etc. what do you think

this question was asked b/f but i wanna know what the new comers have to say......

2006-12-05 04:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend ushered my break up along. She made friends with my ex, and it seemed she did a divide and conquer, since our relationship was weak, and we went to her seeking individual advice, and we knew she didn't like our relationship. OK, that was setled, we broke up. She took me everywhere with her(I agreed to go), BUT after the break up, everything was fine as long as I went places with her. One day I said I'd rather chill in my apartment; and she TOLD me that I was coming with her. I said I wasn't, so she slammed the door to my apartment(she was staying with me then). She was mad for a bit, but calmed down, blamed it on her period. But then she started telling me all my dishes were crap and I need new ones(they worked fine for me), she said my apartment was a rathole, she said my stuff wasn't fit to eat/cook in. She kept on accusing me of treating her like a retard whenever I told her she needs to find a job and move out. When I said she needs to because of building rules, she got

2006-12-05 04:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey i hate xmas, my parent split last year and its just not the same, i have to choose who i see as they live miles from each other and its really hard, any one else feel the same? all iv ever know is them together and now theres no magic, dads always down and its so hard. any tips? any1 wanna share there reasons 2??? hugs x paris

2006-12-05 04:28:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'd like to know from a broad cross-spectrum of society, what people consider "Cheesy" when applied to wedding receptions.

Remember, what's "Cheesey" in my area (upscale Northern Californians) is probably "da bomb" in your area.

"Cheese is in the eye of the beholder".....EVERY AREA IS DIFFERENT.

Here's what I consider "cheesey" (please add to my list):
1) David Rose's "The Stripper" for theme music during garter removal tradition.
2) Newlyweds smashing cake in each other's faces.
3) Macarena
4) Y.M.C.A.
5) Chicken Dance
6) Hokey Pokey
7) Line Dances of all kinds (Electric Slide, Cha-Cha Slide, etc)
8) Conga Lines
9) Money Dances (its like "begging for money")
10) Swarmy "radio personality" DJs in tuxedos, acting like sleezy game show hosts, dominating the reception....it seems like they do more talking than play music.....

2006-12-05 04:27:57 · 20 answers · asked by dj_mc_entertainment 2 in Weddings

if u cant just leave me ur email and cuz i have found a great site just like myspace that u can get on even at school or work,invite will be sent tomorrow

2006-12-05 04:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by texasthug420 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 04:27:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys what do you think of gilrs who initiates the contact first specially in online dating . are there any guys there who are contacted by girls ? what do you think of them vs girls whom you contact first.
Girls is it common to initiate first contact do you do this often. I'm asking because I was used to being chased but now I like some one online and contacted but he is making me look like I'm despearte and keeps postphoning the dates . pls help

2006-12-05 04:27:22 · 8 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Singles & Dating

Two years ago my son, then 13, messesd up, got home drunk, was disrespectful. I ended up giving him a good spanking and he was grounded for 2 months. He turned into a great kid any parent would be proud of,.but so resentful that until today he has hardly talked to me and his mom, cause she supported me. These days I had a problem and because of my principles I had to give up some good money I was about to make and we were counting on. My wife and my 12 yo daughter got disappointed an even angry with me, cause though contrary to my principles there was nothing illegal. Bt my son understood me, even congratulated me and help me convince my wife and daughter I had done the right thing to do. I was amazed, he handled that situation better than me, showed much maturity, and convinced them I was right. I tried that could mean a new and good phase in our realtionship, but unfortunately I was wrong. He just said he had been fair, followed his conscience but nothing had changed.

2006-12-05 04:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family