what do you think of girls who contacts a guy first ?

Question

Guys what do you think of gilrs who initiates the contact first specially in online dating . are there any guys there who are contacted by girls ? what do you think of them vs girls whom you contact first.
Girls is it common to initiate first contact do you do this often. I'm asking because I was used to being chased but now I like some one online and contacted but he is making me look like I'm despearte and keeps postphoning the dates . pls help

Answer 1

i feel uncomfortable calling a guy first but usually it just happens natural that we like each other like at school and then we spend time together after that. sometimes it works and sometimes not but i would rathr not be the first to call

Answer 2

nothing wrong for a girl to initiate the first move. but move on from this guy that keeps postponing the dates...as i see it...the ball is now in his court and you did what you had to do. If he doesn't call then he wasn't serious in the first place to go out on a date with you and if he does call....great!!!! Go and have fun.

Answer 3

personally, I have no problems with ladies making fisst contact. It shows an interest, which makes things go easier

Answer 4

I have no problem with a girl who makes the first move.

Answer 5

more power to you I say. You know what, if dude is not making you feel right, just initiate another date, one should eventually pay off.

Answer 6

I think they are cool. But I don't think it makes a lot of difference.

Answer 7

its cool, it show confidence

Answer 8

confident and sure of what she wants.