Hey i hate xmas, my parent split last year and its just not the same, i have to choose who i see as they live miles from each other and its really hard, any one else feel the same? all iv ever know is them together and now theres no magic, dads always down and its so hard. any tips? any1 wanna share there reasons 2??? hugs x paris
2006-12-05 04:28:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry to say ... but ... I hate the shopping ... I'm annoyed by the relatives ... the traffics murder ... people irritate me ... and yet I still Love Christmas!
You still have both your parents! Spend Christmas Eve with One & Christmas with the other & alternate every year. Don't want to sit at home - go to a movie with your dad as a new Christmas tradition! Invite him to your place on Christmas Eve! Go camping the week before! Whatever works!
You have to remember, things always change - you can let it tower over you like some tomb stone or you can take charge and make your own new traditions with the people you love!
Best of Luck & Merry Christmas!
2006-12-05 04:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me Christmas is way too commercialized! The idea of spending money every year for people, the chance of getting something for someone they don't like or forgetting someone is a good possibility. I have 9 siblings, 5 nieces and nephews, 4 parents, a husband, Mother and Father in law and a brother in-law, and not to mention cousins.
I hate spending money to begin with and I hate shopping. I am trying to save money for myself to get back on my feet after just getting out of debt due to car repairs!
For me personally, I would be very happy to spend time with my family and have a nice dinner and have a relaxing day. The point is to spend time with loved ones and enjoy each other while be thankful for what we DO have! There are things you cannot buy!
2006-12-05 04:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're no longer on my own in the form you experience reason there would desire to be 1000's of human beings feeling the comparable. I chop up up with my lady buddy in June 2005 after ten years or extra, even with the undeniable fact that it grow to be June, it gets me down extra at Christmas by way of fact we began seeing one yet another on the hours of darkness on new years.i actual leave out her. dropping her in the way I did has meant having no closure and led to me to have 3 significant breakdowns the 0.33 of which i'm dealing with now, and due to the quantity of ailment interestingly probable that i will lose my job this month too. it particularly is a shame particularly that there's no longer a place the place at Christmas all persons unhappy and lonely human beings can meet up , it might the two be a evening to remember or on the information as a cult mass suicide or some thing, besides i'm going to be thinking of you, desire success falls your way and you will destroy the cycle. maximum suitable desires Grae
2016-10-14 01:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your parents. I was gonna suggest having a talk with them about how hard it is on you and how you'd like for everyone to get together to make it easier but it sounds like that is not an option. It always helps me when I volunteer at a homeless animal shelter, perhaps there are some volunteer opportunities in your area? Good luck.
2006-12-05 04:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by RockabillyBanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say I hate Xmas,but it does get on my nerves.Its shoved in your face from about late September onwards,and by the time it actually arrives ,your doing your nutt.All I do from Sept,is try and save money from my already pitiful budget,to buy gifts,which I actually do like doing,its just that It leaves me so short of cash for everyday stuff.On top of that ,I'm moving house a week before,so I am gonna be well stressed out!!ARRRRRRAGGGGGHHHHH.hope that answers your question..Bah humbug******
2006-12-06 08:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate Christmas music and specials
Buying gifts really sucks
Getting gifts is not good enough to make up for having to buy them
I like time off though!
2006-12-05 04:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Staceyflourpond 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i hate it, whats the point? all this preparation for one day, and people being "fake" by being nice because its the holidays and no everybody wants to help the homeless. give me a break! I like thanksgiving better
2006-12-05 04:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my parents havent split, but i hate chirstmas. the meaning of it has went away. it is now a hallmark hoilday. it is silly that its all about the gifts anymore. we have this holiday to celebrate Jesus, not how many gifts you get!
2006-12-05 04:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHRISTMAS IS A TIME TO BE HAPPY..YOU CAN BE HAPPY IN A SPLIT FAMILY I COME FROM ONE AND WE HAVE MADE IT WORK.TELL THEM FOR CHRISTMAS YOU WANT THEM TO COME TO YOUR HOUSE AND NO FIGHTING... MAKE IT EASIER ON YOURSELF..
2006-12-05 04:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by shannon c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you ,,all it is a hallmark holiday,, money money money
2006-12-05 04:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋