I have an amazing bf and he moved to Dc for work but we are still together and at the beginning of summer we will decide as to whether or not I will move to be with him. I ask him and his reply sometimes is "I don't have any issues with anything" in regards to me moving there. What do you think in regards to this?
2006-12-05 04:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mariachi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to keep in mind that we have been together now for 4 years and he moved only because of work.
2006-12-05 04:40:22 · update #1
I think he's willing to live anywhere, for you. And that he's trying very hard, to be in charge, but not selfish. I think he loves you, maybe more than you love him. Just maybe. I think you should be with him, I think you should marry him, and do whatever he wants you to. I think, you should truly appreciate him, and all his decisons. I think he's all for you moving in with him. Go for it!
2006-12-05 04:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where I tend to shine a little bit, so forgive me if this answer is a little long.
Guys are very simple creatures to please and read at the same time. From time to time I see magazines, talk shows, and radio programs try to "unravel the mystery of a guys' mind". We're not that hard to figure out. For instance, if I guy says he likes a steak dinner, he likes steak dinner. There's no hidden messeges in there.
The same thing holds true with the false side of the spectrum. Think about this: Your boyfriend has moved to a new city, undoubtedly has met some really nice people and probably a few single women along the way. Now since I don't know the guy personally, and I'm only speaking from my point of view, he may have acted on any of those urges he would get from those "other girls". Basically, if he's telling you that he doesn't have issues with anything, I think he's hiding something. If he wanted you to move there with him then he would have come right out and said "I want you to move here with me" and nothing else.
I think we should talk about this a little more in depth. Please email me so we can get to the bottom of this.
2006-12-05 12:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy says something like that it could mean two things
a. he moved away from you and is trying to put you off by saying that
b. he genuinely loves you and wants you to be happy and doesn't have any issues if you can;t move n with him
Personally, I suggest you ask him on his face. That will clear a lot of things up :)
All the best!
2006-12-05 12:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Valia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In regards means he won't mind you moving to be with him , but he is not promising to be your one and only either and you will have to take care of yourself.
In other words your moving there to be with him would be like a room mate staying with him to save cost of the room.
2006-12-05 12:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't want to think about it right now if this isn't going to happen for another 6 months.
2006-12-05 12:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, he would want you there, without question. His response is very uncaring. Personally, I would get rid of him, but thats your life.
2006-12-05 12:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.americancatholic.org/Newsletters/CU/ac0603.asp
2006-12-05 12:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love him then yes go be happy
2006-12-05 12:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by ronny b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might b busy in his work or might he b ignoring u
2006-12-05 12:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-12-05 12:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋