2006-12-05 04:27:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I think you should advice your mother to step up and be responsible to her actions and talk to your step father about her issues.
If she is not happy with your step father she should have the guts to end it then go around and sleep with 3 guys. I think she is uncertain of what she wants or there is something missing that she is looking for it outside the home.
If she doesnt sharpen up and tells your step father about this then I think you should tell him. Your mother would be really mad at you but you know you have done the right thing and she will eventually forgive you.
Its so sad that we all have mouths, feelings, and we can express ourselfs well and sometimes we choose not to do it when we really should.
Good Luck.
2006-12-05 04:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW tell your stepfather! Your mom isnt going to listen to you she is a grown woman and will do what she wants. She will get caught or it will come back to bite her in the rear end! Thats really sad that she has to cheat on your stepfather with three guys. She is crying out for attention or something!
2006-12-05 04:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, your mom, by rights, is an adult. What she brought to the table with your stepfather, I have no clue. But if he is important to you, you may want to gently ask him what would happen if he and your mom ever broke up. That may give him enough clarity to make some inquiries of his own. In the meantime, try to figure out why your mom craves so much attention. Could be she has been feeling very small and invisible to someone who is supposed to be taking notice.
2006-12-05 04:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by H2Ocolors 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about your stepfather, you need to tell him. Before you do so, tell your mother and give her a chance to come clean with your stepfather.
However, if you don't care about your stepfather, you should just mind your own business. It IS possible that your mother has your stepfather's permission.
2006-12-05 04:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. This is her life, not yours. Just as you would not want her butting into your business you should stay out of hers. Telling her she is wrong will work no better with her than if she told you that you were wrong. You'd say "screw you I'll do what I want."
It's her life, let her live it as she wants. Be concerned with your life. Chances are you don't know the full story, you only know what you are seeing. For all you know they have an open relationship and your stepfather knows of the other men and he is seeing other women.
You don't know. It's not your place to stick your nose into your parent's business. I know I'd be pissed and resentful if my kids did.
2006-12-05 04:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced, he's definitely dishonest on your mom. each of the evidence is there and there is not any denying it, quite the section about her getting an STD, which with the aid of how, you do not get it from a towel. it is purely transmitted sexually, so except you or your sister have penises, she were given it from him, era. Now, your mom has a decision to make, both proceed to stay with him, even with the evidence that she's uncovered so a procedures. and that i'm quite effective she'll proceed to get extra STDs or worse, or eliminate him. Like a former newspaper columnist pricey Abby (now deceased) might want to in many situations ask, "Are you extra efficient off with or without him?" with regards to you and your sister's innocence, will you both please loosen up and stop tripping!!! in the experience that your mom needs to have self belief her husband, that is on her, there is not any longer something you may want to do to make her replace her ideas, or his for that be counted. i don't believe of he will confront you and if he does, tell the reality. he's definitely a fool, yet might want to be even extra of a larger fool, if he were to confront you with that style of an excuse. He needs to strengthen up and settle for accountability for what he's performed. Why is he nonetheless including your mom for, if he will proceed to provide her grief? i'm purely telling the reality like that is, do not get indignant. My profile states all of it. reliable luck in this challenge, ok? In ultimate, i'd opt for to characteristic a saying, which is going wonders, have self belief it or no longer: keep in mind that secrets and techniques, lies and deceit are called purely that-for a reason, no longer something's sacred and finally issues get got here upon and also you may want to't run & conceal continuously.
2016-11-23 18:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she on drugs or alcohol? If so, she needs to be taken to the doctor and gotten into rehab. If not, you need to tell her that if she doesn't stop this destructive behavior, you will not be there for her when he finds out. Tell her you are ashamed of her behavior, but do not tell your stepfather. He'll figure it out.
2006-12-05 04:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your missing a little but here goes nothing. You can't stop her. You can tell her how you feel and that you don't agree with what she is doing, but it's her relationships and her life. She isn't going to listen to anyone. Learn from her mistakes and go on to have a better life for yourself. Good luck
2006-12-05 04:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you know what's going on and that you feel it is wrong because you really care for your step father. Tell her if you see her again cheating, you'll be forced to tell him. If she keeps up her behavior, mention it to your step father while your mother is present.
2006-12-05 04:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do it because to her you are a kid and will always be a kid. Go to a good friend of hers or maybe and aunt or uncle or even your real dad and ask them to straighten your mother out. Good luck
2006-12-05 04:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋