My friend ushered my break up along. She made friends with my ex, and it seemed she did a divide and conquer, since our relationship was weak, and we went to her seeking individual advice, and we knew she didn't like our relationship. OK, that was setled, we broke up. She took me everywhere with her(I agreed to go), BUT after the break up, everything was fine as long as I went places with her. One day I said I'd rather chill in my apartment; and she TOLD me that I was coming with her. I said I wasn't, so she slammed the door to my apartment(she was staying with me then). She was mad for a bit, but calmed down, blamed it on her period. But then she started telling me all my dishes were crap and I need new ones(they worked fine for me), she said my apartment was a rathole, she said my stuff wasn't fit to eat/cook in. She kept on accusing me of treating her like a retard whenever I told her she needs to find a job and move out. When I said she needs to because of building rules, she got
2006-12-05 04:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Distant yourself from her. Who is she to make you break with your ex, and then became buddies with him? WTF! Before she start to boss you around and critisize you and your properties, show her the mirror. Is she talking about herself? Does she own anything in the house even? How is it possible to be considered a retard when you tell her to get a job? Do you pay all the bills and rents or do you split all the cost? If it's only you, all the more reason to get her out. She's fighting with you whenever you mention the 3 letter word (job), ok, fine, since she's living with you too, make her pay her share. Nothing's free in this world, and you can only take your friend for granted for only this long. I'd long be insulted if someone were to say my place is like a rathole, my cooking sucks etc. If you don't like it, move out! I think it's time for you to cut all ties with this so called friend. What a spoiled b*tch!
2006-12-05 04:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you friend to move out whether she wants to or not, you can't continue to put up with her degrading you even if you have friends over or not. She has a serious problem and needs help as I read this. She keeps up this and she will never be truly on her own and she won't keep a guy for long because most men would not put up with this kind of treatment. She is set on doing what she wants to even if it means hurting someone else and using them for personal gain, You know what you want to do and you have rules you have to follow where you are at, so if she can't foloow them she needs to move back home with mom and dad. She could be jealous by what you have and what you have accomplished, and she could be taking it out on you but it is not right even to that extent. She could be afraid of something but getting angry is not going to help that either. It is obvious that she not sure what she plans to do, but as long as you let her stay underneath you then she knows she has you right where she wants you and take advantage of you so it is time to tell to pack her stuff and move out, I know you don't want to do it but sometimes you have to do things that will hurt people but you are helping her find her own way in life and some day she will thank you for doing this if not then she is not a true friend.
2006-12-05 13:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got played. You ever heard of the person that pretends to be your friend but secretly hates your damn guts. LMAO Now that is your so called friend. She hates you and you got her living in the same place you are. She screwed up your relationship and now its on to plan two....screw up where you sleep and then plan three reduce your confidence to zero. Get away from this type of woman...QUICKLY before it is to late....may already be.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-05 12:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, she's not a very good friend if she bullies you like that. Her period is NOT an excuse for what she did, and I bet she wouldn't like it if you said and did all the stuff she did, so tell her that and then she'd probably shut up. =P
2006-12-05 12:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by xxsleepy_starxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes a b*tch you need a new friend. She was never your friend in the first place. What a b*tch I would have given her a piece of my mind.
2006-12-05 12:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a control freak, I would eliminate her from my life if I were you. Who needs that kind of friend?
2006-12-05 12:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds jealous of your ex.
2006-12-05 12:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a carpet cleaner, and you have the carpet she wants to clean, get it?
2006-12-05 12:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her lazy, loser asss.
2006-12-05 12:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE DOESN'T SOUND LIKE A REAL FRIEND, I WOULDN'T STRESS ABOUT IT.
2006-12-05 12:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by MISSY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋