.....take on a lady who was in the early stages of pregnancy to another mans child?
2006-12-05 04:30:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not me, too many issues to get round, especially the rebobund thing!
not got a problem with kids, just cant see it lasting long term if she has only just left another bloke.
2006-12-05 04:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really think alot would depend on the circumstances.
I mean if the woman has just seperated from the father of her unborn child, emotionally she is going to be all over the place.
There is the real possibility of her turning to a guy who may only be offering support/sympathy to her, & then they suddenly find themselves trapped in a relationship!
Once that starts, could you then leave a lady in that position? I mean if you were her rock, & then suddenly you bail out in the latter stages of the pregnancy, what would be the lady's state of mind? Scrambled would be the best way of putting it!
But on the other hand I think if you had had a friendship with the woman, had known her for a while & felt a connection there, then yes, why wouldn't you. The reason though would have to be right,
not out of sympathy for her predicament.
2006-12-05 04:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some would. You never know. It depends on the circumstances. However, it is likely to cause problems in the future.
Let's say for example a woman's husband died in an accident. His friend might care for the woman and think he would like to look after her, and lover her. My daughter has a friend whose husband was killed leaving her with a 3 yr old and a 1 yr old. Now she has married her husband's friend and is expecting twins. This is a true story.
As long as everyone is able to talk about how they truly feel in these difficult circumstances, there is always a good chance things will work out.
2006-12-05 04:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Caroline 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on the lady...if we had know each other for a while and were interested in one another but the other man was the only thing standing in the way of our relationship then maybe.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 04:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Keifer D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances, the man, the woman. Too many variables to answer simply. Many men would be a bit scared off, though.
2006-12-05 04:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not many that's for sure,think of the scenario after the birth what if the father comes back on the scene and you have been there all the way with her through the pregnancy how would you feel?best of luck whatever you decide
2006-12-05 04:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by DAVID C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was single, in love with her and believed she loved me back? In a heart beat! Of course with something like that, the guy will always have the nagging question did she marry me so we could be together or did she marry me to be a Father to her child?
2006-12-05 04:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not many men would want to be the father figure of another mans baby.
2006-12-05 04:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If we were in the wild the man would kill the other man's child then make his own with the woman.
I would not hook up with a woman that has another man's child. I'm here to spread my genes not his.
2006-12-05 05:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldnt and I bet not many men would,Children are one thing but I would draw the line at an unborn child.
2006-12-05 04:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by iain xx 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋