Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

for me to have guy friends that my husband doesn't know about?

2006-12-04 04:06:52 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok , apparently i am told love it or leave it for america, i am american and i do love my country, but no im sorry i dont think it is the best, so what? I haven't been everywhere and i liked alot of countries, is there a problem with not thinking my country is the best? please grow up and stop telling me to leave, get into reality, YOU KIDS RUIN AMERICA WITH YOUR "LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT" CRAP

2006-12-04 04:06:40 · 19 answers · asked by g h 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to have a family and kids but most of all I want the Love thats unconditional from a man. I know that I should be patient but man I'm losing hope. Everyone around me is getting married and having kids. I'm getting a lil jealous. I'm always the bridesmaid never the bride. Ahhhhhhhhhh help. I need some good advice to get this stuff out of my head and not worry about it.

2006-12-04 04:06:26 · 14 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a 14 yr old boy, brown eyes, black hair, white skin (im NOT a raceist) and im 5ft 4 1/2 in. Got any idea how i can get a girl?

2006-12-04 04:06:20 · 1 answers · asked by Calvin Roy 2 in Singles & Dating

be interested in a little nookie that night? Have men never heard that women are like crock pots - we need to be warmed up?

2006-12-04 04:06:12 · 11 answers · asked by shellbugger 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a real one that you write. Not a internet site address or internet poem. Thanks.

2006-12-04 04:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by brandon_fargerson 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl broke up 3 weeks ago... for the last two weeks or so she has been kicking it with this guy. She swears he is just a friend and then last night they sent me this:
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t105578/....
I called her and said that was wrong to do this and that... you could here him in th ebackground and such and she is swearing up and down that they arent together, he i sjust a friend... I love her and want to believe her... but man... that page makes it really hard. Even though two days ago she was crying and telling me she missed what we had and such... does anybody think she is telling the truth, I mean women usually wont denie their man right in front of their man will they?

2006-12-04 04:05:18 · 1 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been in a serious 7yr relationship, and we have a 3yr old daughter....we had many ups and downs...but we have been there for each other throughout these many years....ive been faithful, he hasnt, recently he went 2 weeks without calling me...and didnt really give me a good reason why he didnt contact me...he just said he was busy! (BS) I have alot of bitter feelings for him right now and cant really get over somethings that have happened lately, and i think ive lost respect or love for him...what should i do, because i dont want to hurt him, and lately ive been having continuous bitter feelings about hurting him.....please only serious answers!

2006-12-04 04:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3 in Singles & Dating

When we woke up at her house, i said to her i wanted sex and she said no. Then i'm like ok, and I asked her what she wanted to do today and she said I don't know. So ok, I told her I am going home, since she don't knows. Then outta nowhere, she says she wants time off from the relationship (3 weeks). I asked her why she needed the time off and she said she is stressed with the kids (she's a 3rd grade teacher). This is true because I have overheard her crying to her sister about it at around 4am in the morning while I was sleeping. She also admits that after 3 weeks, we will be going to Las Vegas as planned (already booked) . I know I will feel very awkward not seeing or talking to her for 3 weeks and just suddenly go to Vegas. Please, I need some advice, what is going on? Should I just move on? We have been going out for 3+ years and got engaged last month and I brought her a $6200 dollar ring. I know I screwed up a bit, but why the sudden time off? Is she playing around with me?

2006-12-04 04:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by yfcao 3 in Singles & Dating

that statement came from a guy who is in a 4 year relationship.What do u think?will he stop being unfaithfull when he gets married?could he really believe in what he says?

2006-12-04 04:02:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE BEEN CHEATING ON MY WIFE FOR ABOUT TEN YEARS NOW AND COULDN'T SEEM TO STOP UNTIL SHE DECIDED TO CHEAT ON ME. AFTER A BUNCH OF CONFUSION WE TURNED TO GOD AND THE RELATIONSHIP HAS MADE A 360 DEGREE TURN FOR THE BETTER. I HAVEN'T CHEATED FOR ABOUT TWO MONTHS. IT DON'T SEEM THAT LONG BUT TRUST ME THAT IS PRETTY LONG FOR ME. I WANT TO DO THE RIGHT THING AND SO I ASKED GOD TO DELIVER ME FROM MY FORNICATIVE DESIRES. I AM NOT WORRIED ABOUT HER CHEATING ON ME AGAIN BECAUSE HER REASON FOR CHEATING WAS DIFFERENT FROM MINE AND I KNOW HER CHARACTER. I AM TRULY SORRY FOR ALL THOSE TIMES I PUT HER SECOND IN MY LIFE AND I WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN BUT I KNOW ME. WOMEN FIND ME VERY ATTRACTIVE AND SO SOMEONE IS ALWAYS IN MY FACE. I LOVE MY WIFE AND I DON'T WANT TO CONTINUE TO HURT HER. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE BECAUSE IT IS HARD TO SAY NO TO EVERY GIRL THAT I ENCOUNTER. I WANT AND NEED HER IN MY LIFE BUT IT IS HARD FOR ME TO JUST SAY NO AND WALK AWAY. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.

2006-12-04 04:02:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have really liked a guy on my crew team. I am the coxin and he is a rower and normally i am supposed to stay away from the Rowers dating wise to not cause drama. Saturday night we went back to my room after a party, kissed, talked, and feel asleep together. It was really nice. I am not looking for a relationship really but I love his company. I havn't talked to him since, but the more i think about it I want him to still be with me but i don't want him to just come over to hook up. Anyone see what I am trying to get at.

What kind of things should i do or ask him, or not do and not ask him about where this is going?

2006-12-04 04:01:55 · 18 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is in her 70's and she looks after her husband who has severe dementia. She claims the care attendance allowance although she is struggling to pay for extra care. What benefits could she be entitled to or are there any loop holes or extra benefits that we don't know about? She has a state pension her husband has a private and state. Its so sad that she can't afford to put him in a home as he needs 24/7 care, andshe is so worn out. Any advice woulod be appreciated thanks!

2006-12-04 04:01:51 · 5 answers · asked by dizzycheeks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In my experience Ladies toilets are always harder to keep clean.

Why are women nastier than men?

2006-12-04 04:01:13 · 18 answers · asked by gary b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 04:01:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-12-04 04:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a great guy, and we have a great relationship. We have been together for a year and practically live together. The only thing is that he has given me a few reasons to not completely trust him and to suspect (but not actually be able to make an accusation) that something is up. After he gave me a funny story a few nights ago, I crossed a line an went through his phone. The only thing that annoyed me is that when I viewed his text messages, he asked someone if they wanted to hang out. All of his messages were to numbers that were already saved / listed in his phone under names. This number was not listed under a name. Should I call the number? If I do, I plan on calling from my friend's phone. I will not mention his name, I just want to see if it's a female.

2006-12-04 04:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year my daughter had a sleepover (12) this year she wants one that will be great any ideas(shell be 13 in spring)??

2006-12-04 03:59:37 · 7 answers · asked by emma n 1 in Friends

I am looking for a friend that I went to Basic Training with from Aug 1995 to Oct 1995. What is the best way of going about searching for the person? The only info that I have is the name of the person and the address of where we went to basic training at. Thank you a head of time!!

2006-12-04 03:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by Rican Princess 5 in Friends

I have a guy friend who may have a slight crush on me but I like his friend. I asked my guy friend to find out for me if his friend likes me. My guy friend told me that he talked to him and he said that he wasn't attracted to me. My friends say I shouldn't believe my guy friend because he likes me too. What should I do??

2006-12-04 03:58:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To sum it all up i have a aunt 24 and i'm 18. we've known each other a year and i've only met her once so the phone is all we have i opened up to her because i wanted her 2 feel included in my life i took a while to realize that she never tells me anything about her life which i find to be pretty hypocritical she knows i have a bestfriend and she thinks because we're family i need to tell her everything going on in my life and i disagree with that. she has 2 bestfriends and i feel like she's all about her friends since she isn't real with me like she is with them it really bothered me when i picked up that she's been lying to me about things she didin't need to lie about for instance she'll tell me something and when i bring it up she says something different as if i don't remember what she told me originally. before i had a cell i use to call my friends who did and they'd call her for me or i would buy a calling card because she doesn't like calling my house i did all that for her

2006-12-04 03:57:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-04 03:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?

2006-12-04 03:56:07 · 12 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Can I do anything else apart from talking to express my feelings for this girl? Please help!

2006-12-04 03:55:56 · 7 answers · asked by matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

but hes really really nice and he bought me dinner and was really really sweet...normally im attracted to nerds, but hes really really nerdy..should i go for it if he asks me out? i hate worrying about what my friends will think....

2006-12-04 03:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

The link for the picture of myself is here...

http://www.myspace.com/cherished_poet


I am getting either an eyebrow peircing (a simple bar) or a nose ring (a micro stud or small gemstone chip)

Which one do you think would suit my face better? It's gonna be on my right side, since I sleep on my left.

Thanks in advance! I know you probably think I am an idiot for asking, but I wanted a strangers opinion on what would be best just based on my face.

2006-12-04 03:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by Cherished_Bride 3 in Friends

2006-12-04 03:55:09 · 12 answers · asked by wally b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 03:54:25 · 45 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

going to be up for a 3 hour romp in the sack? AND not want to put the kids to bed a little earlier than usual??? How do you handle this?

2006-12-04 03:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by shellbugger 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 14 year old daughter went to a friends house and snuck out to see this boy she likes. He is 18, I just found out that she slept at his house. So I am asuming that she is no longer as innocent as she was just 2 days ago. Her older sister goes to the same high school and is furious with this boy as well as her sister, I'm alsi furious but... I dont know what to do...do I have this kid arrested?We have warned him to stay away from my daughter already. If my other daughter tells her Dad what has happened my 14 year old will not be allowed to see the light of day.She is on an all star cheer team and this is a very positive thing for her to be doing right now, he will take this from her. What do I do? I dont know if I should have this kid arrested, do I tell her Dad? Help..............

2006-12-04 03:52:53 · 35 answers · asked by skipper 4 in Family