that statement came from a guy who is in a 4 year relationship.What do u think?will he stop being unfaithfull when he gets married?could he really believe in what he says?
2006-12-04 04:02:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
While I don't agree with that statement. There are many out there who "cheat" on their relationship until it becomes a marriage on paper. For some reason they think that when their name is on a marriage certificate it means they give up all rights & being faithful is one of them. Chances are if he's cheating now, he'll cheat later because the relationship means nothing to him. If it did, then he would be wanting to make all things right with his partner, trust & honesty being one of them. Those are foundation building blocks, without them what's the point in going further with a relationship? As for believing it, I know a woman who lies constantly, & believes her own lies to the point that it's reality for her. She lies about stupid, trivial stuff & still believes it, therefore to her it's the truth. So anything is possible.
2006-12-04 04:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a "great" guy. Why would he even get into a relationship if he doesn't plan on being faithful. I highly doubt that he'll ever be faithful to anyone, married or not. It's idiots like him that give real men a bad name!!
I wonder if he'll still feel the same way if he gets an STD (if he doesn't already have one). I wouldn't even touch that guy with a ten foot pole.
2006-12-04 12:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone anyway if he can't be faithful to her to show that he actually cares. And when and if he gets married he's not going to be faithful because what's going to change after he gets married nothing but a piece of paper saying they will be together 4ever. But he still is going to cheat. He'll be another guest on the Maury Povich show.
2006-12-04 12:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must not be much of a relationship. I'm not married either, but we've been faithful for 12 years now. If he gets married, he'll just look for another excuse.
2006-12-04 12:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! This rat is in a mode to be unfaithful now. What's a ring and some words going to do to change that? Nothing!
2006-12-04 13:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINETLY NOT. PLAYING IS A HOBBY. I USE TO PLAY THE FIELD BEFORE I MET MY WIFE . IN FACT WHEN ME AND MY WIFE GOT TOGETHER I MANIPULATED HER TO CHEAT ON HER MAN EVN THOUGH SHE KNEW I HAD A GIRL. LET ME TELL YOU STRAIGHT UP THAT GAME IS NOT ONLY ADDICTIVE BUT IT IS FOOLISH. EVENTUALLY YOU WILL MEET SOMEONE U TRULY CARE ABOUT AND YOUR CHEATING DESIRES WILL SHOW IT'S UGLY FACE AND YOU WILL CHEAT. THIS BEHAVIOR WILL CONTINUE TO GO ON THROUGHOUT THE REMAINDER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU WOULD HAVE MASTERED THE ART OF CHEATING. SOONER OR LATER SHE WILL BECOME SUSPICIOUS AND RETALIATE AND WHEN SHE DO U ARE GONNA HURT LIKE U NEVER HURT IN YOUR LIFE. U DON'T HAVE TO LISTEN TO ME CAUSE ME AND THREE OF MY FRIENDS EXPERIENCED THE SAME EXACT THING JUST WAIT AND YOU WILL GET YOUR TURN. U BETTER START THINKING ABOUT YOUR LIFE BECAUSE ONE OF MY FRIENDS GAVE HIS WIFE HIV.
2006-12-04 12:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he think that marriage is going to flip a switch? I doubt it. I think he just wants a girl foolish enough to fall for the line.
2006-12-04 12:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, this guys is too selfish. Why would he stop? He's getting everything he wants now, a steady girlfriend and sex on the side.
No, I wouldn't trust him.
2006-12-04 12:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not going to be faithfull now what makes you think he will be after marriage...I'm sure he will come up with this great excuse not to.
2006-12-04 12:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop cheating. He will think of another reason to stray.Run while it is easy to run.
2006-12-04 15:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋