but hes really really nice and he bought me dinner and was really really sweet...normally im attracted to nerds, but hes really really nerdy..should i go for it if he asks me out? i hate worrying about what my friends will think....
2006-12-04 03:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then why worry what your friends will think? If you have this negative view of him, then maybe you shouldn't go out with him. It's not very nice and I'm sure he doesn't want your pity. Put yourself in his place - wouldn't you be horrified if some guy felt this way about you?
2006-12-04 04:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy then go for it. you're the one dating him not your friends. if they want you to be happy then they won't say anything about how much of a nerd he is. they'll accept the fact that you're goin out with him just like they would if he were any other person in the world. plus, the nerdy ones are usually the ones who grow up to be the most attractive and earn the most money.
2006-12-04 12:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, all that matters in this area of life is what you think. If it's a problem that could possibly get you hurt that's concerning your friends, then pay attention. If he is really sweet and interested, go for it! Obviously someone as beautiful as you deserves someone you want, not someone your friends want you to want. Besides, they're your friends, they're supposed to understand for you. And it sounds like he really likes you. Best wishes.
2006-12-04 12:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by kytigirl200 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter what your friends think? If they are really your friends, then they should want you to be happy.
If you enjoy his company and he makes you happy, then I suggest you give it a try. You'll never know what might have been if you give up before trying.
2006-12-04 12:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched Revenge of the Nerds? :P go for it.
2006-12-04 11:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by will l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just it is the nerds that make the money in this country.
2006-12-04 12:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should mot be concered about what others think of you just go for what makes you happy
2006-12-04 12:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by ~Ta-Ta Licious~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide which is more important for you to do...
Making yourself happy or making your friends happy...
2006-12-04 12:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, who cares about what other think!
2006-12-04 12:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋