I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?
2006-12-04 03:56:07 · 12 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should have just stayed friends with benifits. Good luck
2006-12-04 03:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Quinton S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that you, got a little scared because it is your first relationship but if you really like the guy and he likes you then I don't see why It couldn't work, you have to remember to communicate with him. Texting him was not a bad idea if your intentions were good. He will like you because of your honesty, most of the time that is what attracts guys to us is our honesty and the class that we have as women. When you talk to him tell him you would like to reconsider on starting over and ask him what he thinks, if he agrees and is willing to go back with you then you are good to go, just remember he will appreciate you for who you are and not what you have. Do what you feel is right. Only you know what you want and how you want to get it.
2006-12-04 12:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't break up with someone you'ver been with. Your best option is to let him know that you've never been on a date before and you you paniced because you didn't know how to act. In other words, tell the truth.
2006-12-04 11:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Chances are if you are his first girl friend then he will take you back. However if you are not the male speices will try to seek some kind of vengence and deny you the right to come back. In which case you fight fire with fire and go out with other people besides him.
2006-12-04 12:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sure you are a sweet girl but when you told him that you wanted to be just friends was not a good idea at all,,,,, and yes there is possibilities he would take you back but you need to explain to him that you didnt mean to say that and you are sorry..... to me that would have been an insult becasue both of you supposedly like each other and then you say oh i just want to be friends after he takes you aout....
2006-12-04 12:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have had a WAY better chance if yall would have stayed friends with benefits instead of dating,then if yall stayed that way for a while and decided yall really like each other THEN yall should decide to date!
2006-12-04 12:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you broke up with him i am pretty sure his feelings for you are still there my suggestion would be to send him the text message but you will never know how he really feels until you ask he might be feeling just as sad and broken hearted as you are
2006-12-04 12:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by ~Ta-Ta Licious~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u need to grow up a little because u r play little kids game u r play with other mind you need to find what u want before u go after it and stop the what if game before u get hurt yourself
2006-12-04 12:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well WTF did you break up with him you know its kind of your fault cuz you dumped him 4 a stupid idea know you can loose him for ever talk to him he could proboly ask you out or maybe he ll be afraid you'lldump him again ...since you already did
2006-12-04 12:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him that you're naked or somethin. He'll come over. Go from there.
2006-12-04 12:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Nick James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋