I have a friend who is in her 70's and she looks after her husband who has severe dementia. She claims the care attendance allowance although she is struggling to pay for extra care. What benefits could she be entitled to or are there any loop holes or extra benefits that we don't know about? She has a state pension her husband has a private and state. Its so sad that she can't afford to put him in a home as he needs 24/7 care, andshe is so worn out. Any advice woulod be appreciated thanks!
2006-12-04 04:01:51 · 5 answers · asked by dizzycheeks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depending on the local area there are organisations out there set up to give practical and emotional support to carers, such as support groups, sitting services and respite care. Contact your local CVS (Council for Voluntary Service) or Library to see what is available locally for you.
As far as financial benefits are concerned it is part of the role of the Citizen's Advice Bureau to advise people on benefits and what they are entitled to. Also as someone else has said, contact Social Services for advice and information.
Caring for a spouse is a very tough role, especially for older people and they deserve all the support they can get.
2006-12-04 06:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise your friend to contact her local social services area office. There she'd talk to one of the care managers in the older people's team, who'll carry out an assessment and discuss the couple's options. If it appears that a care home is the best option for them your friend will be advised on the financial implications (these vary depending on the area), so that she can make an informed decision. However, there are plenty of services available for people wishing to stay in their homes, and these will always be considered first.
2006-12-04 12:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by new-in-town 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best starting point would be her GP. If she is suffering as a result of 24/7 care she should be able to get a home help.
2006-12-04 12:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by leedsmikey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt really be worried about what YOU get out of taking care of YOUR own husband!
2006-12-04 12:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she should not leave her husband until death. she is important role to her husband.
2006-12-04 12:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by love is blind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋