My boyfriend is a great guy, and we have a great relationship. We have been together for a year and practically live together. The only thing is that he has given me a few reasons to not completely trust him and to suspect (but not actually be able to make an accusation) that something is up. After he gave me a funny story a few nights ago, I crossed a line an went through his phone. The only thing that annoyed me is that when I viewed his text messages, he asked someone if they wanted to hang out. All of his messages were to numbers that were already saved / listed in his phone under names. This number was not listed under a name. Should I call the number? If I do, I plan on calling from my friend's phone. I will not mention his name, I just want to see if it's a female.
2006-12-04 04:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, should I call from his phone? Should I have a friend call in case it's someone me and him both know, especially if it ends up being a guy? I wouldn't want to make myself look like a fool if it turns out to be nothing.
2006-12-04 04:12:02 · update #1
I would say no.
You suspect him of being unfaithful-otherwise you wouldn't have gone through his phone, so why not just be honest with him and ask him if he is seeing someone else?
If he lies to you, he lies, and you are the wiser for the experience, but remember, honesty is a two way street. It's just as dishonest to look through his phone and call someone to see if it is a man or a woman as it is to lie about seeing someone else.
I hope your next relationship is with someone that doesn't cause you to suspect infidelity and that you feel you can trust without snooping.
2006-12-04 04:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by paul_p_25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this sounds all too familiar.. but look just call from his phone.. but have someone else call, say one of your friends. Make sure you right down the number though just in case you need it and just do a search on the directory to find out who the number belongs to, just to make sure it isn't someone you know. Then give the number a call and find out who it is. I know you really can't talk to the person but at least you can find out if it is a guy or a girl. But look what I did was I sent a text to the person from my ex's phone and asked them to meet me somewhere, I did that and had the person meet me at the mall infront of old navy and I sat at the food court right across with the cell and saw a girl standing there waiting and she kept texting me asking me where I was.. thats why he is my ex.. i hope this doesnt happen to you and its all about nothing.. good luck
2006-12-04 12:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by sourstraws 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know because you should be able to trust your significant other but since he gave you reason to believe he's being unfaithful call the number. And if it is a female then your relationship should be over because if it's really just a friend you should have known about her and you don't so call it. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 12:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call and he finds out then you will lose all trust with him. Do a reverse phone search online first and see if you recognize the address. that may help you before you make the next step to call.
2006-12-04 12:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to a payphone and call the number and if a lady picksup just hang up the phone and ask him about it.
2006-12-04 12:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well trust is a beautiful thing. However these days trust in relationships is almost gone. So you might as well check it out.
2006-12-04 12:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call and from his phone.
2006-12-04 12:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it my dear!! if there is ANY questions about him, and it seems you have several, call the number!
2006-12-04 12:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should call ,Good Luck
2006-12-04 12:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can call
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2006-12-04 12:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋