I just want to have a family and kids but most of all I want the Love thats unconditional from a man. I know that I should be patient but man I'm losing hope. Everyone around me is getting married and having kids. I'm getting a lil jealous. I'm always the bridesmaid never the bride. Ahhhhhhhhhh help. I need some good advice to get this stuff out of my head and not worry about it.
2006-12-04 04:06:26 · 14 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We can not rush love or make it happen, it happens on its own. Sometimes when you least expect it, it will happen. You may want it really badly at the moment but what happens if you did rush into it with someone and then it turns out to be the worst thing you could have done and with the wrong person? I used to feel the same way but I stopped trying so hard and I let things transpire on their own and it did. I have been in a relationship now for four years and its great. Don't rush it, it will happen and when it does it will be great and you will be glad that you just enjoyed your single life while you had it and then you will be thankful for the new love you have encountered. Best wishes!
2006-12-04 04:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mariachi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you do know that love comes along when you stop looking for it, right? Men are like pancakes, you always need to throw the first one out. Then, we make the mistake of thinking they "love" in the same way we do. Wrong! Men have a hard time with "unconditional". The only TRUE love is that between cjildren and their mothers. If you really want to find a man...just stop looking...and they will find you. Men are natural "hunters" and dont respond well to being hunted. Relax...it will happen.
2006-12-04 04:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain all to well. I was the same way. I'm not sure about your spiritual stance but as for me I'm a christian and through my hardest and most lonely times I had to turn to the Lord for comfort and I prayed and prayed over who I desired to have in my life. Seemed like my prayers would never be answered, but today I'm married and happier then I've ever been in my life. I'm not here to turn you into a christian (if you're not one), but I'm just telling you what worked for me. I was given peace through hard lonely times by prayer and faith. It was all worth it too, cause had i known what I was going to get I would have gladly waited longer. This is just my opinion and advice, you don't have to take it.
2006-12-04 04:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jontue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient. A lot of women tend to feel a sense of urgency in this type of situation. Remember that relationships can be like baseball, if you're looking for a pitch, you'll never get it. Just sit back and wait for the right pitch to come your way. When you;re not looking for it, it'll come.
2006-12-04 04:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has a special someone for everyone i know its hard but be patient!!! haven't you ever heard a watch pot never boils go out have fun dont worry you have your whole life thinks will happen i promise!! good luck stay strong and keep your head up!!!
2006-12-04 04:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy heart, u are much more than just a "brides maid"u are CRAZY! Crazy for thinking that u have lost all hope for an everlasting love. this is what u need to do, date, date, date. don't stop dating untill dating has dropped on your to-do list. be a playa and don't get played.
2006-12-04 04:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Henry P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right man will eventually come for you, and in this day in our society a man that will give you unconditional love is extremely hard to find, but well worth waiting for! don't give up hope just keep one lookin! :)
2006-12-04 04:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by *~Adri~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not.... Actually I would like to get married but my issue is women that cheat. I'm now thinking it is impossible for me to find a women that is true/sexy. I might just have to settle for ture/ugly that way she can't cheat.
Samething for you, You will not find a guy that is gone to have all those qualities that you posted.
2006-12-04 04:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your time will come sooner or later. thats exactly how i felt just a bit ago and now im going out with one of my really good friends. i thought it would be forever till i found someone but now im happy and not worried. your time will be soon. ....you just have to be patiect
2006-12-04 04:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your looking for Mr. Perfect - your never gonna find him.
Don't rush in with just anybody either.
It'll happen for you - I don't know when.
2006-12-04 04:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋