Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

there is a guy that is interested in me... has shown it for a while now... he is way older than i am and normally i dont like older guys but since i graduated from college, i have automatically been turned on by men 15-25 years older than me.. he is wealthy and has high status... is it possible that this is whats drawing so close to him'? im not a gold digger but i just have never experienced liking someone so old, so im trying to figure out why im so hooked?

2006-12-03 18:24:57 · 7 answers · asked by trendsetta 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my girlfriend about 7 weeks ago and we have been together ever since. She is wanting to wait till we're 'in love' before we have sex. I was totally fine with that because I really care about her. BUT we don't even fool around. It is ****** frustrating because all we do is kiss and its getting old real fast. I know she doesn't want to have sex and thats fine, but some kind of sex life is important and anyone who thinks otherwise is full of sh*t. I tried discussing this with her but it didn't go too well. I don't see this being a healthy relationship if I can't do anything with my own girlfriend. Should I accidentally have sex with someone else to tie me over?

2006-12-03 18:24:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are reasons for liking one better, do you think there are any personality differences between them?

2006-12-03 18:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by S0uRxTr0piCs 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been interested in this guy for a while. In the beginning it seemed as if he was really interested. I am very shy, so after weeks of wondering, I decided to let him know I was interested. I wrote him a note, but he never replied. We work together and neither one of us has yet to mention the note. Although I have caught him looking at me and sometimes his greetings are overly friendly. Should I give up on him, or try to flirt some more. Flirting will be my major problem seeing as I always got nervous around him. Is he not interested or is he waiting for me to say something?

2006-12-03 18:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by Kit 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help, I am 16 and my Dad just married my ex-boyfriends Mom about 2 months ago, and well anyway me and my ex were sitting on the couch watching tv and he just started kissing me, it was soooo weird and I have no clue what to do since I live with my dad, and so does he.

Also, me and my ex broke up like 5 months before our parents got married because we wanted to see other people, but we were together for 2 years.

2006-12-03 18:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by Lily3487330 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 18:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if anyone think my friend likes me?
When I see him, or he sees me, we ALWAYS give each other huggs. He always talks too me when ever he sees me. And I think recently his huggz have been getting a little more tighter and embracing. And he also started asking me how my day was on my space. its really nice, he makes me feel reallllly special when he dose that. Hes such a caring person its awsome! i luv him. and he also gave me and my friends nicknames, like what we are too him. i'm his lover -lol- ironic or what? -lol- he also dose this thing were its like he's kidding flirting with me. I can't tell. he'll like lick his lips and like blow me kisses. I do it back then we laugh. he went out with my ex-ex friend, who me and my friends kicked her *** last year for being dum. then when they started going out we made up. then she ******* cheated on him! so now i wonder. dose anyone think he likes me? even a little?
-thanx! everyone -lol-

2006-12-03 18:20:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of her breasts?

2006-12-03 18:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

im planning my leave without telling my boyfriend as he should have known by now anyway. i have never seen,dealt with so much chaos in my life. i love my ex mother-inlaw we still talk and go out to eat ect. i did not know until it was a boyfriend/girlfriend situation or id never had got involved. this son/mom calls each other names,argue,gossip and then stick up for each other. her the more-so. she has chased all his former woman away and i can now see why. but he is as much to blame. he has to please mom if he does not she may not $$ help him. and she should considering she had her own place and we helped her. he moved out and let her move in?? now if she gets mad like always she says im not helping with the bills. she should. there is rent,utilities.groceries ect. she has a check as well as everyone else. she helps herself to my personal things and we talked and he dont care. she had my clothes on so i told her id wear hers. she sure took them off and id never wear hers. she screams

2006-12-03 18:17:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have I been lied to my whole life? I have wasted my life on destiny...just isn't so..is it? Will grow to be an Old Maid?

2006-12-03 18:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well heres the thing before i posted a question asking why my girlfriend woudnt kiss me well her best friend told me the reason she wont get close to me is because she got raped.her best friend is the only one that knows my girl got raped like about a month ago and no one knows only me and her best friend.when i asked her if this was true she started crying so much! i love her so much! im going to tell her parents but she says she dosent want me to.shes 14 and her 15 year old boy cousin raped her at her OWN house! what should i do?

2006-12-03 18:16:31 · 25 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Singles & Dating

this is for school. what is you're height and shoe size?

2006-12-03 18:14:51 · 7 answers · asked by schoolofrock2468 1 in Family

A guy asks a girl to move in and says all they would have to do is buy food,pay no bills. I buy all the food and other things for the house. He's not happy. He eats like a king. I am moving out. He gets cake and eats it too. Am I right for moving out? Oh yeah and I got his car out of the shop.

2006-12-03 18:14:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is something that I've always wondered about, but was afraid to ask.

2006-12-03 18:13:41 · 7 answers · asked by Chris M 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been liking this girl for a while and we just started talking to each other and so far I've had one (not the longest) conversation with her after class. She's gonna be gone for a while, so i thought i could do something for her to help her with school and stuff because she is very busy after school.
-----(this is gonna sound wierd)-- but do you think i should copy the notes on a seperate sheet of paper and hand it to her, or go somewhere and help her copy the notes i took in my notebook and try to explain her? I want to do everything in my power to help her and make her happy.

Although i didn't think i like her at first, i constantly think about her, and everytime i do, my heart just starts beating irregularly and its pulse becomes very strong (like after you sprint then just stop), but it's not beating fast, but it makes me happy.
----So my second question is: how you guys feel when you think about someone you care for? Is it the same way or different?

Thanks.

2006-12-03 18:13:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know what they both are. i want to know the feelings u get by both.

2006-12-03 18:12:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told him he is fat and has a problem and it upset him, geeeeeez
he is tooo sensitive and takes things too seriously, what should i do?

2006-12-03 18:12:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother has allways put us (6 children) last on her list. With male company as a BIG nr 1. She has married 3 times, and has children with all of them. She also had a countless amount of boyfriends. She had multiple suicide attempts, in which she involved us, in a heartbreaking way. Her first was when I was about 7, and i saw how they carried her then unconcious body into the ambulance. And at her last, she had attempted to cut her wrists. I had to call an ambulance. And she's done a lot more awfull things that i would rather not get into. But all of it was defastatingly painfull. To see my brother and sisters broken like that because of her actions and words. Soooo many times... And her own pain, to see that, and she kept punishing us for her pain. We all had to partially grow up some place else. Still she involved us in her actions. And the times she didn't; she ignored us completely. Do I keep fighting this fight? I'm so lost in it. But she's still my mother.

2006-12-03 18:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by StormyWeather 3 in Family

When you ladies hug a really close "guy-friend" or boy-friend, and you press him against your body, do you ever feel his "package" against your body? Does this make you feel disgusted, or do you not even mind it at all? --Because, everytime I hug my close friend, whom I have the hots for, I always have an erection and so I try to slightly move my package away from her leg/body so that she won't feel it. I'm sort of embarrassed that it bulges out so much, (I'm oriental by the way) and I get a little self-conscientious that she would notice it and be disgusted with me. One additional question, would you ladies ever hug a "guy-friend" that intimately unless you are actually attracted to him? Because when I hug "my friend," we press our bodies together completely. Am I stupid, or does this suggest that she probably likes me a lot too?? Please help me, because she tells me that she only wants to be friends with me, but still hugs me this way. So, I'm very confused. :(

2006-12-03 18:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by haithere_us 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-03 18:11:26 · 3 answers · asked by Blood4lyfe 1 in Family

i had sex with my ex bf. it was the moment...he kissed me then one thing led to another, before i knew it he was inside me. we never had sex while we were together. but i dont know how this came to happen. its not that i regret it, its just i dont know how to make sense of all this.
the way he kissed me reminded me of the old days together.then slowly he took off my shirt and started touching me...everywhere.
i know i should have stopped him and said no. but i didnt. instead i took off his shirt and unzippered his pants.
it was wonderful. but was it wrong?

2006-12-03 18:10:33 · 22 answers · asked by loony p 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother starts arguements and my mother fights for him and never lets me speak. She constantly tells him she loves him and she calls me a *****. She calls me selfish and spoiled. I never ask her for anything. I buy her expensive gifts and she never says thank you, or if she likes it. She hasn't hugged me or told me she loved me in so long I can't remember when the last time was. The only time she ever talks to me is to tell me to do something or to yell at me. I'm the only one out of her two children, and I try so hard to make her love me, but she still doesn't even respect me. She constantly accsues me of lying and doesn't believe a single thing I say. She even favors the cats over me. I'm sure most of you will think that I am exaggerating, but I can assure you that I'm not. I'm so afriad of talking to her, I don't want another fight, I don't want to hear her say those things. No one else in the house defends me either. All I ever hear her say is that I'm a total mistake,

2006-12-03 18:09:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-03 18:08:55 · 17 answers · asked by mixalot2008 1 in Singles & Dating

One day, i met one girl in one street (of course we don't know each other) and started talking to her by saying "hi.. I m so and so and asked her name and about her studies... she told her name( I dont think she told me her real name) and her studies and after that she told me that she's not interested in making a friend with me ( ofcourse i dont look bad).....and went away.. What should i do? What's the best way to impress her and how to continue my conversation so that she dont get bored?

2006-12-03 18:08:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who's very sweet and treats you with respect, becuase i cant get a date i'm almost 20 and i've never kissed a girl, never had a gf, i have alot of firneds that are girls but never goes past that, i'm about to give up hope and realize i'm gonna be alone forever! :(

2006-12-03 18:08:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am ugly and i have a hard time getting women and when i do i find out i went for the wrong one...so do i need to start using pick up lines?

2006-12-03 18:06:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 18:06:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We've been together for nearly 3 years. I am currently 22 and he is 34. I feel like we are growing apart because of our pride, we spend increasing amounts of time apart. I know he loves me, and I deeply love him, we want a life together and I am currently 37 wks pregnant with our planned baby. He makes it very difficult for me to be happy with him, he is just naturally a negative type of person, very judgmental, and pretty much arrogant and fairly self centred. I will admit that I am growing increasingly negative as well, its hard not to, and I end up critising him! I some times feel as tho the only reason he's with me is because I am another possecion to him-he's materialistic-as I am not bad looking and can hold intelligent conversations with the 'type' of people he likes to be around. (snobs) lately we are in a habit of basicly ignoring each other, acting as if we dont care, rarely have sex, and show minimal affection, we are becomeing competitive toward each other! ...HELP?!?!

2006-12-03 18:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The other day I confessed to my MIL that something she always says irritates me. She began crying and said I make a big thing out of a small one. Really! All I was trying to do was communicate. The next day she would not talk to me and her and my FIL just sat there quietly so I decided to go and talk to them and try to make them understand me. But now I feel totally manipulated to have felt sorry for them. I never said anything wrong! Why would she give me the coldness and the silence the next day and on top of that didn't she just make a big deal over nothing? They have done this constantly with their son and he doesn't give a crap when they do this but I guess I am learning and now I am just kicking myself for their baby like attitude. I feel as if they will do anything to make you feel like **** to win there ways or for you to feel sorry for them. I am so angry with them! When should you stop caring? If she was so bothered shouldn't she have come to me? Was I stupid or what!?

2006-12-03 18:04:48 · 7 answers · asked by mindy25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating exclusively through the internet for a few years now. In the process of e-mailing & chatting back & forth, I often mention that I regularly go to the tanning salon. More often than not, these women seem to be surprised and or, put off by this. I would have thought just the opposite.
Most guys look forward to a nicely tanned woman. I would have thought the same in return. Girls, care to shed any light on this???

2006-12-03 18:04:45 · 30 answers · asked by johngolfs2002 3 in Marriage & Divorce