I met my girlfriend about 7 weeks ago and we have been together ever since. She is wanting to wait till we're 'in love' before we have sex. I was totally fine with that because I really care about her. BUT we don't even fool around. It is ****** frustrating because all we do is kiss and its getting old real fast. I know she doesn't want to have sex and thats fine, but some kind of sex life is important and anyone who thinks otherwise is full of sh*t. I tried discussing this with her but it didn't go too well. I don't see this being a healthy relationship if I can't do anything with my own girlfriend. Should I accidentally have sex with someone else to tie me over?
2006-12-03 18:24:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you accidentally have sex with someone else you dont deserve a girlfriend.
try again to kindly explain to her that you understand why she doesnt want to have sex but you need something a little more than what you're getting and you two can make slow steps to the big one. sounds like she may just be scared and/or young.
2006-12-03 18:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't having sex and all you're getting from this girl id frustrated...what qualifies her as your "girlfriend"??? Either find a girl that shares your love of physical expression, keep this one as a trophy and masturbate a whole lot, or get a girl to screw on the side. Either way, stay happy; life is too short to wade through pizzed off because somebody doesn't share your emotional sentiment. Period!
2006-12-03 18:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like the two of you are compatible. It sounds like something that is very important to you is not at all important to her and she is unwilling to talk about the problem. That doesn't mean you should cheat on her though. Either fix the problem or get out of the relationship. Try talking to her about it again. If you can't get anywhere, maybe you need to move on. You shouldn't already be having compatibilty problems after 7 weeks.
2006-12-03 18:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a girlfriend if you can't respect her decision not to have sex. And considering your answers to other peoples questions, you are too immature to have a girlfriend at all. I would tell you to go find a Chihuahua but it doesn't deserve you either. (In case you don't remember, the Chihuahua is in reference to one of your answers) Get a life.
2006-12-03 18:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by mik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even however you may look for GRATIFICATION by PAY returned ,IT purely OPENS THE DOOR WIDER FOR WHAT could develop into actual.. MY advice could be to ignore approximately THE comments OR respond WITH A DIGNIFIED remark including i'm no longer ONE TO KISS AND tell AS you have MADE IT VERY sparkling OVER the finished CAMPUS THAT YOUR female chum places OUT
2016-10-17 16:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no if u care about her as much as you say you do you will wait id try talking to her about it again but other then that all i can say is stay strong
2006-12-03 18:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by joe s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her, or just jack off.
2014-02-10 09:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the art of jacking off! it helps.. you can't force a girl to have sex with you.. tease her or make her horny..
2006-12-03 18:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Peep STyLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just find someone else period?
2006-12-03 18:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just no.
2006-12-03 22:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋