Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

i have this friend and she lies all the time.
i asked her how was weekend and she said she went out with friends but it turned out that she didn't even go out.
she said she is close with girls A and B but they both said they don't even know her very much.
even yesterday, she said she invited amy to her house and they watched the movie together at her house but when i talked with amy today, she said she just went to her house to return the book and left immedidately.

why does she lie all the time?
she always pretend to have a lot of friends but everyone knows she has no friend.
is she a compulsive liar or just lonely?

2006-12-03 17:20:22 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Friends

2006-12-03 17:20:12 · 7 answers · asked by Jokester 1 in Singles & Dating

I always try to help out my family. I am always giving them money, presents everything and I am the first person to be there. But when I need help (which is rarely) they never want to help me! I dont ask but still, it is not offered. Also whenever I talk to them I am VERY nice on the phone keep the conversatino upbeat and lively yet they always "have to go". It seems the nicer I am the more they just think of me as a doormat who willl always be there. What am I doing wrong? Is it not good to be nice and helpful? I mean well. I dont know. I feel rejected. Like I am invisible.

2006-12-03 17:20:00 · 7 answers · asked by someoneyoudontknow 2 in Family

I am doing a paper on the motivation behind rape. Could you tell me when you raped if it was premeditated or not and what was your motivation behind it?

2006-12-03 17:19:58 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

alright, i have been smoking marijuana on and off for about 2 years now, but just recently it has become more habitual than it has in the past. all the other times when i was smoking heavily, i have had a girlfriend. now that i am single, and smoking more than i ever have, i am having the hardest time picking up women anywhere, even when i am sober. do pot heads turn women off, and if they do, why?

2006-12-03 17:19:09 · 24 answers · asked by skatesa207 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I like this guy Will and I would really like to go on a date with him. I told my friend Sa and she threatened to tell him. I was scared and then I was talking to him on line and I asked id he got any weird e-mails and he asked if I ment the one from sam and I said yes. Then asked what it said and he said he wouldn't tell and was messing with me about it. I got so scared I cried and only then did they tell me the whole truht. sam says that, thats a sign that he likes me I think she is full of crap. What do you think?

2006-12-03 17:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by Penguin_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and in love with a 17 year old girl. We have been together a long time now, and have talked about getting married next summer after she turns 18. Everybody else seems to think this is a stupid idea because "we're still young", but we think we can do it. Are we really stupid here? Or does anybody else agree that we can make this happen?

2006-12-03 17:18:58 · 12 answers · asked by Tony S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well we are practically strangers from each other, he was my classmate for about two semesters, one time we sat together and i dont know we just started conversing and he told me about his life, we talked for about 45 mins.weird thing is there was a rally going on and we where talking about something else , like society and rebellion,
we text each other once in a while, and talk about life in general, he once told me im the only one who makes sense when texting him, i told him i had a crush on his friend and he was saying ok fine, and then he just thinks im texting him to get to know the other guy, when in fact i text him because i treasure the friendship we have started
now im too shy to even see him at the hallway, i cant even talk to him, because i know i seriously have developed something else for him, what am i really feeling, im too shy to look at his eyes, too shy to talk to him , i text him, we text each other but in person i cant do it.

2006-12-03 17:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

hi my mother is way overprotective, i am 18 years old and still have not been able to get my drivers license, also i'm barely able to leave the house, unless it's for school, she says she doesn't like my friends, i admit i have acted immature at time and this is really ruining our relationship, she doesn't even give me a chance to prove myself, i have to go against her will to do anything and she makes sure she makes me feel bad about it. if anyone can help i would appreciate it

Thanks

2006-12-03 17:18:13 · 5 answers · asked by Donny 2 in Family

I'm not sure if he's abnormal or just sexual. He wanted to see me without my clothes on, so I sent him a photo of me in my 2 piece bikini. He said he loved it, but wanted to see me more pics of me without my bikini top or bottom. What should I do?

2006-12-03 17:18:04 · 19 answers · asked by kristypammy 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want your opinion, i mean should u just jump right into one if you think it will be a good relationship or should u shun every male that comes by and tells u that ur beautiful for three months? let me kno!!!

2006-12-03 17:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by kisha D 1 in Singles & Dating

This is going to sound silly, but my boyfriend bought my sister and me World of Warcraft to play. Recently I've been working very strange hours because of Christmas. I'm working in retail at the moment (Christmas help). They usually have me scheduled to work on the weekends. I worked the greater part of today actually.

Anyway, while I'm at work, they're usually at their seperate homes playing that and doing Team Speak (my sister doesn't have a job, and he is off for the weekend). I just feel so left out. They're having a good time together and I'm at work not knowing what's going on. I don't think my sister would take him away from me, I just can't help feeling insecure. I'm worried he'll like her more or have more fun with her. I just don't know what to do or how to feel. I wish I didn't feel like this. I'm just really insecure.

2006-12-03 17:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

No matter what time i go to bed, i can never wake up in the morn. i mean i have to push the snooz button at least 4 times and i end up waking up late and have to rush out the door.

2006-12-03 17:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by carriec 7 in Singles & Dating

How many heartbreaks did you go though until you met the one?

I had a very bad one in college. Now I think I have set myself up for another. Ugh!!!!

2006-12-03 17:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've gone out with a guy who is 20 years old. I'm 32. We went out several months ago, and hit it off well and then decided that our age difference was too much. Since then, we've remained great friends, and we've even hooked up sexually a few times. So I guess we've been off and on even though we've remained friends. Sometimes he tells me that our difference in age doesn't matter, but the other day, he told me that when we first got together, he thought that we connected so well, and he liked me so much that he wanted to date me. But he said that our age difference scared him. Whenever we're together though, he says that he can't even tell a difference in ages, that we connect so well. I feel the same way. What do you people think about it? I mean, do you think we could actually have something that lasts a while, or do you think he'll outgrow me? Don't many people outgrow relationships anyway, regardless of age? Like, you can't pretend to hold onto anyone, right?

2006-12-03 17:14:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I do this I am painful at my heart.
But unable to resist my temptations at times.
Any girls had any similar experiences ?

2006-12-03 17:13:34 · 22 answers · asked by luckmansg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok really waht should I do people think it could be mine but yeah hello we didnt have sex when i was dating her and my gf at the same time. I may be a cheat but at least im a clean one. What should I do to get people off of my back?

2006-12-03 17:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 17:13:15 · 1 answers · asked by mrkenny1965 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 17:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a divorced female and living with my boyfriend for 1 year now. From the begginning he has told me that he plans on moving away to live near his son. I know that is what he needs to do but he is not making an effort to do it. I don't want him to go but he knows that I know it's the right thing. He knows I love him but all I get from him is nothing. He is very indecisive and one minute he is making plans for us for the future (buying matching desks no marriage) and the next he is missing his son and wants to be near him. Am I a fool to stay with him and should I try to move on with my life. What to do. He is not affectionate at all. I am the one always giving the hugs and kisses. We are best friends and I would hate to lose such a friend. Confused!

2006-12-03 17:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by SkyFrost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I spend a lot of time with my boyfriend. We live 120 miles apart, but somehow find the way to sleep together almost every night. I love being with him, but sometimes we are forced to be apart for school, work, etc. I have spent the past 5 nights with him and now when I come home I feel so alone. I start to miss him a lot, seems like I miss him almost TOO much. I lay in bed and falling asleep without just doesn't feel the same and it makes me feel lonely and depressed. Is this normal?

2006-12-03 17:10:48 · 9 answers · asked by jennytkd13 3 in Singles & Dating

just curious.. heehee

2006-12-03 17:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

I love him?
i think im in love with a guy. but hes not good for me. isnt rich. wont be able to support me and future family.its not about the money, im worried that i might end up doing all the work , while he watches tv. hes an idiot. hes a liar and on top of it all a horney man who likes girls alot. and yet says he loves me. and only me.
not worth it?




not to mention hes older than me. by 11 years.


i just had a talk with him telling him that i dont want to take our relationship any further than friends. even though i have dreams at night about him.


but on the other hand he is a sweet guy. The only guy that i believe truly loves me. and maybe im letting it go? and maybe ill never find it again.

i went out with him before but i left him for stupid reasons other than my feelings towards him.
please help.

2006-12-03 17:10:06 · 4 answers · asked by weenie d 1 in Singles & Dating

25 yrs ago or so my friend left her husband and it ended up only being a few day. he ran into me at a bar and i was drunk and didnt have a ride home so he gave me one. he park and started kissing me and sex happened. it should of never happened and wouldnt of if not for having my guard down. i barely even remember it. i never told her about it.. i just couldnt hurt her and didnt see a reason to hurt her because it was never going to happen again. i was so uncomfortable about it i drifted apart from them but always remained friends with her. and still to this day we talk online or when i am back home. today out of the blue she calls me and says she think her hubby is cheating and hes lots older and verbal abusive to her and he said something about that night to her. she asked me about it.. of course i denied it and said he wishes. his goal i think was to hurt her. either way i was wondering what to do.. let on like it never happend or confess to my old friend. no 1 knows this took place

2006-12-03 17:09:47 · 9 answers · asked by Kat 5 in Friends

He knows I know. There is no way I can possibly NOT see him during the week. Help please! He pretty much stalks me and tries to talk to me whenever it's possible! I can't take much more of this!

2006-12-03 17:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Puddles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am dating a SEPARATED man and i just saw a pic of his wife. his wife is much more pretty than me with better body etc. (trust me on this) i am about average.
i know his wife doesnt cheat and takes good care of his 2 kids.
u think this guy is just using me?

2006-12-03 17:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 13 years old and I'm lost,I don't know where to go,I was bullied for 6 years at 2 different schools for having a certain hair colour(I bet you can guess!) and I am now home schooled,things seem to be looking up but theres something in the back of my mind thats saying"your not happy" I just need someone to talk to other than family and friends,I know this sounds a bit vague but i just needed to get it off my chest.Thankyou for reading this.

2006-12-03 17:08:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mum HATES my friends parents and she wont let me stay there. I cant change her mind. she is having a small party because we are finishing school and my crush will be there. any ideas?

2006-12-03 17:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by xangiex7 1 in Family

How much does your family pay to place your "oldie" in an Adult Family Home in Washington State? Or does anyone have a listing I can look at?

2006-12-03 17:07:20 · 2 answers · asked by David S 1 in Family

well, my bff and two of my other friends and i all like the same guy. one day, all three of them start saying whata jerk he is, but he seemed fine to me. my bff was talking about what a jerk he is, but it doesn't seem so bad to me.(what he said) she no longer likes him and i feel that i shouldn't, but i do. she said that its ok if i still like him, i do, but it feels wrong. should i let him go, or is it natural to feel this way? plz help and thank u!

2006-12-03 17:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by L 5 in Singles & Dating