Everytime I do this I am painful at my heart.
But unable to resist my temptations at times.
Any girls had any similar experiences ?
2006-12-03 17:13:34 · 22 answers · asked by luckmansg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your not that painful because if you were you wouldn't do it. If you reall love her you have to either commit to her and only her or else let her go and don't live a lie and make her as well as yourself suffer.
2006-12-03 17:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You may love your wife, but you're not "IN LOVE" with her. Sounds like you have an issue with self control and most likely a self esteem issue, too. You are "unable to resist your temptations" because you are weak and you feel that their "desire for you" will make you feel better about that. But then afterwards, that feeling is gone and you're left knowing you betrayed the one person who should fulfill that spot for you. Either come clean and get some help...or let it be over for her sake. Cheaters are amongst the lowest of scum on earth--they take an innocent and completely devoted heart and stomp all over it. Don't force her to be a part of your insecure rendevous.
2006-12-04 01:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by MACmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEN QUIT DOING IT! if you loved her then you wouldnt be unfaithful to begin with. duh! it doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure it out. and tell your wife what has happened. because cheaters eventually get caught n e ways. if you dont tell her before she hears it from somebody else then it will just be ten times worse and you will most likely lose her. if you love her you wouldnt cheat on her in the first place. maybe you have some problems that u need help with, but if thats the case, your wife should of been the first person you talked to about it.
2006-12-04 01:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved your wife you would not evenTHINK of cheating on her !! How would you feel if she was cheating onyou? Are you willing to risk everthing that you have with your wife for a FLING!! If she has been a good &faithful wife to you let her go so at least maybe she will meet someone who will APPRICIATE her!! How can you trust the girl that you are messing around with? Remember she is seeing YOU a MARRIED man and what makes you think that SHE is not cheating on YOU!!!
2006-12-04 11:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by linda bug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine one thing, if your wife is having an affair while keeping you on the side claiming that she loves you.....
Would you like that? how would you feel?
It hurts now to break up with the other woman, but it will hurt even more next month or next year cause you are getting more attached to her.
Do it now and get it over with and save your marriage.
Good luck
2006-12-04 01:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE SO NOT in love with your wife--any one that can cheat as you do and say they love the wife is a liar --Well come to think of it I love my car my house my dog and I could have two or three of those too--so I guess if you dont get caught then you are OK BET you cheat on your taxes too
2006-12-04 01:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain in your heart now will be nothing compared to the pain you feel after your wife finds out and leaves you.
2006-12-04 01:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by aprilfool108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen. If you really did love your wife as you claim, you would never cheat on her. Imagine the pain and anger she will go thru because you where so selfish and thought only of your self. do her a fav. either go see a counselor or divorce her. she does not deserve that kind of treatment.
2006-12-04 01:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will end badly. If it was really painful you would stop. You need to distance yourself from your temptations. Stay away from other women. If you are married there is no need to be around other women.
2006-12-04 01:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by badBrad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? because ur unfaithful thats why. Heres a tip, break up with the girl ur ******* and start paying more attention to your wife!
2006-12-04 01:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by carloveits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋