Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

this guy is like 20 yrs older than i am... he is older, way more experienced and financially stable. im not going to lie i am attracted to all of those qualities. we flirt alll of the time... but i just recently found out that he is married!!! he never told me and still doesn't know that i know..i was told that he is unhappy in his marriage... it still doesn't make it ok for me to want him... i know, i know... but i am in lust with him, his personality and he knows it. i feel that i cant break something that is already broken(as in his marriage) so should i go for it or leave him alone?

2006-12-03 18:03:58 · 34 answers · asked by trendsetta 1 in Singles & Dating

Please Tell Me I have Heard So Many things on what that means??????

2006-12-03 18:03:18 · 23 answers · asked by kendra h 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I've been seeing a guy right now for 7 months. He is a great guy. He treats me very well. I really feel that I love him, but I don't wanna say the "L" word just yet. Everytime I try to hold it back, he always does or says something that makes it harder for me not to tell him. I really just want to wait it until he says it. But the thing is, I am his very first serious girlfriend (he's 27, I'm 22). From what he's told me about his past girlfriends/relationships, I'm waaay different from all them (in a good way). I don't think he's ever been in "relationship love". Sometimes I wonder if I am the first girl where he's in a relationship with, where he could be falling in love too? He always tells me how much he likes me n how happy I make him and that he likes making me happy. We've had great chemistry from the beginning. Should I wait until he says something, or should I just tell him? Or should I wait it out a couple of months b4 tellin him i luv him, even if he doesnt say it first?

2006-12-03 18:02:42 · 3 answers · asked by Kyla M 1 in Singles & Dating

Its not that I don't like it or don't want it. Its that I'm so confused & my emotions are like a rollercoaster, even thoughts about it make me anxious.

2006-12-03 18:02:18 · 12 answers · asked by h_bear1808 1 in Singles & Dating

i think women are... because it's easy to spot guys who will just use you for sex, but with women, it's hard to tell who will backstab you.. personal experience. i think girls are great liars, too. and you never know what on earth they're thinking. men are more obvious and simple. of course men would probably say women are more evil and women say men are more evil...

2006-12-03 18:01:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex shared a wonderful kiss the other night. does it mean i like him still because i didnt back away?

2006-12-03 18:00:57 · 16 answers · asked by weenie d 1 in Singles & Dating

if u've met this girl.. u made a good approach, she seems to like you, laughs at your jokes, smiles, continues the conversation.. everything.. ur totally sure that this chick u've just met likes u a lot... and u wanna kiss her. .is it ok to just ask her: hey.. can i kiss you??? :). I think that if u DON'T ask her.. maybe she'll freak out if u just KISS her without asking. What do u think ?

2006-12-03 18:00:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-03 18:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by Blood4lyfe 1 in Family

2006-12-03 17:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or maybe in real life you will be too scare?

2006-12-03 17:58:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you prefer to sit across from him or beside him when dinning in a restaurant and why?

2006-12-03 17:58:15 · 11 answers · asked by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 in Singles & Dating

i know he mentioned to me how he wants a fitted hat, and in addition to that, i need something else to get him. What are some good ideas?

2006-12-03 17:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by shoppingfreak05 1 in Singles & Dating

I know its legal. Just wondering on your thoughts. I've been debating with another fellow co-worker.

2006-12-03 17:57:55 · 23 answers · asked by joshuademex 1 in Singles & Dating

without wanting a relationship with them?What are some different ways of liking someone on a nonrelationship level?

2006-12-03 17:56:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy's name is Adrian. He's with a hip-hop dance group from Trinidad and Tobago called Eclectik. He's the tallest and from what I can see, the strongest. What's his last name and age????

2006-12-03 17:56:10 · 4 answers · asked by sexikeiler_411 1 in Singles & Dating

So i'm dating a separated man. i just found a pic of his wife that he is separated from and she is much more pretty than me. Better body and face. I'm a little more on the chubby side and average looking(trust me on this)
I know his wife is a great mother and doesnt cheat so i'm wondering...
she is much more pretty and a good mother...why would he date me?
Am i just someone on the side?
he said he's separated because she's too constricting.

2006-12-03 17:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it seem possible that a husband and wife, after twenty yeasr of marriage with a couple kids, could have an very active and happy sex life, (oral, anal, toys, light B&D but no threesomes or anything multiple) and then suddenly one of the partners declares that they have grown beyond the need for sexual intimacy? To go from one extreme to the other, calling it sexual burn out, seems to be,,,very strange. The partner in question is the wife and, before you ask, she wasn't forced into anything previous to this and was usually the instigator.

2006-12-03 17:54:15 · 12 answers · asked by MEL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 18 and hes 25

2006-12-03 17:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok girls (and guys), this is something that's been in the back of my head recently. I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and we're about to the point where we are going to begin sexual stuff. I think we both care about each other and we can talk about things fairly openly but I am unsure how to handle this. I am uncircumcised, and given that I live in the United States, I know I am in the minority. Should I tell her in advance of us doing anything sexual that I am uncircumcised, or just let her find out when she sees it? I don't think she would like freak out or anything, but in the back of my mind I don't want her shocked either. How should I handle this?

2006-12-03 17:51:35 · 17 answers · asked by tyler w 1 in Singles & Dating

in potential at least.

2006-12-03 17:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help, I cant get over my x husband. I cant move on because i compare everyone i date to him. He had so many good qualities that i feel no one can measure up to however, he was an abusive alcohlic. i just cant mentally erase the good. My x husband was actually my first boyfriend. i met him at 17. he was 22. we met at a party were everyone, including him, was drinking. he liked me because i was the only one that didnt drink, in other words, because i was so innocent and also we were very attracted to each other. i was young and dumb and immediately innfatuated. I lost my virginity to him, became completely attached and we got married. After we had a baby, he got borred and restless, went back to the bars and back to his single friends. We got a divorce after repeated abuse and neglect. he had to sides; when he was sober he was the sweetest person in the world. i need help moving on. any suggestions. i don't know why this is so hard for me...

2006-12-03 17:50:37 · 15 answers · asked by bluestar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 17:50:25 · 11 answers · asked by pearly 2 in Friends

2006-12-03 17:50:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my ex last year. we stopped talking 4 a while. but lately we'v been talking again. i use to really love him in the past. i thought i did again or maybe i never stopped loving him. he was the best boyfriend iv ever had. respected me.and was the best kisser. when we talked again he kissed me and it reminded me of the good memories we had.
but i didnt mean to but i gave him hope that maybe we could get back together. even though i always tell him we r just friends. he doesnt get it. even though maybe i like him. but i dont want to go back. i broke up with him for stupid reasons but he would mess with my feelings too much. example would be "pretending to break up" and then the next day saying "just kidding". plus my family doesnt agree with us being together. not that it matters but yeah...
he says if i dated some other guy he wouldnt talk to me.wtf? all i want is to be friends. what should i do?

2006-12-03 17:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by weenie d 1 in Singles & Dating

When i come then she go
I mean when i open my messenger then she log out her messenger.
i don't know what she want and also she didn't express herself at this moment. what can i don now.

2006-12-03 17:49:07 · 5 answers · asked by e_friendship 3 in Singles & Dating

the tattoos adn peircings are clean and not done in bizzaro places.
but which look do you prefer?

2006-12-03 17:47:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would u rather date a chocolate guy or girl or a vanilla guy or girl?? personally i like the chocolate guys more flava!!!

2006-12-03 17:46:42 · 13 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband spent our first year of marriage deployed- he's been back for 5 months and is now "in the field" for another month of training. I guess i'm just lonely having moved to a new base away from family and friends and i'm feeling - i guess abandoned is the best way to describe my feelings. I just need to hear some positive thoughts from people because the women I met at the last military wives base meeting seemed too much into the benefits (money, etc) of your husband being gone and there wasn't any talk of how to deal with them being gone

2006-12-03 17:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by mcdermottgarrett 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 17:45:51 · 5 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-03 17:45:21 · 14 answers · asked by SKylar 1 in Singles & Dating