2006-12-03 17:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It isn't by choice, it is part of life. As you get older, time seems to not exist because of responsibilities and issues. If they are in a good relationship or just got married, thier life with thier spouse is top priority. They don't have to completely cut thier friends out of thier life but their friends have to understand thier needs too. Don't be too jealous, just be a good friend and let them know that you are there if they need you and ask the same of them. If you support thier romantic endeavors, they will be supportive when it is your turn to take the leap!!!
2006-12-03 18:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by lilphill1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very sad indeed. as i even have faced the same thing. it happens so because the person enters a new phase of her life which requires more attention in the beginning. even if the girl want to treat her friends equally, the new person in her life demands more attention to build a strong base. gradually as time passes by everything turns to normal and it becomes a balancing act. don't be disheartened and understand that this is a phase of life, u cant hold on to someone for life right? its ok, time is the best healer dear.
2006-12-03 18:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by rosy.b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you grow up other things become more important to you. especially when you get married. your spouse is suppose to be your best friend and is the only person that understands you. most people still keep there friends just other things in life become priority. i know when me and my husband first started dating i didnt spend as much time with my friends because i wanted to build a good relationship with him instead of hanging out with people and not ever finding my own happiness. as you grow older your friends split up go different places do different things but with marriage your suppose to stick together the whole way through and you have to build a good relationship from the begainning
2006-12-03 18:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by love_ridden_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess it's cause with ur husband n boyfriend u can have both what ur friends give u and what a man gives u eg. with ur friends u can share secrets and love each other n have fun u can do everything expect kissing n having sex. But with ur husband u have everything sex, kissing, fun, kids ( in marriage) ...etc.
2006-12-03 18:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by yordanos a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being a wife is very demanding if done right and if you have a boyfriend you want to spend every moment with him.
2006-12-03 18:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to me all the time.
a lot of girls dumped me for their bf/husbands.
me and this girl decied to share an apartment and then right before we movied in, she has got a boyfriend.
she immediately dumped me and moved in with her boyfriend.
this sort of things happans to girls a lot.
it sucks.
they think their boyfriend/husbands are their priority.
2006-12-03 18:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem that way, but I think alot of that is the couple getting to know each other one on one, its more personal that way. Not sexually speaking either.
2006-12-03 18:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by stayc1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its often a given, I have been on both ends of this equation BTW, so I know what I am talking about...no point in telling you why, just thats the way it is and for you to accept it, and move on...good luck!
2006-12-03 18:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because relationships require alot of time and effort
2006-12-03 18:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy-C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause their husb or boyfriend was everything for them
2006-12-03 18:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kyubi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋