So i'm dating a separated man. i just found a pic of his wife that he is separated from and she is much more pretty than me. Better body and face. I'm a little more on the chubby side and average looking(trust me on this)
I know his wife is a great mother and doesnt cheat so i'm wondering...
she is much more pretty and a good mother...why would he date me?
Am i just someone on the side?
he said he's separated because she's too constricting.
2006-12-03 17:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should leave this man alone. he is married. separated does not mean single. and you're probably setting yourself up for a big
fall. it just sounds like you're his dirty little secret he's keeping hidden. his wife probably doesn't even know about you. you need to respect yourself and his wife enough to leave him alone. and no, he probably wouldn't leave his wife for you. he doesn't respect you. he's going to use you and throw you away. stay out of other people's marriages, you'll soon find out that you'll get nothing but hurt!
2006-12-03 18:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not this man leaves his wife has nothing to do with you. It is about him and what he wants out of life and a relationship. It sounds like he doesn't really want a relationship right now since he can't commit to his marriage, but I don't know the details so can't really say for sure.
Also, to help your own self-esteem, you should try asking yourself why someone (not this married guy) would date you. I'm sure you have lots of positive qualities that you have to offer someone.
2006-12-04 02:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Trixie B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be seeing a man who is separated; you might be interfering in what could be a possible reconciliation. If he wants to cheat on his wife let him do it with someone else. You don't need the grief. Also, get past appearances; they mean little.
2006-12-04 02:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he couldn't be faithful to his wife, irrespective of how pretty she might be, what makes you think that he will be with you the rest of your life?
A marriage or a long lasting relationship requires good and solid commitment which doesn't seem to be coming from him.
Leave him and find someone better who will love you for what you are and not try to make you a resting dock while passing through a rough phase.
2006-12-04 02:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Love 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why must people always judge by how they look. So what if she's prettier; maybe there are alot of conflicting areas in their marriage that you know nothing about. BUT if he's just separated, I wouldn't get too serious. Chances are, he'll wind up going back with her.
2006-12-04 01:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are on the other side, sorry to say. Leave him. Go for a guy who's single.
2006-12-04 02:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-04 02:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-04 02:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋