Hi, I've been seeing a guy right now for 7 months. He is a great guy. He treats me very well. I really feel that I love him, but I don't wanna say the "L" word just yet. Everytime I try to hold it back, he always does or says something that makes it harder for me not to tell him. I really just want to wait it until he says it. But the thing is, I am his very first serious girlfriend (he's 27, I'm 22). From what he's told me about his past girlfriends/relationships, I'm waaay different from all them (in a good way). I don't think he's ever been in "relationship love". Sometimes I wonder if I am the first girl where he's in a relationship with, where he could be falling in love too? He always tells me how much he likes me n how happy I make him and that he likes making me happy. We've had great chemistry from the beginning. Should I wait until he says something, or should I just tell him? Or should I wait it out a couple of months b4 tellin him i luv him, even if he doesnt say it first?
2006-12-03 18:02:42 · 3 answers · asked by Kyla M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're his first real serious relationship i would say tell him, i doubt hell say it first never being in this situation before :)
if youre afraid to but want to hint at it try saying things like that you love something specific about him, or love being with him. also jokes like if he jokingly says something like spanking you or punishment say 'you cnat do that because you love me' good hints like that may get him to say it :)
2006-12-03 18:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definently. If he said that then he either loves you or is on the way to loving you. Just tell him... what if he feels the same way but is too scared to tell you?
2006-12-04 02:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could wait till he gives up on you, then cry your heart out
2006-12-04 03:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋