well, my bff and two of my other friends and i all like the same guy. one day, all three of them start saying whata jerk he is, but he seemed fine to me. my bff was talking about what a jerk he is, but it doesn't seem so bad to me.(what he said) she no longer likes him and i feel that i shouldn't, but i do. she said that its ok if i still like him, i do, but it feels wrong. should i let him go, or is it natural to feel this way? plz help and thank u!
2006-12-03 17:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by L 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its up to you ,that's why we say love is blind .,sometimes some behaviors are not right to some people and OK to others ,maybe he seems like a jerk to your friends but it doesn't mean he's not a good person .But you must be careful ,if he's really a jerk ,try to control your feeling and let him go
2006-12-03 17:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all your friends are calling him a jerk, they probably have reasons behind their accusations. Some times love can cloud our sight, so maybe you need to fall-out of love with this guy to realize who he really is... But then again its your life, if I were you I would go for it but at the same time just be aware in situations like these its probably you who is the one who's going to get hurt.
2006-12-04 01:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they have to have some reason for thinking that way, so ask them what's up. If you still like him, there's not much you can do to change that, but definitely be wary if your friends don't approve.
2006-12-04 01:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is it seems that you need to decide whether you like him because your friends do or if you really like him because of who he is. if you feel bad then that kind of suggests that you are using your friends to dictate who you do or do not like...
if you don't find a problem with him, then by all means, continue to like the guy, it won't hurt you any...
you decide.
2006-12-04 01:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by kisha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to ur friends and u shouldnt like him or not like him because of ur firends either they could just be trying to make u not like him
2006-12-04 01:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by johnstockton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as long as she says it's ok with her, then why not? just follow your intiuition girl.
2006-12-04 01:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by marykycjane27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u feel how u feel.
2006-12-04 01:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋