I just want your opinion, i mean should u just jump right into one if you think it will be a good relationship or should u shun every male that comes by and tells u that ur beautiful for three months? let me kno!!!
2006-12-03 17:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by kisha D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself these questions.
1. If I was on a date with someone else would I be thinking about ex?
2. Would I compare next date with my ex?
3. Would I want to talk about ex with my new boyfriend?
4. Do I cry daily missing my ex?
5. Was a totally in love with my ex and did I give him my heart?
6. I still keep in touch with my ex so I have someone to fall back on.
7. My ex and I are best friends.
8. I keep an 8x10 wall photo of me and my ex because afterall - we're still so close.
9. I've kept all the gifts from my ex and his phone number just in case.
If your answers to any of these questions is yes, then you're not ready. It will depend on how much time you personally need to grieve and let the guy go - a new boyfriend is not going to be very impressed about having to compete for you with an ex if he is a true gentleman - he knows he deserves better than this.
On the other hand - if you're not emotionally wrenched about your ex and it's easy come - easy go - anytime is great to start a new relationship.
2006-12-03 17:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say it takes the time you were with someone plus a half of that to get over someone. I was with someone for 3 months, but fell for him HARD. Six months later and Im slowly JUST beginning to get over him, but am still affected by the whole thing. It takes awhile. And I know I had some rebounds since the recent guy Im talking to, which Im taking things VERY slow with.
But in the end, it depends on the situation. Im sure there are people that have successfully jumped into the next relationship. Not me though.
Take care!
2006-12-03 17:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by maisie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by stockbridge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs a period of "letting go" and completion. Otherwise, we are on the rebound, and that means being needy and unclear about who we are and what our needs are..
Some, with hard work and reading books like Rebuilding When Your relationship Ends, get through in 6-9 months. Others, it takes years.
2006-12-03 17:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends fully on you ..if you dont have any regrets or heart breaks ..then it is okay even if you jump into another even the very next day..other wise it is good if you give yourself a little time to heal;for reflection about 'what went wrong'..and thus improve future relationships..
2006-12-03 17:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by urfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no sure answer.
Love just doesn't work that way.
It is best to allow yourself to "deprogram" after a break-up.
That helps eliminate baggage.
But who can control when love comes a knockin'?
2006-12-03 17:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 Minutes maximum
2006-12-03 17:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you want if you like someone else even if it is just after breaking then go for it might make it easier to get over the break up
2006-12-03 17:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least 2 weeks
2006-12-03 17:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as you feel ready for another r/s. no specific time. some ppl can do it soon , some take years. depends.
2006-12-03 17:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋