i told him he is fat and has a problem and it upset him, geeeeeez
he is tooo sensitive and takes things too seriously, what should i do?
2006-12-03 18:12:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont get the situtation because u arent in it.
5 months ago he told me to lose a size a did it and my lower stomatch is totally fat. i did it for him only! but in that time he gained around 2 stones! and he was never fit anyways and i was never fat anyways,
now he needs a bra!!
i didnt mind when he told me to lose weight so why does he mind?
and he is getting so fat, but embarrasing to say and the prob is, cus he is soo fat his ... is. and during sex i have to b on he top all the time. fat ugly cow, thats why i told him to lose weight and he wont talk to me now. and i told him is is fat and turns me off! sensitive pig, or is he lieing, it was rood to tell me to lose some weight when i was healthy.
2006-12-03 18:22:45 · update #1
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2006-12-03 18:41:21 · update #2
im just kidding i dont have a fat boyfriend, i never have im not stupid!! but its funny watching how mad you fat people get!
HA! HA! HA!
2006-12-03 18:57:53 · update #3
OMG haha..this is kinda funny...Im sorry but it is...I am almost 9 months pregnant...and my fiance has gained more than I have...even though that's only about 20 lbs...still...and he was REALLY skinny before so he just has a little tiny gut...But, we got him all new work pants...bc his old ones didn't fit...and it wasn't even a month later that all the new pants are too tight..My boyfriends problem is that he only eats 1-2 times a day...and they are huge meals...and he eats fast food a lot...and where we live we do not have a stove...so I can't cook good stuff..he hates veggies and not a big fan of fruit...I want to put him on a diet...but it's hard to do when he eats so much...I would just tell your bf that you are concerned..and don't want him to end up getting diabetes or heart problems...
2006-12-03 18:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK so in place of my original message which actually gave sound advice to an actual problem that happens when people become comfortable with each other i now have a new message due to your additional:
Grow up and think about the consequences of things you say and do before you actually do it.
Eating disorders are already at an all time high we don't need the likes of you bullying on yahoo laughing at people you call "fat". How childish to say such things. You do not know these people or what they are or have been through... please remember one flippant comment could just be that little nudge that pushes someone over the edge.
OK so i believed the question and gave an answer which i deemed appropriate and more fool me for doing so but jeez have some god damn respect girl. If not for yourself for others who use this site and the children who access it to. Bullying shouldn't be accepted anywhere.
Don't be stupid in future.
2006-12-04 02:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you don't have to approach him like that. There are 1001 ways of saying you are getting fat. Take a more lovely way in saying things to your bf since you know heis so sensitive and takes things personal. If u think u can't make a difference, then, I think you are not fit for each other.
2006-12-04 02:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by saintbeng 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are feeling less attracted to him and he needs to sort himself out, he needs to know this so that there are no surprises when you start to look at other men.
But give him support and tell him that if he starts to work out then you will do it with him. If he refuses it could be that he is mentally run down rather than just not caring about how you see him and needs some counselling, just suggest everything to him. There is always a reason for people to lose themselves and you just need to find his reason.
Good Luck.x
2006-12-04 02:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should reconsider your rerlationship, because calling your better half a big fat pig is - at least in jy book - not at all sign of love.
Anyway, a question for you: What would you do if your boyfriend would, buntly, blab out: "You are fat, do something about it!" ? I would feel pretty ****, I must say. There are different ways in advising people about their appearance. Have you ever heard about being subtle? Ever heard about taking in consideration his feelings?
2006-12-04 02:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is sensitive about it, then use a different approach. Go to the gym with him every now and then. Get him going and have him do some other types of exercises.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-04 02:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im with "N" on this one blushing u suck and need to get a life we answered this ? already. if u didnt like the answers the first time im sure that ur shallow A** aint gonna like em the second time
2006-12-04 02:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, Ask your self this. Do you love him or his body. If you love him, you should be able to love him for who he is inside and not what he looks like on the outside. My Husband left me after 7 years because I gained weight and was no longer attractive to him. So, I know how your boyfriend feels about being called FAT.
It hurts.
2006-12-04 02:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by my baby 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is probably not taking it "too seriously", if you were actually being serious about it. Hes taking it as serious as he should be. You obviously were being serious if you were asking what you should do about him being "too fat". If anything I think you should leave him just because your relationship doesnt sound too healthy.
If you are worried about his health, then you should probably start taking walks with him. It would probably motivate him, if you were on the same diet he was too.
2006-12-04 02:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Apples and Mapples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If his being fat is a problem for you, then he NEEDS to know it.
That way when you start cheating on him with a guy that's fit, he
can't say that you didn't warn him.
2006-12-04 02:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋