I have a question for the ladies concerning hugging.?

Question

When you ladies hug a really close "guy-friend" or boy-friend, and you press him against your body, do you ever feel his "package" against your body? Does this make you feel disgusted, or do you not even mind it at all? --Because, everytime I hug my close friend, whom I have the hots for, I always have an erection and so I try to slightly move my package away from her leg/body so that she won't feel it. I'm sort of embarrassed that it bulges out so much, (I'm oriental by the way) and I get a little self-conscientious that she would notice it and be disgusted with me. One additional question, would you ladies ever hug a "guy-friend" that intimately unless you are actually attracted to him? Because when I hug "my friend," we press our bodies together completely. Am I stupid, or does this suggest that she probably likes me a lot too?? Please help me, because she tells me that she only wants to be friends with me, but still hugs me this way. So, I'm very confused. :(

Answer 1

We don't mind at all. It's actually reassuring to feel some kind of package down there. And if you have an erection, that improves our self esteem because we then know you find us attractive. ANd why would we EVER get disgusted of an erection? unless we're like 14 years old. Wait..how old are you? And if they hug that intimately, they're interested back. Hands down.

Answer 2

Awww dont worry! When I hug a guy, I've never felt his "package" before. Well maybe I have but didn't notice. A lot of girls don't even notice if they're touching the guys' package. If it did happen to me, I'd feel flattered, that the guy is attracted to me. It depends on who too. If it was an 80-year-old man, then yes I'd be disgusted.

We can all tell an intimate hug from a friendly one. It's just this vibe that it gives off. If you and a girl press against each other completely, there's a chance she might likes you, but I'm 100% SURE that she is attracted to you. Why would you press up against someone completely if you thought they were unattractive? No.

I have a question for you: When you hug girls, your package actually touch us?

Answer 3

Okay, I don't think she's going to be disgusted if she even notices that your "package" is resting against her leg when you hug. If anything she's going to be surprised and probably flattered.

We " huggy" girls tend to hug those that we care about, regardless if we have " boyfriend/girlfriend" feelings for them or not. It's just the way some of us are.. there are girls who aren't very "huggy" also.

If she has feelings for you then they may come out on their own eventually. But why not just ask her out anyway. What's the worst she can say " No" right. So you'd still be a friend to her if you can handle rejection. If you can't then things may feel weird. Or she may say that she would love to go out with you.

Take a chance and find out.. that's what life's all about, chance and the excitement it brings.

Answer 4

I'm sorry dude but I think that means she just wants to be friends. Don't worry though, if she does notice, I am sure she is flattered and not disgusted. Why don't you try making her jealous with another girl? Or taping it to your leg when you know she'll be around (although that may be painful). Maybe you'll discover a love for S & M?

Answer 5

Some girls do this like my sister she has lots of friends that are guys but she dont really like them and she hugs them she greets them with a hug and says good bye with a hug but that dont mean she likes them,it really depends on how much the girl hugs you if she hugs you like my sister hugs her friends then she probaly just wants to be your friend but if she hugs when you make her laugh or make her happy in the littlest way she probaly likes you

Answer 6

whats up? I'm a girl trust me she likes you dude. give it sometime shell come around. takes a girl some time to tell you how she really feels. test her out. Ask her about another chick. See if she gets all jealous. You ll think of something. As for huging ... girls love to hug. I do. and no if shes into you shes not contintrating on your friend down there. shes lovin the hugin.

Answer 7

hm take it from someone whoa has been in a situation like this only i am a girl and it was a guy. i like him and he always hugs me. she probably doesn't like u and just likes hugs. so don't read into it too much. she is just one person. i notice that ppl tend to jump unto the first person that shows them any type on intimate attention. as soon as that happens u like them even though b4 u were just friends. so don't get yourself wrapped up in this. stay friends.

Answer 8

i personally hug my male friends very close but i know some women dont.. watch your friend with other male friends.

if i feel a pals package it doesnt freak me out but if he has an erection it does a little. simply if he gets hard that easily around me it's a little unnerving.

Answer 9

if she told u she just wants to be friends u gota respect that. she hugs u bc she's ur friend! Friends hug duuuuuude & if u feel like this then maybe u shouldnt hug. it sounds like shes a good friend & does care about u.

Answer 10

I doubt you are confused, you know what you are doing. And yes that is disgusting. I'm gagging!