GIve up or go for it?

Question

I have been interested in this guy for a while. In the beginning it seemed as if he was really interested. I am very shy, so after weeks of wondering, I decided to let him know I was interested. I wrote him a note, but he never replied. We work together and neither one of us has yet to mention the note. Although I have caught him looking at me and sometimes his greetings are overly friendly. Should I give up on him, or try to flirt some more. Flirting will be my major problem seeing as I always got nervous around him. Is he not interested or is he waiting for me to say something?

Answer 1

Well, since you wrote the note and he didn't respond overtly, I'd say he's either a) not interested or b) as shy as you. And since he's "overly friendly" at times, I'd guess he isn't THAT shy. The thing is that men can be just as confusing to us as we women are to them. :) If I were you, I'd say something if you're truly interested and not scared of making your work situation potentially awkward...something like, "Remember that note I wrote you, why did you never mention it to me?" and then gauge his answer. If you're too nervous for that kind of confrontation, move on. There will be other boys out there who will be more upfront with you and make the nervousness you feel go away. When they like you, they'll make sure you know it!

Best of luck!

Answer 2

I think that you have already made the first move and that if he is interested, the ball is in his court now to make something happen. Try to keep things professional the next couple times you see him and see if he responds differently. Maybe he just wants you to play hard to get?

Answer 3

well i think he may be shy or like my ex crush a idiot(in my opinion anyway) boys are a confusing species so who knows . my advice ask him straight out and see what happens. it will save u tons of heartache, i promise u.

Answer 4

Go for it