Family & Relationships - 1 December 2006

what do you think of love and sex, is it more the sex thing with you, be honest please, and what if she made you wait would you cheat

2006-12-01 20:33:12 · 4 answers · asked by louise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like a boy... let's call him Andy... and one of our friends (Vlad) likes me... my gut tells me that Andy likes me also, but Vlad tells me that he spoke with Andy and he said he doesn't... what the f%$#k should I belive??? And if he does like me, what should I do?

2006-12-01 20:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by onutza 2 in Friends

i had 3 relations earlier.the first one left me with a broken heart and i also had physical relationship with him.as i moved ahead in life, i met the second guy.everything was fine till when i told him that i shared a physical relation with my previous boyfriend.he started suspecting me and made my life a hell.i had to quit him for my safety.the 3rd guy was too possesive after he heard the same thing.i dont understand when i am thoroughly loyal to a person why are they making a hell out of my past which is equally bitter and regreted by me?
now i am dating someone and fear to tell him about the last 3 relationship.but neither can i hide nor lie,what do i do?how should i present him the fact?

2006-12-01 20:31:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it often assumed that just because a woman is divorced that she 'hates' men. Me...was in long term marriage, divorced, healed, began dating...I adore, value and respect men. I focus on what an individual is about...not to blanket what one (or more) men have done and blanket it over to others. Why the often assumption of 'men bashers / haters' ? Honest answers please.

2006-12-01 20:31:13 · 10 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 20:29:31 · 5 answers · asked by pepita 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my boyfriend that tonight i was going 2 spend the night with my best friend who happens to be a boy but ive known him since kindegarten and i have only know/dated my bf 4 2 months and now he wont talk to me and says im cheatin on him and im goin to sleep with my guy friend and pretty much called me a hoe and i feel like if i trust him he should do the same so so yall think he has any right to be mad or should i just dump him or what plz help

2006-12-01 20:28:09 · 16 answers · asked by here to help 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 20:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

People i really need your help on this one... My wife is from africa and Im from the states. This is the deal, myself & my wife and her sister live in the same home. Example when we are all in the same room watching a movie/news/game show, you get the point they will speak in there language. She feels, (my wife) that this is not rude what do you feel & I have told here how i feel on this matter. Please what do you think!

Thanx 4 your time

James

2006-12-01 20:27:26 · 14 answers · asked by bmw740 1 in Family

time limit?

2006-12-01 20:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my boyfriend/best friend of two years. Suddenly, my ex (from years ago) starts talking to me again, comforting me and all.. It's been years since we went out, but I realized what a sweet guy he is. It's been more than a month since the break-up.. So am i just on the rebound? Should i just distance myself from my ex too?

2006-12-01 20:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl is from St. Kitts and Nevis, and im greek. When i asked her what type of guys shes dated, she answered, "mostly black guys" (no big deal i thought). However i began to ponder, black guys are rather bigger than your average white guy... Do black girls notice the difference?

Its not like i asked her to tell my all the detailed descriptions of her x-boyfriends, but i cant help but think about this issue. My girl really likes me i so do i, i dont care about the racial matter, its not a problem with my girl either. Im not saying im small or anything, but the average size can seem small to her, i dont know...

Finally, my girl and i, are i college, and im really into her, im not the type of guy to fool around, shes more than enough for me, its just a question ive been wondering about... She kind to me, but i want to know, do i need to be on my toes when i comes to giving pleasure to a black girl, like try harder to please her... im confused, also my friends are no help... Anyone...

2006-12-01 20:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by jprmtzs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 20:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by **2005** 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mother of litlle boy (10 m). I'm married but my husband didn't help me/ He is only sleeping and wathing TV. That all. I want left him. I haven't helper. I want carry about my sun, not my man. Am I right?

2006-12-01 20:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by mskoda79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

related to girls pscychology

2006-12-01 20:21:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would a separated man ask a woman to date? If a man is separated or engaged...either way the man is not ' clear ' to date. I'm re-asking (re-phrasing) this question for clearer understanding. I've had separated men ask me to date...I decline as technically their still married. What is the mind thought that it's maybe o.k. to date while separated ? That man is really still married. Really wondering.

2006-12-01 20:21:34 · 22 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

So anyways, i figured drawing a picture of my gf would be a nice thing to do. I'm actually really good and can make it look just right. So that's not the problem. Would you like it if your bf did this for you?

I'm only 16, but the drawing looks almost exactly like her, so that is not an issue.

Thanks

2006-12-01 20:18:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a christmas gift for my best friend (2 yrs.) who is a guy...I think i have found a perfect gift for him...it is a personalized stainless steel ring...i want to engrave it with the words "Always & Forever"...Is it TOO corny or is it a really good gift????

2006-12-01 20:17:13 · 12 answers · asked by LiFeiStOshOrTtOwAiTtiLyOuRsUrE 1 in Friends

Sometimes I feel like overweight men get off easier than fat women do when it comes to being made fun of, dating, etc. I feel like there are a lot of attractive women who do not place as much emphasis on physical appearance (especially if their man is wealthy or really funny) and, thus, fat men can get dates. However, attractive men are almost always way into looks and, thus, could care less how smart or successful a fat woman is...if she's fat, there is no chance he'll date her. I know this is not always true, but I've noticed this a lot. Still, I know a lot of fat guys get made fun of and have a hard time (especially in junior and high school). Do fat guys still have a tough time when they get older?

2006-12-01 20:17:00 · 9 answers · asked by toobland21 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend from primary school has moved up here to Brisbane. We were best friends back in grade 1-7 b4 he moved to Sydney. We dated for 10 for 10 months in year 7...
When I saw him I didnt know it was him. But we started talking and everything. The day after he rang me up and asked me out!? I didnt want to be rude 2 him b4 but he was a total a*ss*...
I told him I was pregnant - even tho its pretty obvious (9 months...with TwInS) - but he seemed to think I was single. I dont know if I was leading him on or anything...but I had forgotten to metion my boyfriend...I think it would have been a bit obvious being pregnant. But he is a REALLY sensitive guy and all. How do I let him know about my boyfriend without making him feel bad? --
The point of this question is I NEED HELP!? plz guyz...

Thanx...

Yasmin

2006-12-01 20:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Singles & Dating

coz i have lost a good friend

2006-12-01 20:15:16 · 24 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Friends

I'm asking this for a friend of mine (who's a girl). Whenever she goes out with her boyfriend, he apparently likes to "scan" for attractive girls and even voices his opinion out loud to his buddies when she is around. She asked me what it means when he does that. I told her that maybe he's just an asshole and she needs to get another boyfriend. However, most of the time he seems to really care about her. So i don't really know what this one means. Any one care to comment?

2006-12-01 20:14:43 · 20 answers · asked by Mister D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-01 20:13:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help me please???what do i do??
my ex broke up with me about 9 months ago and i still have feelings for him. recently he has come back into my life 'as a friend' he said. he said nothing has changed in my life since he last seen me. he is trying to get me to get another job and he is emailing me all these jobs to apply for and sending me his resume to use as a template and then he wants me to sent it back to him to review. he also called me three times at work and send me faxes. the first phone call was to see if i got to work safely as i had a car accident and had to get the train. my question is why would he go to so much trouble to help me? is this a normal thing that friends do for each other to this extent thjat he has gone to? is he wanting me to change for us to get back together?? is he wanting to see if we arent going to fight anymore?? what can i do do we can get back together??

2006-12-01 20:12:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 19 years old i have an obsessive/phichotic gurlfriend actually she is 16 goin to turn 17 she is very jealous like i cant even talk to no other gurl besides her she is always crying and cutting herself whenever she hears some about me or some other gurls from my past relationship i realy dont know what to do i dont even walk with her on the streets because the last time i did she was nagging over my ex she ran in the middle of the street a car almost hit her i mean its serious matter i tried so many times to break up with but everytime i try to tell its not working between us she tries to kill herself but now i'm being scared of the thing she might do to herself what is she kills herself would be considered as a pedophile
because of our age differencial we been goin out almost 2 years now what should i do i need help i tried everything or maybe not all

2006-12-01 20:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-01 20:12:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i wanna have a relationship but at the same time i dont want too...im confused

2006-12-01 20:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

caught the boyfriend cheating. I kicked him out and told him to go back to the b$%#@ house. He's sitting out in the car. I also broke his cell phone. I'm really angry and would like to vent since he's very materialistic. He almost had a heart attack when he thought I was about to bust his t.v. should I cut up his clothes? And what really pisses me off is that I work full time and I'm going to school full time. I'm very attractive and meet people every day. And you know how I find out. I've been asking him every day where he's going even though he never knew I had his password for his cell phone. And then I kept seeing his car parked and every night I'd ask him where he'd go and he kept lying. And I kept smiling and telling him I hope he had fun, even though I knew he was lying. Like 2 days ago he said he was at a club, and I was like that's funny you don't smell like smoke. and he told me one of his friends loaned him a shirt. I was thinking of cutting all his shirts in half.

2006-12-01 20:11:26 · 12 answers · asked by this is it 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I really like this girl at work, but she is a 3-4 yrs older than me... have not told her yet,,, but have given her hints by helping her in whatever way I can,, I just want to convey her that I like her & do not expect her to reciprocrate that. Thing is, I really really just want to see her happy, & if that person who will get an opportunity to make her happy can be me, than I would be really fortunate. I wish to tell her so many things, but really get nervous to realise what if she gets hurt by this.
Moreover, my friend, to whom I have told that I like her,always discourages me to talk to her, dont know why, & these days I have seen him being too friendly with her, which is really hurting me a lot. I know I might be wrong in getting hurt, but he even sometimes bumps into us when I have an opportunity to talk her. To me he keeps on telling that he does not like her, but when she is around, he becomes over friendly, which I really hate.
Really do not know how to handle this.

2006-12-01 20:11:25 · 6 answers · asked by Dhruv 1 in Singles & Dating

That's going to be really difficult. How would you be able to tell that Good girls have naught sides? Especially if you're in that "acquaintance" phase?

2006-12-01 20:10:04 · 24 answers · asked by sk97us 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is the kind of guy that is really laid back and calm about everything! but the thing is that he likes to play fight and i do too, but when i gets ruff and i tell him to stop, he does not!! i end up having bruses all over my body and they hurt really bad! what can i do to let him know in a nice way that he is hurting me and it needs to stop before our relationship is over?

2006-12-01 20:07:53 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends