I mother of litlle boy (10 m). I'm married but my husband didn't help me/ He is only sleeping and wathing TV. That all. I want left him. I haven't helper. I want carry about my sun, not my man. Am I right?
2006-12-01 20:23:42 · 12 answers · asked by mskoda79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to sit down and talk to your man about helping you....Don't leave a man because he's not helping, especially if he is a good man....Weigh your good with the bad and make your decision...I think one of the major problems of a relationship is that we don't communicate what we want, we just expect the man to know what we are thinking....
2006-12-01 22:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you married and made a baby with a loser.
Your emotions are right, but despite your emotions, you need to stay with his father because your son needs his mommy AND his daddy more than you need help. You chose this loser to be your husband and the father of your baby. You knew he was a loser before you got knocked up, it's a little late to change your mind.
I suggest you accept the fact that your husband is lazy and be the best mom (and wife) you can be...perhaps your husband will come around one day.
There are few excuses for divorce: abuse, addiction, adultery or abandonment. So unless your husband is a drunken ******, you gotta suck this one up.
See if you can get some help from friends, church, neighbors or family.
2006-12-02 04:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by leave me alone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me that you have some education. If you want to live a life independant of your husband, you might need to prepare yourself before you leave. Make sure you will have a place to live. Make sure that you will be able to support yourself. There are WAY WORSE things in this world than a husband that doesn't help out in the home. Please think about what you are planning. LOOK AROUND. Many women are trapped in a marriage for way worse reasons than a husband that won't help with the housework or the child care.
2006-12-02 04:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kaye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if "I am Right or Wrong" you are already convinced that you are right, you just want to here other people say it. Like all things there is a least two sides to this problem. Yours we have herd his we have not. So anyone that says you are right is just stroking yours and there own ego.
2006-12-02 04:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should take care of ur son not ur husband!! He is old enough to take care of himself!! tell him if he doesn't start helping u will leave him & he'll never see ur son again!! that should work! If it doesn't go to a relatives house for a few days & see what happens! Hopefully ur husband somes to his senses soon!!
2006-12-02 04:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should care about your son not your husband your son is your own child tell your husband to get off his butt and help you out......
2006-12-02 04:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your saying, your English is terrible. Perhaps that is why he watched TV.
2006-12-02 04:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure how you survive if he isn't working. you need to brush up on your english or your son is going to have tough times ahead. hubby needs to support his family.
2006-12-02 04:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first...for the sake of your child...
tell your husband first what you fell.
but the best way to solve that problem is that follow your heart
2006-12-02 04:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart, i think you're still really young. i hope you'll go out there and get yourself educated and make sure your son doesn't turn out like his old man. you really should leave.
2006-12-02 04:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by janicebks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋