Why is it often assumed that just because . . .?

Question

Why is it often assumed that just because a woman is divorced that she 'hates' men. Me...was in long term marriage, divorced, healed, began dating...I adore, value and respect men. I focus on what an individual is about...not to blanket what one (or more) men have done and blanket it over to others. Why the often assumption of 'men bashers / haters' ? Honest answers please.

Answer 1

well honey this is my honest answer.
there r too many relationships that end badly (abusive) normally the abusier is male. so we assume, for good reason that women coming out of that situation would not be to crazy about men.
can i ask, before ur healing process how did u feel about men?
its not like i could blame women for seriously disliking men for awhile after a divorce.
one thing we do like is the fact u was in a long term relationship in the first place. that means taking a chance with someone like u would be worth the chance.

Answer 2

actions speak louder than words. If you are a man basher an intelligent man will spot you within 10 minutes. My guess is you apparantly are because you are asking the question. You must have done things to send out the signal--you are a typical slob pig and I won't put up with any crap from you. Men have detected that signal from you and react accordingly

Answer 3

Who assumes this? I've honestly never heard this before. When I hear someone is divorced I think that they have the guts to get out of something they know isn't good for them and have the experience to take to another relationship

Answer 4

takes time to heal from what you are sensitive in hearing about relationship and what you know is b.s. when u like something you'll be just fine, no one is comparing you to stupid and you can't fix stupid, how do hearing this bait u into it, that is how you stop it or control it, but it isn't what you think when your too close to it to c focusing else where will give you balance and support, be with the side of you that is positive for supporting what you want and it will support what you get

Answer 5

and why do men just assume that because you are divorced you will jump into bed with them on the first date? I had a freak ask me once if im not horny, cause im used to getting it everyday! oh and i dont hate men...

Answer 6

cause people tend to put you in a category,they assume everyone is just like the majority i suppose,cause a lot of people do end up hating the opposite sex for a while after the breakup, it's part of the mourning process i suppose but people forget that everyones deals with stuff differently. well thats my theroy anyways..lol

Answer 7

well you all have this wall up and an attitude problem .you try not to get involved too deeply and always back out because "he used to do that "and it seems to be a direct result of a woman harboring too much resentment towards all men because of what 1 man did to them .

Answer 8

there are many people who have experienced "men bashers" and that is what they expect. over time, they learn it was just one woman that hurt him. it is nothing personal.

Answer 9

i feel that hwne a women has been in several long relationships.. that maybe she's getting a little tired of commitment, and maybe jaded about love..hemce the man bashing... it probably my own insecuities though... along with every other male..

Answer 10

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