caught the boyfriend cheating. I kicked him out and told him to go back to the b$%#@ house. He's sitting out in the car. I also broke his cell phone. I'm really angry and would like to vent since he's very materialistic. He almost had a heart attack when he thought I was about to bust his t.v. should I cut up his clothes? And what really pisses me off is that I work full time and I'm going to school full time. I'm very attractive and meet people every day. And you know how I find out. I've been asking him every day where he's going even though he never knew I had his password for his cell phone. And then I kept seeing his car parked and every night I'd ask him where he'd go and he kept lying. And I kept smiling and telling him I hope he had fun, even though I knew he was lying. Like 2 days ago he said he was at a club, and I was like that's funny you don't smell like smoke. and he told me one of his friends loaned him a shirt. I was thinking of cutting all his shirts in half.
2006-12-01 20:11:26 · 12 answers · asked by this is it 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like that Dr. Evil, he has a Mercedes too, he'll love that.
2006-12-01 20:14:24 · update #1
Yes he's cheating. i saw him walking out the lady's home tonight and she gave him a hug and a kiss at his car. Then he came home and when I asked where he was he said he was visiting his friend Marks house.
2006-12-01 20:20:29 · update #2
I've been watching his condom stash slowly disappear
2006-12-01 20:21:06 · update #3
what about the pain he's caused me. Material things can be bought, but if I have an std from dealing with him, then it's cool?
2006-12-01 20:22:45 · update #4
well you should vent as much as you want. and if u're living together which seems like so from what i'm reading. u should kick him out and not let him back in. in fact you should start the process of eviction to make sure he doesn't come back. and as for breaking his stuff. what's the point? it only helps that much and then he might turn around and sue you for the damage you did. and create more hassle and drama.
he doesn't deserve someone who works and studies so hard. i'm sure many ppl here have experienced the same thing. i know i have. its painful. no doubt about that. anyways, hope u feel a lil better. anyways if u need an ear just drop me an email. vent talk watever.
2006-12-01 20:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i ought to say in case you've somethin to fret about the following. If she replaced into being honest w/you she woulden't have grabbed her telephone and took it with her she had something to conceal. She didn't wish you to be certain who she replaced into texting talking to. also why the unexpected substitute in her look? should be she basically replaced into waiting for a substitute should be shes attempting to look marvelous for someone else. i should be careful w/ this. do not confront her quickly. attempt to be calm (definite i comprehend its complicated and painful) yet when you're affected human being and he or she if really dishonest on you she will be able to slip and also you'll catch her interior the act. See it really is human nature to ask questions and confront human beings, notwithstanding in case you basically act organic like each thing is sweet and u do not suspect her of a element yet really do and watch her like a hawk on the dl you'll locate out what she is doing and then you will be able to confront her with tricky info that she cant refute and dump her and detect a actual woman. Sorry if that sounds harsh yet even if that's the case thats what i ought to indicate you to do. good success.
2016-10-16 11:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really want to get back at him just sell all of his stuff on eBay and take his clothes to salvation army or goodwill at leas they will get a good use from it. and um ill give ya 20 bucks for the TV i need another one for my bed room.
2006-12-01 20:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by DR.PHIL-A-LIKE 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip.If you are not married the man has a right to explore his options, just as you do.Just because he has a female friend does not mean he is having sex.How would you like it if he accused you of something and then started tearing all of your clothes up and smashing your furniture up you don't have the right, you are gonna wind up in court
2006-12-01 20:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by blackbolt 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Pretend to make nice with him and then sell his car to a passing stranger for $20.
2006-12-01 20:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
just quit fighting , O' ..I don't mean make up or anything , quit upsetting u-r self , it's time to move on , just give him his stuff and move on , the quicker U do , the quicker U will move forward , go meet somebody that will appreciate you ..
Wow! Did ou give me bad rating , I'm on your side , its I know the pain won,t go away till you move on .. fighting will just continue the pain , I do wish you th best...
2006-12-01 20:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to get your Sh*t and leave....and thats it..move on..he will never change..its not going to be easy but unless you plan on going to work with him, to his friend's house, and the bathroom...you will not be able to trust him anymore...OOooo and don't break his Sh*t..because he can take you to court for that..and if he is really materialistic....He will do just that!!!
Good Luck!!
2006-12-01 20:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by milk4dababy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure he's cheating? I thought my ex-hubby was cheating. Turned out he's a meth addict. I didn't cut anything up. Handle it with class and dignity and let him know what he let go.
2006-12-01 20:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by ;-) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-01 20:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump him!
2006-12-01 20:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋