i told my boyfriend that tonight i was going 2 spend the night with my best friend who happens to be a boy but ive known him since kindegarten and i have only know/dated my bf 4 2 months and now he wont talk to me and says im cheatin on him and im goin to sleep with my guy friend and pretty much called me a hoe and i feel like if i trust him he should do the same so so yall think he has any right to be mad or should i just dump him or what plz help
2006-12-01 20:28:09 · 16 answers · asked by here to help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a right. I mean, you spent the night with a guy you've known your whole life, someone who gets along really well with you, knows you. Sometime good long term friends can become your lifetime partner. Though him calling you names was uncalled for.
2006-12-01 20:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be ,like, the calmest, most trusting person in the world because if I had a boyfriend and he told me he was spending the night with his best friend of the opposite sex, I would definately not think it was to play Parcheesi.... I think your boyfriend cares about losing you and is feeling threatened and wants to feel like you consider his feelings. Calling you a ho was an immature and poor way of expressing this. I'm not saying you should give up your friends just 'cause you got a man but be honest.... is there really nothing going on between you and kindergarten boy?
2006-12-02 04:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by RockabillyBanana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe the women saying dump him. thats bullsh*t if there man came home and told them "hey can i go stay the night with a girl" the woman would flip out.
if i was him i would dump u for even thinking this is ok. it shows total disrespect for ur bf. if u think this is ok then it would make me wonder where ur bounderies r.
2006-12-02 05:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only known him two months and he is beginning to try to "CONTROL" you by making you feel guilty or say goodbye to a lifelong friendship, I would really consider cutting the ties... before they BIND. Never let anyone take YOU away from YOU. Good Luck.
2006-12-02 04:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Hopperofweeds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be tit off if I were in his shoes. Truthfully if he told you that and his friend was a girl and she was really cute wouldn't you get mad? Be honest with yourself. If your going to dump him then dump him. But don't act like he doesn't have a right to be mad, he does.
2006-12-02 04:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sleep where you like. The question is not about sleeping arrangements, it's about trust. He doesn't trust you. And he's abusive to boot. Take a deep breath and move on.
2006-12-02 04:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont feel bad cause if you and that dude really didnt do anything theres nothing wrong with that. why did you spend a night with him anyways? i say dump he's azz, jealousy is for the weak!
2006-12-02 04:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by Peep STyLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is right....best firend or not, you are in a relationship and you just DON"T go spending the night with a male friend.
And your bf is a creep for calling you a hoe.
Neither of you sound old enough or mature enough to be in a relationship.
2006-12-02 04:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't spend the night with a male. i think he assumes you are doing more than sleeping. i would be mad and dump you if you were my girlfriend.
2006-12-02 04:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth....I would have a problem with my b/f if he did that with his best g/f. Depending on how much you care for your b/f you should set some boundaries. Even though he is your best friend...it doesn't seem right.
2006-12-02 04:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋