Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I like her very much.
She doesnt understand my language.
I try to impress her a lot but she never says me a word.
What to do ? She is 15 and i am 27. Is this a matter ?

2006-11-30 05:51:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you start to have really feelings for a girl you are dating, do you stop calling her, and gradually detach yourself? Is there too much at stake, so you run away?

This seems so backwards to me. I guess men aren't really socialized to deal with their emotions. What do you think?

2006-11-30 05:51:34 · 13 answers · asked by cyanide_kisses81 2 in Singles & Dating

he lives in virginia and i live in miami we always talk seeing each other again but we dont have enough money to see each other right now.

2006-11-30 05:50:56 · 13 answers · asked by Henrriette S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK here goes. Met girl on GUMTREE talked for a week on the net, I told her I was 20 when I am 18 and she is 22. Met up yesterday and I really, really, really, like her and don't want to **** things up before we actually develope something. I need this girl, or else I'll revert back to a selfconcious reck. What should I do.

2006-11-30 05:49:57 · 31 answers · asked by ANTJOHN 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 05:49:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For the past 4 months or so i've been dating this girl and i've just been falling in love with her. She is the nicest, cutest, most beautiful i have ever met. She says she feels the same way but she is afraid to make it official because she considers me by far her best friend and she's afraid that if we made it official then we would lose what we have. Her last boyfriend really hurt her when they broke up and they never talk anymore. I don't know what to do. Should i just keep with it until she is ready or should i just accept the fact that she wants to be friends even though she says she's falling in love with me?

2006-11-30 05:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by CrazyInLove 2 in Singles & Dating

I had an xfriend staying with my family, I sold some items for her, on my ebay account, gave her the money minus my fees. We had a huge fight and she moved back with her mom, to cover herself she is now saying I stole it and sold it from her, and she is telling everyone back home, I have moved since this fight started, Any suggestions on how to handle this? My family says just to let it go, people who believe her are not your friends, and if you go after her and start a no ididn't fight with her, I am just giving her what she wants. I hate that she is telling people things I didn't do though:(

2006-11-30 05:49:28 · 7 answers · asked by jasmine2 1 in Friends

2006-11-30 05:49:20 · 16 answers · asked by big_girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or anyone. I'm really passionate about my fam and he's heard me talk about everyone but my mom. The reason is I dont have a relatinship with her. The first "split" came when I was around 8. She got into drugs after my dad cheated (still unclear on whether or not thats what drove her to it, but I do blame him) and tried to straighten up a few times, but it never worked. She was in and out over the years and I havent seen/ talked to her her since I was 14, now 21. He is a family oriented person and wants to know what the situation is. I dont mind telling him, but I get sooo weak when I talk about this. Also, I dont want him to see me differently knowing I come from a broken home and knowing I have a drug addicted mom. How can I tell him the situation and not get so emotional? I think he desrves to know this part of my past & I dont wanna seem like I'm hiding anything.

2006-11-30 05:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, well, my friend Charlie has liked my other friend Elizabeth for like 2 years now. She says she likes him yet she turns him down every time he asks her out. Me and Charlie are like best friends so we talk all the time and the other day we kissed. Like French and his hand in my bra and everything. I told my friend Kayla and she told everybody and now everybody hates me. What do I do?

2006-11-30 05:48:19 · 10 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Friends

i hate when people are so rude to us in public.. does any of you have these problems? if so does it hurt you to hear about this?

2006-11-30 05:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 05:47:52 · 1 answers · asked by mido . 1 in Friends

Guys out there what do you like getting for gifts/ random gifts or even birthday gifts?

2006-11-30 05:46:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I ask my girlfriend what would she like for Christmas and she called me and said a promise ring. So how should I go about this? I do love her and want to be with her. I have never thought about a promise ring. I just thought about marriage then getting her a ring, but I was very happy to hear her tell me that's what you wanted. So could any of you ladies or guys help me out on the price ring, setting etc... I will spend as much money on her as need to just let her know how much I love her and want to be with her. Thanks in advance to everyone.

Be Blessed,

2006-11-30 05:46:24 · 5 answers · asked by coleman3030 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend. Im am his 1st real girlfriend. He always talks about wanting to do stuff with me to his friend but to tell you the truth he sucks at everything he does and when he is with me he doesnt try anything anyway. He tells me he is not worried about having sex but some of the things he has told his friend makes me think the only reason why he dates me is so he can finally be screwed.

2006-11-30 05:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Carissa H 1 in Singles & Dating

I screwed up with my boyfriend and cannot get him to speak to me so I would like to send him something as an apology. Most things that I see would be teddy bears w/ flowers. Does that look bad?

2006-11-30 05:44:35 · 15 answers · asked by Fawnie, Baby Deer, Little Deer 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i was at the mall last friday and i saw the guy i like with his girlfriend and he was talking to my brother. i was at the Claire's and when i saw him i just went to where my brother was sitting and once he saw me he left...what a heck is wrong?/ do u think he knows i like him? because @ church he won't stop starring at me!

2006-11-30 05:44:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so what kind would you like?

2006-11-30 05:44:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it unrealistic and desperate to do that?

2006-11-30 05:43:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are together for 4 years,we had our ups and downs,I supported him in many many occasions,i really love him..but why do I feel insecure about moving with him?why can`t I tell my parents about it?what is wrong with me?

2006-11-30 05:43:17 · 2 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel like im pushing him away.when ive ask him about it he says nothings wrong,trust me,i know tension when i feel it.whats strange is he can get on her and answer all kinds of qusetions,why not mine.also i have 2 kids and he has 1.to put it nicely my kids fight alot and get on his nerves.please help

2006-11-30 05:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by starr67 4 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP!!!!!!

2006-11-30 05:42:37 · 1 answers · asked by Some chick 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl in High School

2006-11-30 05:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have had sex with two different partners now and it has been uninspiring with both of them. My current boyfriend is pretty experienced and his last girlfriend had multiple orgasms during sex, so evidently I am the one with the problem. To be honest, I have yet to find anything remotely enjoyable about it. If we use enough lube then it doesn't hurt, but it doesn't feel good either. I always find myself just wanting it to be over. He can't get me off "manually" either. I really really like this guy and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I also don't want to fake it.

Does sex actually feel good for women? What can I do to make it feel better? Also, any tips on foreplay?

2006-11-30 05:42:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This year, I don't have many classes as I did last year with my friends. So I made some new friends, but I still kept in touch with my other friends. My new friends are all in the popular circle and my other friends think I'm turning into a prep. I was hanging out with one of my new friends, and when she left, one of my old friends asked me since when do I hang out with the "mean girls". I feel that my old friends are jealous and they are definetly judging my new friends. What can I do to prove that I still care about my old friends???

2006-11-30 05:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-30 05:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by jasmine f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 05:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going through a divorce, my husband had a restraining order taking out against me for a year. I want my name removed from the deed of the house we brought together. Is that possible?

2006-11-30 05:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by slim25female 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been w/ my wife for 10 years, married for nearly 3. Last March I found out that she had been having an affair with her high school bf for 2 mos. She said that she loved him, but agreed to stop seeing him so that we could work on our marriage. She said that I didn't spend enough time with her, so I pretty much quit the one hobby that I had, to spend more time with her. Then in Sept I find out that she is back with "him". I tried to work it out with her, but ended up moving out in Oct. I still have feelings for her, and she says that she doesn't know what she wants. She won't go to counseling, and I have paid a retainer to an attorney, but now she says "hold off" and is being nice to me. We have a small son together. I know that I can find someone else, and am not afraid to be alone, but what if I am doing the wrong thing? She is still seeing the bf. My friends say that she is playing me to keep me around in case the other relationshop doesn't work out. What to do?

2006-11-30 05:41:43 · 21 answers · asked by derby_guy_73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf & i have been dating for just over a year. He's wonderful there is just one flaw ... he seems to becoming controlling or obsessive. He wants me to change the following: stop drinking, stop going out, if i go out we must both be together "as a couple". He doesn't like me going out with certain friends.

I have done somethings that I said to him i wouldn't ever do again & he did catch me red handed - so i understand the trust issue! But get over it! I said i was sorry & wouldn't do it again!

I've recently left the country to spend xmas with my folks. We'll be apart for 3 months. While i'm away he expects: an email everyday stating what i've done, an sms everytime a) i go to bed b) i wake up c) when i leave the house d) when i get home. If he doesn't hear from me in about 8 hours- he freaks out & starts asking if i have done somethign wrong & if i have something to tell him!

I would like to put my foot down b4 this gets out of control!
How would u go about this situation??

2006-11-30 05:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by angelface 1 in Singles & Dating