i have a boyfriend. Im am his 1st real girlfriend. He always talks about wanting to do stuff with me to his friend but to tell you the truth he sucks at everything he does and when he is with me he doesnt try anything anyway. He tells me he is not worried about having sex but some of the things he has told his friend makes me think the only reason why he dates me is so he can finally be screwed.
2006-11-30 05:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Carissa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know what he's told his friend? He's got a really crappy friend if he's telling you all that... some stuff is meant to be kept in guys only conversations.
2006-11-30 05:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Viki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, honey, he is. Unfortunately, that doesn't mean he wants his first sexual encounter to be with someone who says he 'sucks at everything he does.' Show a little compassion. He is obviously not your first boyfriend. Teach a little in a non-threatening way. Tell him you like it when he....whatever. Be positive. Don't consider yourself so low that you think you have to 'screw' everyone you date. This guy might be a slow learner, but he is a class act. Be glad he is not experienced and that he treats you with respect.
2006-11-30 05:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first boyfriend was like that. After we broke up he still talks about doing stuff. I think he'd like to, since it's rare you'd find a guy that passes up the chance to have sex, but you should probably give it a little bit more time anyways.
2006-11-30 05:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared he tells his friends that he does thinks to you but doesnt actually do it. He is just using you as evidence you should tell his friend the truth and see whats really happening.
2006-11-30 05:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Todd D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is bragging to his buddies. If he just wanted sex, I would think he would go for it and not be dragging his feet with you. You sound young though in which case, skip the sex all together and go get some icecream!
2006-11-30 05:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men can't get enough of sex and all they want is some ***! Besides, I don't understand why he would confide in his friend about his sexual behavior and pass it on to you! If you think that your boyfriend isn't treating you right, let him go and move on!
2006-11-30 05:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a sexual move on him, watch him *** in 2 seconds flat, then laugh about it with your gf's
He may just be going out with you to spread rumors that he is having sex with you even if you are doing nothnig.
2006-11-30 05:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you KNOW the answer to the question...I think you're a very perceptive young woman. Go with your "gut" feeling, you will hardly ever be wrong!
2006-11-30 05:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by DON S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, if he doesn't spend time with you then, he only wants to get in your pants.
2006-11-30 05:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he's just using you to brag about sleeping with you even though you haven't to his friends to incress his ego
2006-11-30 05:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋