This year, I don't have many classes as I did last year with my friends. So I made some new friends, but I still kept in touch with my other friends. My new friends are all in the popular circle and my other friends think I'm turning into a prep. I was hanging out with one of my new friends, and when she left, one of my old friends asked me since when do I hang out with the "mean girls". I feel that my old friends are jealous and they are definetly judging my new friends. What can I do to prove that I still care about my old friends???
2006-11-30 05:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should tell them that you're not the same person that you were and that you're trying out new experiences
2006-11-30 05:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Some chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Balance out the time you spend with both groups of your friends. Invite your other friends to hang out with your new Friends, try and include them. If the "mean" girls don't want your other friends hanging out with you, then that should be a clear indication that these popular girls are not your real Friends. The obviously like you for money or the clothes you are wearing and not for you.
2006-11-30 13:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a slumber party with all of your friends so that your old ones and your new ones can all meet and hang out. Hopefully if your new friends are good friends and GOOD people, not mean girls, then they will like your old friends just as much as you do!
2006-11-30 13:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ditch them. I had this happen too. I was in the "stoner" crowd for awhile and then decided that wasn't really me, so I started dressing nicer and talking to less stonery people. My friends accused me of being a prep too. But I stayed friends with them, I just chose not to dress like a stoner and smoke pot.
2006-11-30 13:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean you are changing into preppy girl as long as you be yourself , both with old and new friends, If your old friends can't accept your new friends then you set time aside for your old friends. Just because your friends don't like each other doesn't mean you have to act like them.
2006-11-30 13:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by DOLLY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all hang out with your old friends. Talk to them go out with them. Get your new friends to meet your old friends then you guys will be this big group of friends that have fun together. It sounds like your trying to please everyone. Who do you really like hanging with. Thats the true question.
2006-11-30 13:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to them if they do not listen and do not know the real you then they are not worth beeing your friends and I think you are right they are jealouse of you and you do not need friends like that just do what makes you happy and dont pay attention too friends like that they are worth your time
2006-11-30 13:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy em somethin to show u still care
2006-11-30 13:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Big-Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with ur old friends after school.and talk to them, like go out to lunch. make xplain to them that your new friends r fine and you know (don't tell them wat is in " ") "if you are happy with ur new friends then let them be ur freinds but don't forget your old friends b/c one day you are going toneed them and they won't be ther for, bu tif u r hanging out with the popular group just becuase u want to be popular them that zn't wat u should be doing, but hey i am not your mom or dad"
2006-11-30 13:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with them on the weekend!
2006-11-30 13:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋